You weren’t addressing me but I felt the need to chime in. There is obviously nothing wrong with dating or being attracted to persons outside of your ethnic group but when you factor in people who EXCLUSIVELY date outside their race that’s when it becomes problematic. I believe Karamo Brown is one of those people.
Thanks for your input. I didn't consider looking at it that way. But still what's the problem exactly? People have their types and everyone is different. When did exclusively dating one race that's not your own, mean you hate another race whether it's your own or not? I'm black and exclusively date black men, it doesn't mean I hate white men. It's simply my preference to date black men, yet I can still find white men attractive.
 
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Thanks for your input. I didn't consider looking at it that way. But still what's the problem exactly? People have their types and everyone is different. When did exclusively dating one race that's not your own, mean you hate another race whether it's your own or not? I'm black and exclusively date black men, it doesn't mean I hate white men. It's simply my preference to date black men, yet I can still find white men attractive.
You're black? I'd like to know what you look like. Black men are my favorite. :p :emoji_heart:
 
Yes it’s giving raceplay and racial fetishism
So what kind of argument is that? :confused: Black men are just my preference. That's just wild isn't it? :eek: Ever seen porn actor Black Hawk? Or Onlyfans model Sin City Papi? They are such fine black men! :heart_eyes::heart_eyes: I couldn't get enough of Black Hawk for about 2 1/2 years! HE'S SO CUTE! I love his handjob videos. I've been looking for a long time for one to jack off with. What is up with the sudden ridiculous crap from people on here lately?!
 
Thanks for your input. I didn't consider looking at it that way. But still what's the problem exactly? People have their types and everyone is different. When did exclusively dating one race that's not your own, mean you hate another race whether it's your own or not? I'm black and exclusively date black men, it doesn't mean I hate white men. It's simply my preference to date black men, yet I can still find white men attractive.
I hear you, except that you and the rest of us don't live in a vacuum or outside of history. In the US alone, Black people have been subject to multiple forms of dehumanization and objectification for centuries. Black people did not arrive on these shores hating or dehumanizing White people, or creating the ideologies of racism and White supremacy. Those came with the European settler colonialists, and those ideas arose during the Enlightenment, and were put in place throughout the British colonial period and subsequent periods of US history. Forming relationships and families (which Black people have done, under a range of hardships, from the 1600s through today) was quite different from White people's experiences, and distinct from interracial (White-Black, White-Indigenous, etc.) relationships, which often involved unequal power relationships (especially during chattel slavery). Even today, Whiteness is still centered, valorized, extolled, considered normative, etc. I mean, we have this thread to center Black men from the US and across the globe, not because we "hate" White people, but because even on this cite, Whiteness quickly becomes centered in general threads (look at the sports ones, etc.). So a Black-Black relationship need not involve "hating White people," because it represents a counterpoint to the US expectation of Whiteness as the norm. It is still the case that, as the late, great Joseph Beam said, "Black men loving Black men is a revolutionary act."

TL;DR version: Comparing a Black-Black relationship to a White-White relationship or a White-BIPOC one doesn't take into account the reality of the world we're living in.
 
So what kind of argument is that? :confused: Black men are just my preference. That's just wild isn't it? :eek: Ever seen porn actor Black Hawk? Or Onlyfans model Sin City Papi? They are such fine black men! :heart_eyes::heart_eyes: I couldn't get enough of Black Hawk for about 2 1/2 years! HE'S SO CUTE! I love his handjob videos. I've been looking for a long time for one to jack off with. What is up with the sudden ridiculous crap from people on here lately?!
Not trying to or going to argue with you. I stopped reading after you asked me have I seen some pornstar , that’s asinine and irrelevant. There is no argument just observations. You made your preference known loud and clear, you also made generalizing statements about black men body parts and weird suggestive statements about black men in general. No one is arguing or being mean or giving you “ridiculous crap” your comments are fetishizing black men.