You're being manipulative. No one likes that. No one's fun should be at the expense of others who do not know what is going on, or do not consent. If you want to explore your fetish, do so like man, and not like a worm. Make your own threads about it, put your cards on the table, and see if there is interest. There's always someone or other who is down for some SPH. If you put it out there, they will find you. If they don't, you can pay for it like many before you. All you have to do is google, and you can find plenty of women who will trade insults for cash or gifts, and if you look hard enough, you can even find ones who enjoy it.