Gay guys, do you like small dicks?
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Really not an issue for me, not if I am into the guy. Small or average I prefer, but everyone is different
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I've had experience of all sizes, and seriously don't care, as long as it's nice and the guy attached to it nice/intersting/fun I'm happy.
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mate this is a hard question due are a lot of taste and situations.
a guy going to fuck other would rather his pathner have an invisible dick
but who is fucked ,would rather to get the bigest dick.
in porn film both used have huge dick .
but who is fucked must have dick a little up than average ,the idea is both fuck each other during the film.
in true life who is fucked must have a dick a bit little than average and the other average,
so them both feel, size dick scarcely.
and concern to shemales all them must have a huge dick and as much possible female appearence.
they are for those guys who like taste or admirer huge dicks but dont feel confortable with other guys body,that arent so sexy as female.
trans are more expensive than female, they say have spend a lot of money in built their body and that female born with it ,is natural any spend
but today nature female also change their body,of course no one start from cero as trans.
this is an introduction but we could say small dicks are nice for those straight guys who only like fuck a gay and dont see a huge bulk
a guy going to fuck other would rather his pathner have an invisible dick
but who is fucked ,would rather to get the bigest dick.
in porn film both used have huge dick .
but who is fucked must have dick a little up than average ,the idea is both fuck each other during the film.
in true life who is fucked must have a dick a bit little than average and the other average,
so them both feel, size dick scarcely.
and concern to shemales all them must have a huge dick and as much possible female appearence.
they are for those guys who like taste or admirer huge dicks but dont feel confortable with other guys body,that arent so sexy as female.
trans are more expensive than female, they say have spend a lot of money in built their body and that female born with it ,is natural any spend
but today nature female also change their body,of course no one start from cero as trans.
this is an introduction but we could say small dicks are nice for those straight guys who only like fuck a gay and dont see a huge bulk
Good to hear someone speaking honestly from a position of experience rather than presenting an opinion that isn't even their own. That is saying what they believe they should say about cock size in an effort to be civil. Why can't men express their true feelings on the subject? Afraid of looking shallow? Guess what. Having a preference for a physical attribute doesn't make you shallow it makes you normal.
Lots of good insights and experiences listed in this thread, and seems like quite a few are more attracted to the person than the meat. And some like larger, and have been happy to state it, others prefer small and been happy to state it.
Really interesting thread.
Not gay, so can't speak much from experience. However, I've been surprised by the number of guys at the gym who've cruised me, even after having seen how small I'm hung. They're obviously turned on either by my looks, my small dick, or maybe a bit of both. I'd always thought gays only liked them big, but my experiences at the gym and what I've read here show there are at least some who like them small, though perhaps not exclusively.
In all honesty, though, I have to admit that the opposite is true. I've seen guys who'd been figuratively drooling over me lose interest as soon as they've seen what I'm packing. One size doesn't fit all obviously.
Not gay, so can't speak much from experience. However, I've been surprised by the number of guys at the gym who've cruised me, even after having seen how small I'm hung. They're obviously turned on either by my looks, my small dick, or maybe a bit of both. I'd always thought gays only liked them big, but my experiences at the gym and what I've read here show there are at least some who like them small, though perhaps not exclusively.
In all honesty, though, I have to admit that the opposite is true. I've seen guys who'd been figuratively drooling over me lose interest as soon as they've seen what I'm packing. One size doesn't fit all obviously.
At the risk of sounding conceited and full of myself, I have that happen all the time. And I'm actually a homo, so you can imagine how disappointing it is for me. (Especially since some of them are super hot AND have it going on where it matters).
The best sex I ever had was with a guy whose cock was only three inches when hard. He knew what to do with it. Often guys with huge dicks haven't a clue how to please.
C'mon now. Do you really believe that or are you just saying that because it gives you a sense of moral superiority?
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i full agree with mate ideal 6,5 to 8 inches they are very commum ,
but should have 5 to 6 circunference,
and talking of girth a fat dick but only 5 to 6,5 inches lenght may be for some gays would be nice at suck time having it full and confortable in their mouth than one 8 inches lenght
and when a big one is not available also a fat dick 5 to 6,5 inches lenght could help a little as for emergency time
so we have gotten two uses for fat dicks between 5 to 6,5 inches dick lenght
but when same dick is 4 to 4,5 circunference better we must throught it to the dump
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As a sexually active bottom man. I do not discriminate based soley on cock size alone. there are other factors of attraction that come into play. Also, I am willing to give a guy a chance.
Let me ask this question, Since there has been a lot of SPH posts lately.
Would you Perferr a dude with an average peen, who was Way into you, Wanted to please you, was compatible with you, and wanted to date you? . . .
Or would you choose a guy who Only had a big peen, Who didn't really care about you, Was selfish in his own pleasure, Was incompatible beyond physical sex, and only wanted the one encounter and never meet up to fuck again.
I think I know who I would choose.
Let me ask this question, Since there has been a lot of SPH posts lately.
Would you Perferr a dude with an average peen, who was Way into you, Wanted to please you, was compatible with you, and wanted to date you? . . .
Or would you choose a guy who Only had a big peen, Who didn't really care about you, Was selfish in his own pleasure, Was incompatible beyond physical sex, and only wanted the one encounter and never meet up to fuck again.
I think I know who I would choose.
Giving two options like that is unrealistic and absurd. I'm sure there are plenty of big dicked guys who might want sex with a small cocked guy more than once and thought of sex as something that was supposed to be mutually enjoyable. As far as the rest I couldn't care less. I guess that defines a fuck buddy then? Is that third option available?
Actually now that I say that. Almost all of the guys who have wanted sex with me more than once have been average. None of them, as I recall have been well hung. So I guess there aren't "plenty" as I've suggested.
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I guess I'll approach this from both angles.
For the men I mess around with, cock size is just a plus (vaguely) if he's got extra; otherwise it's irrelevant. As a disclaimer, I've never encountered an unusually small - i.e., under 4 inches or so - cock, which I would probably be a bit perturbed by, admittedly. Because my physical attraction is based on things other than cock, if I'm already attracted the cock doesn't sway it one way or another. At most, there is a certain calculus: looks - body - personality/demeanor/sexiness. If you have enough of 2 of the 3, or a lot of 1, I'm good to go sexually, haha. Because of our strange new digital age where you can see a stranger's naughty business before you are even in the same zip code, let alone within physical proximity, I think an attitude has arisen where if you don't see everything upfront, it's not worth the time. I don't shy away from cock pics, but I find it strange when I get sent one right off the bat before even seeing a face; even if it's a very impressive specimen, I still need to see the rest, thanks. And while I'm also not shy about sharing my own x pics, I prefer not to if I'm approaching the guy from a dating rather than a hook-up perspective. But at the end of the day, there is now, for better or worse, a way to know one's cock size in advance of sexual encounters and base decisions on it accordingly.
For my part, as the owner of a very average (maybe even slightly under average, by some measures) penis, I feel as though it's a liability more often than not in my sex life. Some guys are more tactful than others, but there can be a bit of a palpable disappointment when the undies come off or if he, as so many guys tend to do, goes straight for the bulge after 5 seconds of kissing. I've had guys lose interest after that phase; memorably, one guy who drunkenly tried to go down on me in a men's room stall at a club while we were making out saw what I was working with, straightened up his clothing, and suddenly claimed (after initiating the whole thing) that he doesn't like to fool around in the men's room because it wasn't classy, and said good night. Heh. Another kept stroking me for a few minutes and then casually said, "I guess it doesn't get any bigger?" Good times. (But at least he stuck around, heh.) If I'm especially into the guy, sometimes I try to put off the "reveal" for as long as possible for that reason to at least enjoy it while it lasts. But because the apparent heavy majority of gays are so eager to suck dick and bottom, and because I am stereotypically masculine (deep voice, hairy chest, 5 o'clock shadow, etc), I think guys both fixate on cock and tend to hope I'm swinging a good size, and I can't do anything about that. At least I'm uncut, which intrigues a good amount of guys.
I mean, it is what it is. So if I'm just going to hook up, I tend to go after guys who are either mostly tops or who don't require penetration to have a hot time (the latter describes my approach, for the most part); this way the cock size thing is less likely to be a problem. For dating, I've either been fortunate with guys who also don't care about size, or at least I was blissfully unaware that it was an issue for them when we eventually stopped seeing each other. Occasionally I am tempted to start, like, an OkCupid profile with (I HAVE A FIVE-INCHER. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK.) just to filter out the guys who would be dissatisfied with that. And as far as hookups go, for variety's sake it'd be nice to change my usual selection and meet up with a guy who'd let me top him without my feeling self-conscious the whole time that I'm not doing anything for him (which is how I've always felt the occasional times I've done it, apart from an awesome ex whom I topped most of the time we were together). But, eh, I'd rather focus on the positive and control what I can, rather than dwell on the negative. I can't complain since I do get a fair bit of interest and play regardless.
For the men I mess around with, cock size is just a plus (vaguely) if he's got extra; otherwise it's irrelevant. As a disclaimer, I've never encountered an unusually small - i.e., under 4 inches or so - cock, which I would probably be a bit perturbed by, admittedly. Because my physical attraction is based on things other than cock, if I'm already attracted the cock doesn't sway it one way or another. At most, there is a certain calculus: looks - body - personality/demeanor/sexiness. If you have enough of 2 of the 3, or a lot of 1, I'm good to go sexually, haha. Because of our strange new digital age where you can see a stranger's naughty business before you are even in the same zip code, let alone within physical proximity, I think an attitude has arisen where if you don't see everything upfront, it's not worth the time. I don't shy away from cock pics, but I find it strange when I get sent one right off the bat before even seeing a face; even if it's a very impressive specimen, I still need to see the rest, thanks. And while I'm also not shy about sharing my own x pics, I prefer not to if I'm approaching the guy from a dating rather than a hook-up perspective. But at the end of the day, there is now, for better or worse, a way to know one's cock size in advance of sexual encounters and base decisions on it accordingly.
For my part, as the owner of a very average (maybe even slightly under average, by some measures) penis, I feel as though it's a liability more often than not in my sex life. Some guys are more tactful than others, but there can be a bit of a palpable disappointment when the undies come off or if he, as so many guys tend to do, goes straight for the bulge after 5 seconds of kissing. I've had guys lose interest after that phase; memorably, one guy who drunkenly tried to go down on me in a men's room stall at a club while we were making out saw what I was working with, straightened up his clothing, and suddenly claimed (after initiating the whole thing) that he doesn't like to fool around in the men's room because it wasn't classy, and said good night. Heh. Another kept stroking me for a few minutes and then casually said, "I guess it doesn't get any bigger?" Good times. (But at least he stuck around, heh.) If I'm especially into the guy, sometimes I try to put off the "reveal" for as long as possible for that reason to at least enjoy it while it lasts. But because the apparent heavy majority of gays are so eager to suck dick and bottom, and because I am stereotypically masculine (deep voice, hairy chest, 5 o'clock shadow, etc), I think guys both fixate on cock and tend to hope I'm swinging a good size, and I can't do anything about that. At least I'm uncut, which intrigues a good amount of guys.
I mean, it is what it is. So if I'm just going to hook up, I tend to go after guys who are either mostly tops or who don't require penetration to have a hot time (the latter describes my approach, for the most part); this way the cock size thing is less likely to be a problem. For dating, I've either been fortunate with guys who also don't care about size, or at least I was blissfully unaware that it was an issue for them when we eventually stopped seeing each other. Occasionally I am tempted to start, like, an OkCupid profile with (I HAVE A FIVE-INCHER. PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK.) just to filter out the guys who would be dissatisfied with that. And as far as hookups go, for variety's sake it'd be nice to change my usual selection and meet up with a guy who'd let me top him without my feeling self-conscious the whole time that I'm not doing anything for him (which is how I've always felt the occasional times I've done it, apart from an awesome ex whom I topped most of the time we were together). But, eh, I'd rather focus on the positive and control what I can, rather than dwell on the negative. I can't complain since I do get a fair bit of interest and play regardless.
I can relate to a hell of a lot of what you said there, especially the part about feeling self conscious that I'm doing absolutely nothing for the guy I'm fucking.
Except I actually have gone as far as having profiles that say something along the lines of "I have a below five incher, proceed at your own risk".
Except I actually have gone as far as having profiles that say something along the lines of "I have a below five incher, proceed at your own risk".
I doubt I'd appreciate the difference per say. How different it is to my own is irrelevant. I would just appreciate that you have a large cock.
