i think i've finally lost all interest in men.

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In relationships, people need to be whole, and not needy. There's a fine line distinction in relationship that go back and forth on "What do I need" versus "What do I want?" (And never mind the "What do I deserve?")...My wife and I are pretty much clear on this issue. There is much joy in a working relationship.
 

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In relationships, people need to be whole, and not needy. There's a fine line distinction in relationship that go back and forth on "What do I need" versus "What do I want?" (And never mind the "What do I deserve?")...My wife and I are pretty much clear on this issue. There is much joy in a working relationship.
which is how it should be. :smile:

what do i want...
you're your own cake and they're the icing on it.

...and i'm not partial to icing.
 

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I became just the opposite. Women still turn me on sexually, and If I could have one that I could have "sex with no ties", that would be great :smile:

I don't want to deal with the mental and emotional differences anymore :mad:. I've beeen put through the wringer with the last 2 (total of 15 yrs) and when the last one ended, I swore off women.

Although, all of the above is irrelevant to me now anyway. I'm extremely happy :biggrin1:
 

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You seem quite unsettled because you want more from life, but you're smart enough to know that you can only achieve this yourself.

I don't know what you want to do, but once you start working for it you'll be happier, even if those around you won't be.

Don't waste your life not doing what you'd like to do.


I agree, I think this is key regardless of finding someone to be with.
 

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You seem quite unsettled because you want more from life, but you're smart enough to know that you can only achieve this yourself.

I don't know what you want to do, but once you start working for it you'll be happier, even if those around you won't be.

Don't waste your life not doing what you'd like to do..

I agree, I think this is key regardless of finding someone to be with.

Shit. Although this was genuine, rereading it I think I finally know how cold reading works!

I'm gonna set up my own spiritualist church!

Or set up Self Help the (Sl)eazy way!
 

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Although this was genuine, rereading it I think I finally know how cold reading works!

I'm gonna set up my own spiritualist church!

Or set up Self Help the (Sl)eazy way!

How did what I said get you to go there?
 

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it is just as exceptable for the woman to do the same
with a rabbit vibrator.

what hurts is the lack of genuine connection within mankind as a whole.
their is alot of liars,fakers,omitters,evaders to start a whole new
conspiracy.

noone is allowing their inner true love to love.
they are thinking about bad breath,no make-up,penis size,
vagina size,sexual orientation,money,competition,judgement...and it creates a blur.

a blur that blinds anything that is LOVE.

the eyes within the hearts of men are adjusting to
the light of what being HUMAN is.

do not doubt or you WILL sink.
:smile:
 

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noone is allowing their inner true love to love.
they are thinking about bad breath,no make-up,penis size,
vagina size,sexual orientation,money,competition,judgement...and it creates a blur.

a blur that blinds anything that is LOVE.

the eyes within the hearts of men are adjusting to
the light of what being HUMAN is.

do not doubt or you WILL sink.
:smile:
i don't do love.
it makes no sense to me.