rainfletcher: With apologies, I was off taking care of a wayward horn section and missed a lot of great posts.
I wanted to make a quick point. Pauls (Did I get the name right? The moniker is a bitch to type in the dark) point was awesome, I thought. There are times, I suppose, when life brings more to a persons plate than they are personally capable of dealing with. As Paul said, that's when others reach out and fill in the gaps. (Paul, I know I'm paraphrasing, hope I got the spirit right...).
And, isn't that what this board is doing for Tender, right now? Clearly, this is a difficult time in her life, and in a spirit of friendship and altruism, many people are offering what they can, even if it's just a 'we're here for you'. At the risk of alienating myself because of excessive cheesiness, this board is truly amazing....
Tender, please forgive me for singling you out....I too am here to help in whatever meager way I can.