Older Women = Better Blowjobs?

[D_Warthaughe Peeslit]

Well I will say that my former gf thinks she gives great head but for me at least it wasn't very good. The main problem was she switched up methods too much. So whenever it was getting good she'd start doing it differently and ruin the whole thing. It got to the point where it just wasn't worth the effort.

Your plight sounds very similar to mine at one point in time. I attribute the adhd blowjob to taking too many ideas from porn and trying to do too much rather than sticking with what works.

I have never met a girl that didn't think she wasn't the best at giving head. I guess some think they are phenominal if their man is cumming every time. Some are gifted and others are average. Its really a matter of dedication to your craft as the lpsg women can confirm.

 

[Serial Kisser]

How do you know this? Men will endlessly compliment a girl who's sucking them, unless they're really bad. Even if they're really bad, no negative comment will escape a man's lips, in case the woman gets mad and gives him NO head.

Every girl I've spoken to, if they spoke on the subject, said that they give amazing head. Either girls are naturally talented at cock-sucking, giving head is ridiculously easy, or guys compliment the girl who gives them head regardless of skill or talent. I'm thinking it's the last one. Regardless, girls get convinced that they are great at blowjobs. I think a similar process makes smallish guys get convinced that they are hung, or makes hung guys think that they don't have to really do anything during sex.

No offense to you personally, of course; for all I know, you could give such amazing head that any penis within a foot of your lips immediately becomes erect and goes through a mind-blowing orgasm, even if said penis is attached to a flaming homosexual. :tongue: I'm just stating my views here.

None taken. I can tell when a guy is being genuine and when he isn't. Sometimes, it's what they DONT say, but how they react, how they moan, what they do. I don't dish out compliments when they aren't due because it does give someone a false sense of accomplishment. Just like I won't comment on a guys cock if I don't think it's that great. I know what I'm good at, and it's head. Don't be a hater just cuz you haven't been lucky enough to experience me

 

[Serial Kisser]

Well I will say that my former gf thinks she gives great head but for me at least it wasn't very good. The main problem was she switched up methods too much. So whenever it was getting good she'd start doing it differently and ruin the whole thing. It got to the point where it just wasn't worth the effort.

This is where the power of communication comes in! Say something to her! If she switches right while you were on the cusp -- ask her to do whatever she was doing again. I constantly communicate when I'm giving head, not that I talk during the whole thing, but my suck buddy lets me know what he likes or doesn't, and I'm not afraid to ask.

 

[D_Warthaughe Peeslit]

This is where the power of communication comes in! Say something to her! If she switches right while you were on the cusp -- ask her to do whatever she was doing again. I constantly communicate when I'm giving head, not that I talk during the whole thing, but my suck buddy lets me know what he likes or doesn't, and I'm not afraid to ask.

A suck buddy? I'm thinking I need one of those. Do you have any friends? Haha

Now on the communication front I have caught myself saying too much during a mediocre blowjob. Telling a girl who thinks she gives great how to suck your dick is similar to a girl telling a guy he is small. Even playful coaxing and instruction has to be done carefully unless you have a really open relationship I have learned.

I think older woman probably just have a better vibe and allow themselves to exude confidence. Half of being a good cock sucker is attitude IMO.

 

[Serial Kisser]

A suck buddy? I'm thinking I need one of those. Do you have any friends? Haha

Now on the communication front I have caught myself saying too much during a mediocre blowjob. Telling a girl who thinks she gives great how to suck your dick is similar to a girl telling a guy he is small. Even playful coaxing and instruction has to be done carefully unless you have a really open relationship I have learned.

I think older woman probably just have a better vibe and allow themselves to exude confidence. Half of being a good cock sucker is attitude IMO.

Heh yeah, a suck buddy. I'm on a self-inflicted sex sabbatical right now. But I still like to touch/be touched. So I have a suck buddy. He comes over, we give each other oral and that's about it.

I dunno so much about the dropping hints thing, I've never been offended by a guy asking me to do more of something or less of something, or try a different way. I want to please him, and I'll take the advice if it's going to make it hotter for him. But that's just me.

 

[dongalong]

Nothing to do with age!
Good BJ = good BJ education and a willingness to please

 

[D_Warthaughe Peeslit]

Heh yeah, a suck buddy. I'm on a self-inflicted sex sabbatical right now. But I still like to touch/be touched. So I have a suck buddy. He comes over, we give each other oral and that's about it.

I dunno so much about the dropping hints thing, I've never been offended by a guy asking me to do more of something or less of something, or try a different way. I want to please him, and I'll take the advice if it's going to make it hotter for him. But that's just me.

I nominate you to be a role model for all the young girls that think they have superior oral skills. Encourage them to accept constructive criticism and open their minds as well as their mouths. Lol

In all seriousness thanks for your feedback its appreciated.

 

[hud01]

I think experience helps if the woman has listened to the men she's been with over the years BUT...some women just give good head. I think I'm one of them. The man I dated between the ages of 19-21 recently told me (this is 25 yrs later btw) that he's spent his life chasing a BJ as good as mine. I am totally into giving them because I love hearing how much the men get off on them. I recently started asking men what's the difference between a good blow job and a bad one and if they really have experienced a bad one. Though they've said many things, two things stand out...1. Teeth are bad - (and yet this seemed so obvious to me from the get go) and 2. Continue working it and sucking it until the orgasm has stopped. Apparently many women stop the BJ as soon as the man starts to cum (again, never realized this was an option:wink

Experience + being a natural = best of blowjobs!

There is years on planet and bj years. One of the best I had was 19 when we started dating. She loved to try and DT me. Somedays she succeeded and some days she didn't, but she always swallowed and kept sucking me until I was dry.

3. Tongue lots of tongue and keep it moving.

 

[las000005]

This thread made me hard!

 

[D_Warthaughe Peeslit]

Generally most of us guys like the same style blowjob but each of us have different buttons to push to get us over the edge and be worshipping a girl for her skills.

With that said a girls natural ability along with her recognition of what stimulation her man responds to really helps.

 

[D_Warthaughe Peeslit]

Generally most of us guys like the same style blowjob but each of us have different buttons to push to get us over the edge and be worshipping a girl for her skills.

With that said a girls natural ability along with her recognition of what stimulation her man responds to really helps.

I applaud the women that have the sixth sense. Aka the dick sense and their ability to pick up on subtle reactions we give to different stimulation.

 

[Calboner]

(Although I've never experienced it)
Supposedly if you find a very old woman
with no teeth
The blowjob will be fantastic :tongue:

You think just like Ben Franklin. See his "Old Mistresses' Apologue." An excerpt:

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:
1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stored with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreeable.
2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do Services small and great and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

Nothing better than a hummer, except for maybe a gummer!

Too fucking funny. :biglaugh:

I'm pretty young and I give amazing head.

How do you know this?

I think that the rest of her post answers that question:

I love it, and it shows.

I'll bet it does. :biggrin:

 

[feel thick]

in my long and varied oral experience (and I'm not just a receiver, I love to give), I think there are two factors in the very satisfying blowjob: pleasure in deepthroating down to the balls and staying there for a while; and hungry desire to take and swallow cum, preferably when deep on the cock. See my blogs on giving head.

 

[feel thick]

None taken. I can tell when a guy is being genuine and when he isn't. Sometimes, it's what they DONT say, but how they react, how they moan, what they do. I don't dish out compliments when they aren't due because it does give someone a false sense of accomplishment. Just like I won't comment on a guys cock if I don't think it's that great. I know what I'm good at, and it's head. Don't be a hater just cuz you haven't been lucky enough to experience me

Well said. For years, and I'm a vigorous tight 70 now, I was afraid to 1) ask a girl or woman to blow me; and 2) always doubted "what to say" when she was sucking and after she was finished. She may have been at a loss for words. But the sucking is worth a million words, to quote Confucius, and now I don't say anything but wait for her to comment, make sounds along with me, whatever. I do think that cum taking and swallowing are often left out of the beauty of fellatio. It belongs as the true climax.

 

[Mr_Cumalot]

Age has NOTHING to go with it. The most experienced and oldest women to ever give me head was actually the worst. Just going up and down like some yo yo fucking blow up doll and grating her teeth. The best was a 17 year old filth bag (LEGAL IN ENGLAND) who had obviously seen a lot of porn. I'm talking saliva and a lot of curling hand movements.

 

[B_New End]

2. Continue working it and sucking it until the orgasm has stopped. Apparently many women stop the BJ as soon as the man starts to cum (again, never realized this was an option:wink

I completely disagree. I want her to stop as soon as I start cumming, and just hold still. Sometimes continuing to suck causes, like, unsynchronization, which causes the orgasm to get all messed up, and really,a s soon as I start cumming, I get sensitive in a bad way.

To me, lusty enthusiasm is all that matters. That doesn't mean frantic sucking either, it means... well I guess you have to know what it means, to know what it means. Sounds like Serial Kisser knows what it means.

 

[Pitbull]

I completely disagree. I want her to stop as soon as I start cumming, and just hold still.

Used to be a saying - different strokes for different folks.
In this case its different no strokes.

 

[Pitbull]

You think just like Ben Franklin. See his "Old Mistresses' Apologue."

Possibly the nicest thing anyone has said to me the entirety of the time I have been here. Old Ben was quite an accomplished person and a scholar much to be admired.

I am hoping I can post a small quote from your link without going afoul of the TOA. (Note to moderators - Ben Franklin is dead and can not sue you)

"covering all above with a Basket and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey,"

 

[Calboner]

Possibly the nicest thing anyone has said to me the entirety of the time I have been here. Old Ben was quite an accomplished person and a scholar much to be admired.

Wait until I liken your way of thinking to that of Bud Bundy, who in an episode of Married with Children reports to his family on his most recent attempt at sexual adventure:

Bud: I went where all cool guys go. I headed to the Chippendales parking lot and waited for the horny old ladies to come out. Then I took off my shirt and start gyrating under a lamppost.

Al: Did you get any, son?

Bud: Yup. A faceful of mace and a spinning back-kick to the groin. But I think on the way down I did manage to get a fistful of withered heinie.
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[Draconis71]

Nothing better than a hummer, except for maybe a gummer!

Damnit!!!

You stole my thunder!!!!
I was gonna say hell, yah!!! Older women are GREAT at it... especially if they can remove both upper, and lower plates of the dentures...