I know versatile men exist, I am one. But for some reason, they are very hard to find, and when you express that you're versatile, some gay men question it. It seems like every guy I meet is either top or bottom, with little flexibility. It's kind of frustrating. Unless it's just for one hookup, I prefer to date another versatile because I want to enjoy the fun of both sides of gay sex.
Do you think true versatile men are scarce? Why do most gay men in apps or on the street tend to identify as either a top or bottom these days? Am I looking out in the wrong places?
Do you think true versatile men are scarce? Why do most gay men in apps or on the street tend to identify as either a top or bottom these days? Am I looking out in the wrong places?