Help he's too long!

[B_Hickboy]

Kellogg my zee.
Fap.

 

[thirteenbyseven]

My wife has been happily dealing with my excess length for years- she uses her hand to limit penetration. I enjoy it also. When she squeezes the base it adds to the hardness, especially when I go for additional romantic "rounds" or when I'm tired and my penis is a semi-rigid floppy garden hose.

This gadget sounds like something sold on late night cable TV for $19.95 (but if you order right now there's more!)

 

[B_Over_Endowed_EMT]

If only Billy Mays was still around...

 

[petite]

Or do you like cut it down to two inches so the last two inches don't penetrate?

You got it. MB got it, too. :smile:

With most of these materials, you would probably have to cut it thicker than 2" if you wanted to reduce his depth by 2" because they're soft and squishy and they'll compress a little bit (or a lot) under pressure. It's best to start off too long and cut it down after trying it than to cut too much the first time and have to go out and buy another one! Sizing it requires a bit of trial and error. Silicone will compress less than jelly, for example.

It also provides a nice soft bumper for your clit which can increase pleasure during PIV sex.

Masturbation sleeves come in a lot of different materials, so it's important to get the right one that is firm enough to act as a "bumper" and also not so delicate that it will tear during sex and a design that is thick enough to work as a hilt. Not all masturbation sleeves will work, but many of them will.

Also, play safe, don't forget to look for "phthalate free" toys. Phthalates have been linked with various cancers, like breast cancer.

 

[B_Craiggers]

(aiming for a laugh, not trying to be a jerk)

 

[TragicWhiteKnight]

I use a couple of ComeClose rings to help make my length more manageable:

Come Close - The Solution to Painful Sex

I've tried using makeshift 'sleeve' solutions before but the aforementioned 'squishiness' is a big problem (and the cock-ring/sleeve solutions tend to be a bit tight and aren't as good as a buffer)

 

[RodRingo]

Wish I could show my mates who believe the vagina is like a blackhole (no limit) this thread.

 

[petite]

Wish I could show my mates who believe the vagina is like a blackhole (no limit) this thread.

Pop culture had perpetuated that myth through humor, which has been misread as fact by the naive. For example, the movie Chasing Amy has one scene with a lesbian who claims that a man's penis could never be too big, which she does to mess with the minds of the straight guys she's talking to. It's meant to be a funny scene, not an anatomy lesson.

According to my gynecologist, genital size mismatch is a common problem that many women talk to her about. It's the problem that led me to become a member here.

 

[blazblue]

Kellogg my zee.
Fap.

Fappity fap fap

 

[Hand_Solo]

Couldn't he use the Uncle Milty approach and just put in enough to win?

 

[basque9]

Here is a picture of 2 of my rubber cockrings that I spoke about earlier! Each one when worn effectively shortens my erect cock length by 1 inch. No reason why a guy could not wear 2 together, except, a single 2 inch sleeve might be more manageable for intercourse!

 

[RodRingo]

Pop culture had perpetuated that myth through humor, which has been misread as fact by the naive. For example, the movie Chasing Amy has one scene with a lesbian who claims that a man's penis could never be too big, which she does to mess with the minds of the straight guys she's talking to. It's meant to be a funny scene, not an anatomy lesson.

According to my gynecologist, genital size mismatch is a common problem that many women talk to her about. It's the problem that led me to become a member here.

I agree. Though unfortunely for me I hang around with people who are easily swayed by these myths when penial size is the topic; either they'll say there's no limit or 'set' a universal vaginal limit. =/

 

[B_Hickboy]

Fappity fap fap

Kellogg your bone-schwoobly zee, boy.

 

[B_Hickboy]

There. I has give my self a lift.

 

[baldyboy8000]

The donut works well for too much length

Here is a picture of 2 of my rubber cockrings that I spoke about earlier! Each one when worn effectively shortens my erect cock length by 1 inch. No reason why a guy could not wear 2 together, except, a single 2 inch sleeve might be more manageable for intercourse!

 

[twoton]

My wife uses her hand.
The Come Close idea looks like a good one, but spendy!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

We've tried the hand holding the cock a million times, it's not comfortable for either one of us. It also takes TOO much length off and gives me a 3 inch cock to be penetrated with and that isn't enough.

I will look into the ComeClose link that someone gave and/or go out and buy the innards of a fleshlight to trim down tonight at the Sex Toy store.

As for help from HysterSisters- no offense- but I hate that place. I registered there well before the hysterectomy. It should be renamed HarpySisters. Sorry.

Basque, my husband wouldn't know what a cock ring is for his life. It's not been something he's had to worry about or seek out for any reason.

Lafever, this has nothing to do with love. I could please him in a million other ways and I have done that before to know what to do. But I, "I" want to feel him inside of me. I want that closeness. I am the sexual aggressor typically. So this isn't about him showing how much he loves me by being patient. He would let me fuck other guys that are smaller than him and it still doesn't make him jealous as long as I continue to be the wife he has always had.

For those who offered advice, thanks muchly. I will keep you all posted.

 

[helgaleena]

I am an anal fan. Not everybody is-- but it's a tube and stretchable.

For vaginal, I think the donuts are just the ticket, and they will have them at your 'toy store'.

 

[SprinkleMe69]

Aw Rouge that sucks you lost vag inches too. Ugh frustrating. I hated that hystersisters site too. But sounds like you got some good suggestions. Hope you and the husband find a solution. Hugs.

Helgaleena, I had to laugh out loud at your "I'm an anal fan" comment. I envisioned you bent over with a fan on your buttocks. Haha sorry

 

[Guy-jin]

According to my gynecologist, genital size mismatch is a common problem that many women talk to her about. It's the problem that led me to become a member here.

Same. We had major problems that led to exacerbating vaginismus to the point of being unable to penetrate at all. I used fingers for months, starting with a lot of foreplay and literally just one finger to start and increasing to two and three over time. It really sucks, to be honest. I've had some amazing meaningless sex with women who I was compatible with only in the genital region, but sure enough the woman I'm most compatible with in every other way, I'm not really compatible with in the genital department. Not cool.

Totally different issue, I guess, but this is literally the first time I've considered anything other than just self-control over how deep I penetrate.

We can't do anything besides missionary without a lot of pain for her, which is not great. I'm not sure reducing length will solve that. How about some girth reduction ideas? :tongue: