Popping boners during a date

[sangheili90]

Has anyone else here ever had an awkward moment where they uncontrollably got hard during a date with someone they took out, man or woman, and what happened?

I went to pick up this really hot Latina for a date we had planned, showed up to her place and called her up to let her know I was outside. She came out the door and when I saw her I got instantly hard and it wouldn't go away, I kind of panicked so I adjusted myself as quick as possible before she got into my car but I'm pretty sure she noticed it because she was staring at it. I didn't mention it or say anything and acted as if it didn't happen. We went mini golfing and when she wanted me to show her out to "putt" properly, meaning I stand behind her and guide her through the motions. Naturally, I got another erection again but I'm pretty sure she did that on purpose because she was subtly staring at it. We ended up sitting down on one of the benches chatting, there was a group of people on the next course so we waited until they were done. The rest of the date went fine but I really wasn't all that worried since I've known this woman for almost 2 months now, she had a boyfriend at the time when I first met her.

 

[killerb]

I'd think that boners during dates are super common...

 

[Galloper]

I'd think that boners during dates are super common...

The other person can see it as an explicit way of interest

 

[N68]

I can sorta' relate on the adverse. But first, just have to say @sangheili90, you've gotta' face it, you're a hung dude.

Not to sound funny or flippant, but on a first date you may want to consider a looser wrapping before she sees the present if you know what I'm saying.

My incident= As much shit as I talk, I'm really not that much of a horn dog.

I was with some friends, minding my own business. A friend in the group pointed out this guy was putting on the moves and I wasn't noticing until it came to my attention.

And FUCK!!! he was hot. Seriously, the chemistry was there. And it was cool, UNTIL.

Until, I saw his unit, and I was gob smacked.

Like in your situation, I tried not to look, but when you see a big one, it stands out.

And I'm really not some perv just gazing at a guy's crotch. Still because he was free balling with that thing, no matter what angle he sat or moved, it became his calling card.

Moral of the story for me, Dudes if you know you're packing, prepare for the pending boner on the fist date. It can be the undisclosed conversation of the evening.

 

[stretch8888]

Its happened a few times over the years, never amounted to much except for one time last halloween.

Was more of a group date, this woman i knew through an ex and some mutual friends had asked me out to a haunted house, she's a gorgeous blonde country girl big tits nice ass, didn't really expect things to go anywhere as she was 20 and almost 10yrs younger than me and there had never really been anything between us previously, we end up in the haunted house and shes clinging to to me, i started getting hard but being dark in there i wasn't too concerned and just adjusted my pants, we continued on and our friends in front started to rush through, she attempted to follow them but something jumped out scaring her and she spun around not expecting me to be that close and ran right into me resulting in her hand pressing right on my hard cock, it was very a obvious feel but we quickly turned around and continued as if it hadn't happened. Bunch of us grabbed food and drinks at the pub and played some pool afterwards, she asked if i could drive her home and when we got to her place she says i should come in for a bit, before i could respond she comes straight out and tells me she felt my cock at the haunted house and shes been turned on and thinking about it all night. I just wish it would play out like that more often.

 

[deleted875903]

The other person can see it as an explicit way of interest

Exactly it's like a compliment.

 

[guywithbigballs]

Oh yes, this has happened

 

[N68]

Oh yes, this has happened

Gulp!, I'd love to hear details....

 

[Hockeytiger]

In general, in appropriate situations (like a date), I've found women find it flattering and even arousing. But it can serve a more important purpose in that if you don't make a move, even though you have an erection, it can give her confidence she's not dating a man who is a slave to his penis. We just hope at the end of a date that we didn't come across as an asshole or a dork. She hopes she makes it home alive and not sexually assaulted.

I strongly suspect she enjoyed it, especially in that she encouraged further close contact between the two of you. You are a man. Inconvenient erections happen, and have been happening since puberty and will continue to happen. Don't let it bother you much. I don't think you need to do anything different than you normally do when an inconvenient erection happens.

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

I would think a date would the exact time you would want to get a boner . . . Now if it was a job interview, that might be a problem--unless the interviewer is hornier than you are . . .

 

[sangheili90]

I would think a date would the exact time you would want to get a boner . . . Now if it was a job interview, that might be a problem--unless the interviewer is hornier than you are . . .

Well, it's a bit different because I'm in the presence of someone who is clearly interested in me, which means the potential for sex somewhere down the road is a reality. This has happened before, but when I get a confirmation for a date I'd start getting hard. This happened to me with a girl I was dating in the spring, the one I lost my virginity to.

 

[deleted936015]

Try to hide it, you dont want her getting scared of it

 

[N68]

Try to hide it, you dont want her getting scared of it

Yeah, that monster should be hanging in a deli

 

[Heat]

Welcome to the world of being a human male.

 

[Beedie Tijii]

It's pretty normal for me to get an instant chubby when I kiss a woman for the first time, and that would usually be in a date scenario. Getting a hardon as soon as a woman literally opens the door is a bit oddballish, but if you can draw attention away from it, it's still nothing to worry about.

 

[Sir CockAlot]

Haven't happen to me, but with the right timing and setting i would think it could be totally appropriate lol.
And that would be nearby or inside someones home. Unless being kinky and freaky is your thing

 

[Cecil56]

Haven't happen to me, but with the right timing and setting i would think it could be totally appropriate lol.
And that would be nearby or inside someones home. Unless being kinky and freaky is your thing

Has anyone else here ever had an awkward moment where they uncontrollably got hard during a date with someone they took out, man or woman, and what happened?

I went to pick up this really hot Latina for a date we had planned, showed up to her place and called her up to let her know I was outside. She came out the door and when I saw her I got instantly hard and it wouldn't go away, I kind of panicked so I adjusted myself as quick as possible before she got into my car but I'm pretty sure she noticed it because she was staring at it. I didn't mention it or say anything and acted as if it didn't happen. We went mini golfing and when she wanted me to show her out to "putt" properly, meaning I stand behind her and guide her through the motions. Naturally, I got another erection again but I'm pretty sure she did that on purpose because she was subtly staring at it. We ended up sitting down on one of the benches chatting, there was a group of people on the next course so we waited until they were done. The rest of the date went fine but I really wasn't all that worried since I've known this woman for almost 2 months now, she had a boyfriend at the time when I first met her.

As little as a kiss, gives me a raging hard-on. I think it's a normal male thing.

 

[sangheili90]

Yeah, that monster should be hanging in a deli

I'm not so sure about that, I think it will serve a better purpose hanging between my legs.

 

[sangheili90]

Try to hide it, you dont want her getting scared of it

Not sure, what I do know is the girl that I dated in the spring, she was only 19, loved the size upon seeing it but had a tough time and complained about me being too rough. After that first time she wouldn't have sex with me when I tried to initiate with her.

 

[someperson]

when in doubt rub one out