What's the deal with girls taking back men who cheat on them? All I know is that they love the person for legit reasons and want to believe that it can work. But really, I can't imagine the good outweighing the bad. What baffles me beyond belief is the multiple cheaters who have been given second and third chances and STILL get taken back. WHAT THE FUCK?! There are wonderful guys out there who haven't ever had their FIRST chance, and these girls go back to guys who have proven themselves as lacking proper understanding of the word faithful? I'm rather young (23 next month,) but I have yet to know or hear of a woman who doesn't give her "man" a second chance. A girl in one of my classes even admitted to the whole room (it was a small, personal class) that she took back her boyfriend after he cheated on her 10 times. I know that's her problem but please, say it isn't so - is this the majority of the female race? Like I said, I haven't known or heard of any woman who considers this selfish act intolerable and kicked him to the curb for good after one screw-up. Even in the media...don't get me started on Tiger Woods... The worst of all is the cheaters who are also abusers and get multiple chances, and say that they have "changed." Do abusers ever really change? Even after being taken back and going back to their old ways? Sorry if this is the wrong forum - I was debating putting this into "Relationships..." but what I am looking for is for feedback from the females here about what they would do in such or situation, or unfortunately, have BEEN in such a situation.