Expecting a girl to be shaved - is it a porn deviation?

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I PREFER it to be shaved, but hair surely wouldn't stop me from doing what I love to do ;D
Freshly shaved pubic area hitting another freshly shaved pubic area hurts like a bitch and leaves a nasty friction mark anyways. A trim will do.

Embarrassing enough, I tend to not shave as frequently because of a nasty boil or infected ingrown hair that lasted for 2 months, left a nasty mark and is finally gone away. :( Quite the self conscience time
 

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I don't expect anything. It tends to lead to disappointment. :wink:

I've experienced bush, trimmed, and shaved. It doesn't really matter to me - what she chooses for herself is an expression of her person, and if I am seeing her nude, then I am enjoying that expression as it is.

A woman with fully-natural hair (everywhere) is beautiful to me.
 

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Thank you for the advise, Strutter, I appreciate it..:) The boil thing was so bad I never want to go through that again. They can get infected and spread which is what happened to me - then burst on an airplane from the pressure! I know this is really grose, but this is what can happen to some of us who are very sensitive to razers. I went to an idiot doctor who tried to tell me it looked like some kind of VD, ran expensive tests and had me totally freaked out. When I got home, my regular doctor told me it was a boil. Way to ruin a vacation, I'll tell you!

So for you guys who demand this from the girl you are dating, if she says she is too sensitive and you care anything about her, don't press the issue. A close trim should be good enough I think.
 

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the shaveder the better. Love it when it's totally bare! won't watch porn if the girl isn't bare. Dumped a girl recently who didn't shave at all.. gross!!

The board is better off with banned idiots.

WTF 'expects'? Just the same as if a woman asked me to tidy, I would say "this is how I like my body to be!"
 

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Jesus, if it wasn't bad enough having to wonder if your body was going to be acceptable to a potential partner, now we're supposed to agonize over the degree to which we should shave? What next? "I dumped this chick because her areolae were a little too dark and she hadn't bleached her anus in a while"?
 

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Jesus, if it wasn't bad enough having to wonder if your body was going to be acceptable to a potential partner, now we're supposed to agonize over the degree to which we should shave? What next? "I dumped this chick because her areolae were a little too dark and she hadn't bleached her anus in a while"?


Yeah i find it odd what the current teenage and barely out of the teenage years find attractive. When a guy lifts up his shirt and you notice he doesnt have a happy trail....i get a little sad. The girls today are expecting them to be hair free. Look at all the ads on the TV and radio about Laser Hair Removal and how you should book appointments for your man to be hair free. Its silly to me.

One of these days the nursing homes will be full of Hairless and Tattooed old people.
 

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Thank you for the advise, Strutter, I appreciate it..:) The boil thing was so bad I never want to go through that again. They can get infected and spread which is what happened to me - then burst on an airplane from the pressure! I know this is really grose, but this is what can happen to some of us who are very sensitive to razers. I went to an idiot doctor who tried to tell me it looked like some kind of VD, ran expensive tests and had me totally freaked out. When I got home, my regular doctor told me it was a boil. Way to ruin a vacation, I'll tell you!

So for you guys who demand this from the girl you are dating, if she says she is too sensitive and you care anything about her, don't press the issue. A close trim should be good enough I think.

Man up!
 

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Yeah i find it odd what the current teenage and barely out of the teenage years find attractive. When a guy lifts up his shirt and you notice he doesnt have a happy trail....i get a little sad. The girls today are expecting them to be hair free. Look at all the ads on the TV and radio about Laser Hair Removal and how you should book appointments for your man to be hair free. Its silly to me.

One of these days the nursing homes will be full of Hairless and Tattooed old people.

Actually, I saw an old white man at the gym (70ish?) and he was tattooed head to toe and even had ear and nose stretchers. As I recall, he was wearing a Hawaiian shirt to boot. I saw it as the first of many to come.

I actually would be interested in laser hair removal, but only for the few on my back and upper arms. My uncle's back looks like a bearskin rug, and I desperately hope to avoid it. Shaving every day is annoying and sometimes I miss a spot or forget.
 

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I prefer it at least trimmed closely, not necessarily shaved though. I mean, almost all women shave their legs and underarms. Most men shave/trim their faces (and many of us shave and/or trim the genitals). We all trim the hair on our heads. Why wouldn't you also trim/groom the genitalia too?
 

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One of these days the nursing homes will be full of Hairless and Tattooed old people.

Hair grows back. Its not a permanent or unchangeable attribute. People act like wanting a shaved pussy is like asking a black girl to turn white. It just takes a razor, and if you don't like it, it will be back in 2 weeks... and even moreso... nobody is going to see your pussy but your lover, so what's the big deal?
 

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i'm sure she already said that the big deal was itching, soreness, infected ingrown hairs that last for weeks.
that and feeling freakish and uncomfortable with the way you look.
doing something that strips you of your body confidence is hardly going to improve your sex life.
 

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i'm sure she already said that the big deal was itching, soreness, infected ingrown hairs that last for weeks.
that and feeling freakish and uncomfortable with the way you look.
doing something that strips you of your body confidence is hardly going to improve your sex life.

I chose the quote I did, for a reason.