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your host reserves the right to throw your gormless ass out.


what's a gormless ass?


nevermind. i looked it up. but whose ass isn't lacking intelligence?

to paraphrase John Kennedy's famous jelly doughnut speech in Berlin-
'And, therefore, as a free man, I take pride in the words "Ich bin ein gormless ass."
 
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When I walk into a restaurant and people are behaving in a fashion I don't approve of I leave. If those people happen to be managers or owners, I still leave. I go somewhere that I can be comfortable. I don't sit around and whinge about the way the place is run. I up and fucking leave. I don't sit around and demand that those whose behavior offends me explain themselves. I just get the fuck out and find a place that suits me.

Net-net: Whining about this place and the way it's run is just poor form. It's rude, obnoxious, and counter-productive. Unless you LIKE hanging out and pissing off the people who are extending you their hospitality. If that's the case, well, you're doing a good job.

But if you assume the right to insult your host, your host reserves the right to throw your gormless ass out.

SPOT- fucking-ON!

Some people do leave but just cant resist coming back to piss all over the floor & shit in the corner.

Anyone for a pint of BITTER?
:beerchug:
 
I've posted similar threads, and they were shitcanned, or at least removed from view. At the time, I didn't make a public whine of it, nor did I feel I needed anybody else to jump to my defense. But then again, I'm not a nubile twentysomething female whom a lot of people want to have sex with. OH, and did I mention the fact that I see it as the owners and moderators' right to do as they see fit with posts, mine included, so I don't give a shit what happens to something after I write it? Almost all of my posts here have been done with the purpose of eliciting a response from the reader. I have chased a lot of people's compulsions into the light of day and had quite a few belly laughs from it. And judging from the PMs I get, I'm not the only one who gets a chuckle out of the responses. So I don't give a shit what the other members think. I'm not here looking for friends, and the ones I've found here have been purely by accident. I have F&B friends who understand what the word "love" means. If I were here looking for any kind of fulfillment at an emotional level I'd have long ago grown a pair and shot myself. I came here to giggle at people who are easily manipulated, and have hit the jackpot.

When I walk into a restaurant and people are behaving in a fashion I don't approve of I leave. If those people happen to be managers or owners, I still leave. I go somewhere that I can be comfortable. I don't sit around and whinge about the way the place is run. I up and fucking leave. I don't sit around and demand that those whose behavior offends me explain themselves. I just get the fuck out and find a place that suits me.

I see a really interesting phenomenon at LPSG and a few other sites I frequent. People stay here and bitch, rather than get the fuck out. These are the same people who wouldn't hesitate to leave a restaurant/bar/party/whorehouse/grocery store if they were offended, but they stay here and they grind on and on and on with their endless, mind-numbingly repetitious criticisms of LPSG and the way it's managed. It's fucking strange. If I cared to know, I would ask why, but others' motivations is not something I really concern myself with. If their behavior is having a negative effect on me, I let them know. If they can't give me what I need, I seek to have my needs met elsewhere rather than stay where I feel I'm being abused and insist that others change to accomodate me.

Net-net: Whining about this place and the way it's run is just poor form. It's rude, obnoxious, and counter-productive. Unless you LIKE hanging out and pissing off the people who are extending you their hospitality. If that's the case, well, you're doing a good job.

But if you assume the right to insult your host, your host reserves the right to throw your gormless ass out.


Amen.
 
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Ok, I'll be the twat who think the occasional post is worth preserving.

http://www.lpsg.org/86545-i-want-person-gone-threads.html

and for good measure

http://www.lpsg.org/95333-troll-feeding-other-counterproductive-behaviours.html



DC your point about the paying customer recieving what they paid for as advertized is a good one except for one flaw.

The forums are free to read for everyone, including non-members.
The forums are free to read and post to for all members. Chat and blogs are also free.

Paying members are only paying for unrestricted gallery access without having to reach 1000 posts first. In no way is this paid feature being hampered by the removal of a thread from the forums.
 
Nitpicky, but true!

You want nitpicky?

The thread was addressed to the mods and the owner yet was posted to a public forum rather than in the support center where only the complainant and the mods can read and respond to it. (The forum's intended purpose, btw.)

The thread has since been removed from public view.

Now here's a thought experiment.

AlteredEgo is an intelligent woman with very good reading skills. She understands the way the forums work. She knows that bannings have never occurred by a popular vote by the membership. If it's true that she intended this thread to be read by the membership at large, why so?

She addresses it to the mods and admins exclusively to give it the appearance of genuine concern...yet she puts it where those with no ability to affect such change as she suggests can read it. She has to know that inciting others to join her rallying cry against another member is considered harassment. She has to know that the thread will be removed from the memberships sight.

So why do it?

Possibly to make the moderators look like overbearing and heavy handed chumps, playing favorites and covering our asses when what we've done is procedure?

Clever plan really.

Most of you bought it.
 
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What about members starting threads with implied harassment of another member (in the pursuit of looking for another fight) but without specificially mentioning names? Is that as bad as "I want this person gone" threads?

DC your point about the paying customer recieving what they paid for as advertized is a good one except for one flaw.

The forums are free to read for everyone, including non-members.
The forums are free to read and post to for all members. Chat and blogs are also free.

Paying members are only paying for unrestricted gallery access without having to reach 1000 posts first. In no way is this paid feature being hampered by the removal of a thread from the forums.
I've seen more than one site with paying members getting screwed far worse than the ones here at LPSG, to the point where the website they subscribed to changed completely, paying membership was no longer required, and no one received any refund or apology. I would be really surprised if this site didn't mention anywhere that even as a paying member, this site is subject to change by the owner without warning or notification.
 
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You want nitpicky?

The thread was addressed to the mods and the owner yet was posted to a public forum rather than in the support center where only the complainant and the mods can read and respond to it. (The forum's intended purpose, btw.)

The thread has since been removed from public view.

Now here's a thought experiment.

AlteredEgo is an intelligent woman with very good reading skills. She understands the way the forums work. She knows that bannings have never occurred by a popular vote by the membership. If it's true that she intended this thread to be read by the membership at large, why so?

She addresses it to the mods and admins exclusively to give it the appearance of genuine concern...yet she puts it where those with no ability to affect such change as she suggests can read it. She has to know that inciting others to join her rallying cry against another member is considered harassment. She has to know that the thread will be removed from the memberships sight.

So why do it?

Possibly to make the moderators look like overbearing and heavy handed chumps, playing favorites and covering our asses when what we've done is procedure?

Clever plan really.

Most of you bought it.

Actually though, she placed it somewhere everyone could read it, mods included.

I think it was made to be open letter. The Declaration of Independence was written as a missive to Parliament and George III yet it was widely published to people in the colonies despite the fact they had no ability to legally release the colonies from British rule. Open letters have a noble history in political history. Did she write it hoping to gain backing and effect moderator action by the pressure of numbers? You'd have to ask her. I doubt it was written as part of some evil mastermind scheme to make the mods look bad. Everybody already knows the situation, it's no secret. She is not pointing out or creating any new criticism that hasn't already been voiced by others. In short, as far as that post is concerned, the mods already look bad by appearing to favor trolls, who, it has been noted by many, are on Rob_E's friends list, over the general membership.

I sympathize with the difficult position you're in but I urge you not to simply dismiss the post as baiting when I believe the post was written to introduce the subject to public debate. Whether the mods do anything about that debate is up to them, but at least the debate is allowed to occur. Instead the post is disappeared and that just fuels more resentment because people believe it's been deleted for raising something secretly forbidden to discuss by the secret court of the mod team.

I'm really trying to impress upon the mod staff that, regardless of moderator actions behind the scenes, it looks bad to everyone outside of the mod team when threads disappear. I suggest that perhaps much speculation could be avoided by leaving a statement saying why a thread is moved particularly when it's moved to the mod forum, or deleted when no obviously apparent infraction has occurred. Once again, it's the public relations director in me trying to convey a professional opinion about how the public interprets these actions.
 
jason els. Funny that you should reference the Declaration of Independence.

Intuitively, your view of LPSG seems to be that of a large, shared, open, communal-type, democratic experiment. Democracy and openness and communal sharing are, in fact, themes and ideas you've brought up again and again in some of your posts. You envision an evolving site such as this as striving for more honesty and transparency and generosity of spirit -- between members, and also between members and administration.

Posters like HickBoy, on the other hand, seem to envision the potentials of the site more crassly. A private institution. Able to kick out whoever, whenever, no questions asked. HickBoy seems to feel comfortable viewing the site as authoritarian; an oligarchy that need answer to nobody.

(which seems to destroy the spirit of the place)
 
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jason els. Funny that you should reference the Declaration of Independence.

Intuitively, your view of LPSG seems to be that of a large, shared, open, communal-type, democratic experiment. Democracy and openness and communal sharing are, in fact, themes and ideas you've brought up again and again in some of your posts. You envision an evolving site such as this as striving for more honesty and transparency and generosity of spirit -- between members, and also between members and administration.

Posters like HickBoy, on the other hand, seem to envision the potentials of the site more crassly. A private institution. Able to kick out whoever, whenever, no questions asked. HickBoy seems to feel comfortable viewing the site as authoritarian; an oligarchy that need answer to nobody.

(which seems to destroy the spirit of the place)

Hickboy is best taken with a wedge of lime and knuckle of salt. I'm very fond of him. He is, however, essentially correct. This is a private site, owned by one person, and it is his under his direction that the site either flourishes or wanes. I have been around long enough to know that LPSG has been what I advocate. It was a very different place and I believe its initial and rapid success was due to an administration system a bit more laissez-faire than the current because it attracted such an eclectic and brilliant group of people. This is why many senior members speak of their vision with such passion. I understand that Rob_E wants to make a buck off the place given what he spent for it, yet I believe both goals can be achieved to mutual satisfaction.

As for me, I'm just the loyal opposition in this instance. I have made many friends here, including on the mod team, and I loathe seeing these kinds of problems endlessly repeating because they detract from what made this site worth caring about in the first place. Large penises have little to do with that and I fear that's something of a shock to the current owner.

We can't undo the past and I'm not holding my breath that everything will ever be perfect because it certainly never has been. It's my hope that even with the changes we're going through, that LPSG can retain something of the spirit in which it started.
 
If it was meant for a public discussion why was it titled "Moderators, Rob, BAN..." ?

Strikes me as disingenuous. Perhaps so, perhaps not.



Everybody already knows the situation, it's no secret.
Not everybody. Some people have better things to do than read every blog repeatedly. Or even once. That's why we do rely in part on the membership to bring things to our attention. I wasn't aware of this new development until it was mentioned.

So, good of her to do so, but in the wrong location so it's been moved.

She is not pointing out or creating any new criticism that hasn't already been voiced by others.
Not voiced in the public forums. Nor should it be in such a way.

As a thread started to the detriment of another member it is considered harassment and IS a ToS violation, hence it's removal from public view.

By including a link to the offence she actually helps to further the offence itself. Again, cause for the thread's removal.
She acknowledges her own ToS violation in her post. More cause for removal.
Simplified.

IRL you can protest and picket any event you like. If you break the law doing so you can be asked to stay within the legal boundaries, removed from the event or even arrested.

On here you can protest occurrences. If you break the ToS doing so you can expect to have that dealt with according to site procedure as well.

In short, as far as that post is concerned, the mods already look bad by appearing to favor trolls, who, it has been noted by many, are on Rob_E's friends list, over the general membership.
General membership or a select few with a telling common interest?

Note away. I'm can't explain who has who on their friends list. I would submit however that it would look silly for a site owner to institute a feature and not allow those who sought to use it with him. I know that I have people on my friends list with whom I've never had any private contact but I liked a post or gallery pic so I accepted the request.

Nice of you to casually imply something with the mention, though.

As for the moderators looking bad, this is nothing new.

No action is seen until the word banned comes under some-one's name and that only happens after the ban is discussed which only happens after warnings, which in turn only happen after discussions.

Because you can't see the discussions or the early stages of action being taken it's ever so easy for those who want to cause division to cry foul or favoritism. It's a common ploy and it's disappointing to see how easily this ploy is fallen for time and time again.

Analogy time again.

The morning newspaper comes. It has articles to read. You can assume from such that the authors of those articles researched the story, interviewed a person or two and wrote it up for submission. You can also assume that it was approved by the editor for that day's edition.

Longer investigative pieces can take time to research and write. The editor may decide that it's incomplete and not ready for publication as yet or even that it's a bad piece and never to print it.

Just because you haven't seen an article on the front page doesn't mean there has been no work done on it.

Just because you can't see the moderator discussions or the early stages of action DOES NOT mean that they aren't happening.

Like I've never had to explain that before.:rolleyes:

People will believe what they want to believe. People will also try to persuade you to believe what they want you to believe.

So I'll ask again. Why would an intelligent woman address a thread to one group ("Moderators, Rob.. ") but submit it to everyone?

You mention the historical cases of this. Can you honestly not intuit that those instances were also to drive public opinion and put additional pressure on the decision makers?

3:57AM where I am...so...7:57AM where Kotch is...

I'm going to pass the torch. (sorry Kotch)

She always explains things much better than I do anyway.
 
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jason els. Funny that you should reference the Declaration of Independence.

Intuitively, your view of LPSG seems to be that of a large, shared, open, communal-type, democratic experiment. Democracy and openness and communal sharing are, in fact, themes and ideas you've brought up again and again in some of your posts. You envision an evolving site such as this as striving for more honesty and transparency and generosity of spirit -- between members, and also between members and administration.

Posters like HickBoy, on the other hand, seem to envision the potentials of the site more crassly. A private institution. Able to kick out whoever, whenever, no questions asked. HickBoy seems to feel comfortable viewing the site as authoritarian; an oligarchy that need answer to nobody.

(which seems to destroy the spirit of the place)

But he's right, willtom, he's right. LPSG is not a democracy - no one voted for Rob_E, nor for the admins and mods (well - the then mods voted for the new mods, but not the membership at large). Rob_E owns this place - it is his possession. That makes LPSG a (benign) dictatorship. HickBoy does not 'envision' that - that is just the way it IS. The way the members choose to treat each other within that system is their own business until they step outside the behaviour prescribed in the ToS, at which point the admins and mods respond as directed by the owner. It really isn't very hard to grasp.

If it was meant for a public discussion why was it titled "Moderators, Rob, BAN..." ?

Strikes me as disingenuous. Perhaps so, perhaps not.

Did you miss jason_els's post about 'open letters'? I'm not being sarky - he really did explain it very well. Often I have seen 'open letters' published in newspapers, to heads of state, heads of institutions, et cetera. It is an established form.
 
You want nitpicky?

The thread was addressed to the mods and the owner yet was posted to a public forum *snip*
So why do it?

Possibly to make the moderators look like overbearing and heavy handed chumps, playing favorites and covering our asses when what we've done is procedure?

Clever plan really.

Not clever. Disingenuous and slimy, but not as bright as I know her to be. Not nitpicky, either. Ah well, Smart people so dumb things all the time.

Most of you bought it.
Not me. I don't give a shit.