I have had loads of iterations of my time on the site. Main reason I joined was I found it by accident, wanted to build up confidence and comfort with my sexuality. I joined as an insanely closeted 19 year old. Mainly just used it for the chat rooms and porn links initially. And for exploring my sexuality, it is an excellent site for men with any homoerotic curiosities whatsoever too, so it worked well for the early days for me. Nowadays I'm all about the forums, there are some amazing posters on the site (particularly the female regulars).