Ever felt a closer bond with a friend for having seen each other's dicks?

[OldWise]

At my gym locker room, I got into a long conversation with a guy in his fifties, while both of us were naked. We were standing in front of a large mirror, which made it easy to eye each other's equipment without appearing to do so. A third naked guy came out the his shower and joined us, offering his evaluations of local gyms. Because we met in the middle of the room, far from our lockers and clothes, we only had our towels. I loved it.

Men need to be naked around other naked men and do guy talk. This is essential to male mental health. If the locker room were coed, this conversation would never have happened. (Mind you, I like being naked in front of women; but my two male companions probably would hate it, as both sported somewhat small penises.) No one ever covered his cock with his towel, for at some subconscious level we understood that being fully naked was part of the dynamic, unarmed, exposed, and vulnerable—all of this made instant male bonding possible. For a man's mental well being, he needs to naked with other men, no women, talking guy stuff, such as airplanes, cars, guns, women.... The encyclopedia Britannica informs us:

The history of the gymnasium dates back to ancient Greece, where the literal meaning of the Greek word gymnasion was “school for naked exercise.” The gymnasiums were of great significance to the ancient Greeks, and every important city had at least one.

 

[HotdogsUpLate]

That is very unusual and shows that it was more than just a regular friendship between guys

And he was the one with a girlfriend lol. I was single. I was crushing bad, though didn’t really admit it.

 

[Jacksbiguncutcock]

My best buddy and I jerked off a lot together back in the day. He said my cock was the biggest he had ever seen. He had a tiny little dick maybe 4 inches long. He loved to watch me jerk my big cock off and was amazed by my big thick cream cumshots from my huge mushroom head. He told his sister, his female cousin, and all our friends about is. Often we’d get together with two or three of them that wanted to see my big cock. There was lots of measuring and jerking and bonding!!!

Thanks for all the likes and comments. One of my great memories was fucking his cousin, tiny and gorgeous future beauty queen that was amazed by my big cock, while my buddy and his sister watched!!!

 

[MKFan31]

One of my closest bi-friends was somewhat homeless at the time. I would sneak him in while my so called "boyfriend/partner" was at work. (Btw I call him that cus at the time I had suspicions he was cheating on me with this guy I met a couple times saying they were work out buddies at the gym. My friend would shower up as I did a quick wash and dry on his current outfit that he only had. After his shower, I'd have him go into my room and wait there and be quiet as my "bf/partner/roommate" would come home and then would go to bed early since he had to work 2 jobs the next day. I then would go downstairs to the basement, grab my friend's clothes and head to the bedroom down there.
When I walked into my bedroom, he was watching a gay porn, with a rock-hard cock in his hand slowly stroking it. I walked over to him and looked at his rock-hard dick and then him and asked him what he was doing. He said he got horny and for me to come and sit by him. Of course, I would. I did get naked with him and we both were playing with ourselves and he told me to feel how rock hard her was and I was like omg bro you are really hard. I leaned over and started to suck him as he moaned and groaned in pleasure.. I then went to his balls and lick and sucked around there and was fingering his tight hole and ate him out sticking my tongue in his little furry box. He kepted moaning the more i did. He then jumped up and swallowed my cock and i was then doing the same. trying to be quiet not to wake the "roommate" up.
He then began to slow fuck my hole and it felt sooo good. He was just about to shoot and he pulled out and shot it all over my chest and belly as i was shooting myself. He then laid on top of me and we feel asleep together till the morning.
The next morning he got dressed and headed back out into the world. Later in the day he had come back in his station wagon full of all his stuff that he could get. He was living in his car and idk he was.
I later sneeked him in again and of course we did some more stuff. He told me that he had the best blow jobs by me that he ever got; even by women. He later confessed to me that to this day; no one has ever been better then me still.

 

[hstrychsr]

Yes, I got closer to some guys after we gave each other a show. I was unusual. I got my sexual needs met via my guy friends. Many of them graciously gave passes to their BF's, since I probably had already slept with them too! I need to feel a connection to the person I have sex with. So? My friends were happy to experience our friendship however it may happen to be expressed. Made those parties with friends mighty fun!

 

[soutaiga]

Living in a place where public bathroom is pretty common, I won't feel connected just seeing my friends naked, because when I was in middle school till college, I saw almost every single cock of my friends if they lived in the dorm too.

I feel more connected when I see their cocks erect. THAT is when see others as closest friends.

 

[pornmbk]

I

Living in a place where public bathroom is pretty common, I won't feel connected just seeing my friends naked, because when I was in middle school till college, I saw almost every single cock of my friends if they lived in the dorm too.

I feel more connected when I see their cocks erect. THAT is when see others as closest friends.

I figure overall it must be great to be in an environment that normalises showing and seeing each other's cocks like that among friends. Probably really healthy. I assume it's still hard going for the guys with the smallest dicks though. Was it ever awkward and did you pay attention to one another's sizes?

In the UK it's pretty uncommon to have communal showers in schools or gyms so we don't necessarily ever see our friend's dicks. It happens more among sports teams in the locker room I think. I guess that's why friend's seeing each other naked is a big step in the relationship to me.

Now seeing each other hard really is something else!

 

[soutaiga]

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I figure overall it must be great to be in an environment that normalises showing and seeing each other's cocks like that among friends. Probably really healthy. I assume it's still hard going for the guys with the smallest dicks though. Was it ever awkward and did you pay attention to one another's sizes?

In the UK it's pretty uncommon to have communal showers in schools or gyms so we don't necessarily ever see our friend's dicks. It happens more among sports teams in the locker room I think. I guess that's why friend's seeing each other naked is a big step in the relationship to me.

Now seeing each other hard really is something else!

I was one of the smaller ones so yeah, I kept trying to see other's size. I'm pretty jealous even today.

 

[pornmbk]

I was one of the smaller ones so yeah, I kept trying to see other's size. I'm pretty jealous even today.

Yeah I can relate to that. I've always tried to get a look at friend's cocks whenever I can (generally men's room) bc I'm smaller and fascinated by how big they might be. And definitely suffered the same jealousy too. In all I'm probably glad I didn't have to go through communal nudity with my friends tbh!

 

[5inchAussie]

That’s commendable that you were a caretaker.

@justaguy5000

Were the 30 guys all soft or some with semi's?

 

[5inchAussie]

I

I figure overall it must be great to be in an environment that normalises showing and seeing each other's cocks like that among friends. Probably really healthy. I assume it's still hard going for the guys with the smallest dicks though. Was it ever awkward and did you pay attention to one another's sizes?

In the UK it's pretty uncommon to have communal showers in schools or gyms so we don't necessarily ever see our friend's dicks. It happens more among sports teams in the locker room I think. I guess that's why friend's seeing each other naked is a big step in the relationship to me.

Now seeing each other hard really is something else!

Yes!!! When the whole group get boners in the communal shower, it's good to see the real sizes. You can't judge size by soft. Some are show-ers, some are growers.

 

[hotinsofla]

Yeah I can relate to that. I've always tried to get a look at friend's cocks whenever I can (generally men's room) bc I'm smaller and fascinated by how big they might be. And definitely suffered the same jealousy too. In all I'm probably glad I didn't have to go through communal nudity with my friends tbh!

Did you ever get busted checking out their cocks? If so what do you say?

 

[BIGBULL29]

@justaguy5000

Were the 30 guys all soft or some with semi's?

Is your question for justaguy5000?

I am a bit confused. Let me know. Take care.

 

[pornmbk]

Did you ever get busted checking out their cocks? If so what do you say?

Plenty of times! Sone didn't say anything but had a grin on their face and I think enjoyed the fact I was staring in envy of their cocks. A few made comments about not blaming me for wanting to check out their big cocks. And some just looked straight back at mine and laughed and made jokes about it being small, or seeing why I'd want one like theirs having one like mine. That was by far the most embarrassing way to be caught out

 

[zaratoga]

Living in a place where public bathroom is pretty common, I won't feel connected just seeing my friends naked, because when I was in middle school till college, I saw almost every single cock of my friends if they lived in the dorm too.

I feel more connected when I see their cocks erect. THAT is when see others as closest friends.

Care to share a couple of times when you saw them erect?

 

[J32]

I don’t know if closet is the right word, but for a group of my buddies we definitely felt more comfortable around each other. It started at Dodger Stadium. We used to go a lot for the cheap seats and they were famous for having trough style bathrooms. I always stood back and just pissed like I was the only one there. My friends used to wait for a stall to empty or find a corner of a trough where they could kinda hide. I’d make fun of them for being shy and eventually they came around to just peeing like normal. This led to us peeing like normal at various places usually in side by side urinals. We’d sometimes play who can piss from the farthest. We’d make a mess but we were young and stupid. Eventually I did comment on one friend who was uncut. He was the only one of the group.

 

[hotguy88]

Yeah me and my buddy saw each other naked quite a bit and then we started double penetrating this chick he knew

 

[pornmbk]

I don’t know if closet is the right word, but for a group of my buddies we definitely felt more comfortable around each other. It started at Dodger Stadium. We used to go a lot for the cheap seats and they were famous for having trough style bathrooms. I always stood back and just pissed like I was the only one there. My friends used to wait for a stall to empty or find a corner of a trough where they could kinda hide. I’d make fun of them for being shy and eventually they came around to just peeing like normal. This led to us peeing like normal at various places usually in side by side urinals. We’d sometimes play who can piss from the farthest. We’d make a mess but we were young and stupid. Eventually I did comment on one friend who was uncut. He was the only one of the group.

That's great! How did your friend size up?

I've always used urinals, even when I lacked confidence and wouldn't have wanted friends getting a look (which a number did, was embarrassing at the time, I got over eventually and ultimately helped me be more confident). The vast majority of my friends in my 20s and 30s did too. Only one friend at uni when we were 19/20 went into a stall when we went to the men's room together at the student union. There wasn't anyone else around and when he came out he said it wasn't bc of me he didn't use the urinal (he knew I was gay and found him attractive), it's just that he has a small dick so uses the cubicle. It came from nowhere and I was stunned he said it, then told him I was sure that wasn't true. He said no, I really do have a small dick. I was so surprised by him admitting it for no reason, had major respect for him bc of it, but also just even more curious about it and attracted to him after that!

I'm studying again p/t at an evening college so over the past 4 years my friends have been a real mix of ages (I'm 41 now, my youngest friends were 20 when we started). I've noticed the younger guys all use cubicles and would rather wait than use the urinals, whereas the over 30s don't care. I know at least one of the younger guys is hung so has nothing to worry about. Another admitted he gets pee shy with his dick out next to other guys. I don't know with the rest. Not sure if it's something a lot of guys that generation feel self conscious about, if these guys happen to have size insecurities, or if us older ones have been doing it for so many years we just don't think about it anymore.

I've been in the student bar on sports teams night and it seems like the sporty jocks aren't so bothered about it - but I've also noticed a lot of them have big cocks so it might actually have something to do with that after all!

 

[Jon1971]

That's great! How did your friend size up?

I've always used urinals, even when I lacked confidence and wouldn't have wanted friends getting a look (which a number did, was embarrassing at the time, I got over eventually and ultimately helped me be more confident). The vast majority of my friends in my 20s and 30s did too. Only one friend at uni when we were 19/20 went into a stall when we went to the men's room together at the student union. There wasn't anyone else around and when he came out he said it wasn't bc of me he didn't use the urinal (he knew I was gay and found him attractive), it's just that he has a small dick so uses the cubicle. It came from nowhere and I was stunned he said it, then told him I was sure that wasn't true. He said no, I really do have a small dick. I was so surprised by him admitting it for no reason, had major respect for him bc of it, but also just even more curious about it and attracted to him after that!

I'm studying again p/t at an evening college so over the past 4 years my friends have been a real mix of ages (I'm 41 now, my youngest friends were 20 when we started). I've noticed the younger guys all use cubicles and would rather wait than use the urinals, whereas the over 30s don't care. I know at least one of the younger guys is hung so has nothing to worry about. Another admitted he gets pee shy with his dick out next to other guys. I don't know with the rest. Not sure if it's something a lot of guys that generation feel self conscious about, if these guys happen to have size insecurities, or if us older ones have been doing it for so many years we just don't think about it anymore.

I've been in the student bar on sports teams night and it seems like the sporty jocks aren't so bothered about it - but I've also noticed a lot of them have big cocks so it might actually have something to do with that after all!

I think the jocks are used to changing and showering in the locker room together, so they're used to group nudity. Once you're at that point just pulling out your dick is nothing.

 

[pornmbk]

I think the jocks are used to changing and showering in the locker room together, so they're used to group nudity. Once you're at that point just pulling out your dick is nothing.

So true!