I have no problems having my face shown in the gallery with my dick. No shame in my game, ever. My face and my sexual being are one and the same - I find faces just as erotic as penises, so that has something to do with it. (Which reminds me - I need to take more pictures! Especially one with a full body shot, I'm long overdue.) In contrast to the previous poster, I have no problems with friendship and sexuality occasionally overlapping - I know the difference between making love and getting laid.
I understand that for some people it may be difficult for them, given the work scenarios, or fear disclosure, or just everday shyness. I think I got over that when I stopped caring what other people thought about me - I mean, yes I do have a thick dick, but it's not as if I have it strapped to my leg or I run around wagging it at people. On the same token, I'm not at all put off by people noticing. What's odd is that I'm a fat fella, and people don't think people like me would be hung, nor should I "ruin their day" at nude beaches and whatnot. Yet I am, and I routinely do, much to their chagrin!
As for family finding out - well, my sister knows I'm on this site, which she finds hilarious to no end. My mum just found out about that, which led to an interesting phone call. It went like this:
Mum: Georgie, I need to talk to you.
Me: What is it, Mum?
Mum: Your sister tells me you're on some website for men with large penises?
Me: Erm, yes Mum, I am. It's a support group for...
Mum: A SUPPORT GROUP? For men with large willies? My God, what on earth for?
Me: Mum, it's just for people who have large penises and how we live and deal with...
Mum: I should just think that men with large penises would not need support! I thought that's what all men strove for, isn't it?
Me: Well, perhaps, Mum... but you see, there are sometimes -
Mum: Please don't tell me you have pictures on that site.
Me: Uhhh... well, I do actually, but -
Mum: My GOD, Georgie! Erect too?
Me: Mum! Why is that improtant?
Mum: So you DO! I don't believe this! Are you nude, too? You are so fat.
Me: MUM! I don't think this is really your concern -
Mum: It IS MY CONCERN, GOD DAMNIT! I'M YOUR MOTHER!
Me: Mum, look - you wouldn't even recognize my penis -
Mum: Georgie, of course I would recognize it! How many times have I bathed you as a child. You were big even then - you should only have heard how your father went on about that...
Me: Mum, really -
Mum: You don't remember how you got your foreskin caught in your zipper when you came home from YMCA and I had to yank it -
Me: Oh, for the love of GOD, Mum!
Mum: Georgie, I am a NURSE. You should be lucky that I was able to take care of you! You could have got an infection and your penis would have just shrivelled off, then you would have no large penis support group to join, now would you? Would you?
Me: Oh dear God...
It only got more surreal from there. My only saving grace is that my mum was a child of the sixties (mod, not hippie), and was, and still is, a registered nurse. So although she doesn't approve (like with so many things in my life), she does respect me as an adult and the choices I make as such, and has a good sense of humour.
Given that, I don't think I want her knowing about my future XTube escapades... :biggrin1: