i wouldn't hook up with him at his place either, and it's unfortunate because he's actually a cute guy and probably a fun fuck, but he's still putting people at risk being at that house because he prioritizes unhealthy frugality over hygiene and cleanliness.
imagine having sex with him and wanting to use the bathroom and all you see are dirty, holy towels and bottles of cans in the tub. even there are tiktoks of him pinpointing possible mold. you're posing health risks to other people.
then he makes these posts about how he's been single for 9 years and how he gets ghosted or rejected, and he doesn't seem to gather why. i don't think it's right to necessarily diagnose him, but something is definitely wrong and i feel that these habits will only push people romantically away. it's a chore to have to adapt to someone else's lifestyle that depends on frugality when he doesn't have to live the way he does.
it's literally a lot of stuff on his videos that got me like... this has to be a nikocado avocado social experiment. unplugging your refrigerator with perishables inside, not washing your pan full of beef fat and using it to season your eggs, using scissors to clip your toenails... it has to either be ragebait or he truly does this.
either way, i hate i'd still give one night with him because that dick is beautiful lol