Sizequeen Issue

[hsarge]

Slow down; I didn't mean to insult you. I am not disparaging you for your desires. I wish you the contentment you deserve. I just wanted to caution you about some of the inflated statistics you may hear quoted here and other places. And I am more than willing to concede you know more than I do. Sorry.

 

[sizequeenNY]

Slow down; I didn't mean to insult you. I am not disparaging you for your desires. I wish you the contentment you deserve. I just wanted to caution you about some of the inflated statistics you may hear quoted here and other places. And I am more than willing to concede you know more than I do. Sorry.

I understand that, just letting you know that I am not one of those women that labels herself as something she doesn't understand

 

[Big_Red]

Some women are size queens and they want to "keep their number" as low as possible to find Mr. Right. And some men want to find the "virgin whore"- or at least a girl who has had the fewest sexual partners, yet is extremely skilled sexually.

And to both groups of people, I say good luck with that! :wink:

 

[sizequeenNY]

Some women are size queens and they want to "keep their number" as low as possible to find Mr. Right. And some men want to find the "virgin whore"- or at least a girl who has had the fewest sexual partners, yet is extremely skilled sexually.

And to both groups of people, I say good luck with that! :wink:

Perfect where are these men

 

[Drifterwood]

Any girth requirement?

The more time I have spent listening to women here and based on my own experience, girth seems more improtant than length. Unless the 8 is girth.

 

[Riven650]

Perfect where are these men

You're looking in the right place. At least here you can filter your results. Stick around and sooner or later you'll connect with a guy you fancy enough for a hook up. But I agree that legit 8+" cocks are much more rare than people think.

 

[basincreek]

Have you actually measured any of your past partners?

Because sometimes what is thought to be an 8 incher was actually a 7 incher and you may be excluding men you'd actually have sex with if you saw them erect in real life.

Or maybe you have measured and know exactly what you are looking for.

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

The problem with getting to know them first is you're likely to meet many guys who could be relationship-material but won't be endowed enough for your preference. The statistics just aren't in the favor of it and you probably don't feel like you've got enough time to date that many men.

If it was a girl I was meeting and she didn't want me to think her promiscuous, she would need to state it in a way that discourages me escalating on the subject. Something like "By the way, please don't get the wrong idea, but I want to be honest with you and let you know I am only interested in dating someone who's very well endowed. It's not the most important thing to me and doesn't come first before I get to know someone, but I think its only fair I let you know up front."

Make sure its a statement. Don't ask him if he's hung. If he's nervous about it, challenges your statement, or asks you how big, then you can probably assume he's not or he's too insecure for it to be any good anyways.

I love this advice. I have a similar problem to the original poster in that finding a relationship worthy man, who is also size worthy has been extremely challenging for me.

I've tried some different approaches. Sometimes, I've not talked about sex up front and then I start to like someone and then if it gets to the point of sex, I'm often disappointed with size or skill...so the effort was kind of a waste of time. I do meet nice men, but if they can't satisfy me sexually then its not going to work in a relationship. I've also tried Seaside's suggested approach, bringing up sex fairly early on and then backing off until I get to know the person better. It has helped weed out some men who were not a good match for me. For those who know me via this site, know that I do love sex and have been promiscuous. I am selective. I do have my standards, requirements, preferences. I am a sexually open person. I've always loved sex, started young and after separating from my ex I have gone a bit wild...making up for years of not getting what I needed sexually. I've had fun, but the whole random hook up thing gets old.

I was in a marriage that the sex was just average. It was a huge contributor to me being miserable and wanting a divorce. Not the only reason for divorce. I won't settle for ever again...whether it is sex-wise, compatibility-wise, chemistry-wise, personality-wise, or attraction-wise. I need an ideal fit. Some one who fits in my life in and out of my bedroom. I know what I want. I know what I need. I do not expect perfection. I'm not perfect. I have a lot to offer too, other than being a nympho who loves football and beer. But there needs to be a strong foundation to build a relationship on. I don't think its bad to want it all. I do remain optimistic that I'll find the ONE for me.

 

[Pitbull]

I have a lot to offer too, other than being a nympho who loves football and beer.

Contrary to popular opinion this is not the perfect woman that men are searching for.

"Who drank all my beer?"

 

[sizequeenNY]

Have you actually measured any of your past partners?

Because sometimes what is thought to be an 8 incher was actually a 7 incher and you may be excluding men you'd actually have sex with if you saw them erect in real life.

Or maybe you have measured and know exactly what you are looking for.

Why do you follow me in multiple threads and sound negative? I know the men I have been with and their endowment. It is not my fault you are inadequate so stop projecting

 

[D_Andy_Conda]

I'm glad you started this thread sizequeen! There are some seemingly good responses on here that are worth thinking about. I have the same problem and while I don't exclusively go for large guys, they are a preference. Even though I am comfortable in my sexuality, I think I exude a far more promiscuous personality than I actually have and that can be confusing for some men.

 

[hsarge]

To Red44 and SizeQueenNY: Would you consider an open relationship, where one man satisfies your non-sexual needs and other men fulfill your physical needs? There seems to be a whole sub-culture of what some call cuckholds (don't like that term which often means SPH). But there seems to be a subset of men who can let there wife/companion find sexual satisfaction outside the relationship. I'm not recommending this, I'm just interested in your opinions. Thanks.

 

[D_76froy]

i have had sex with a number of women who prefer big cocks over average cocks. several of them were very open about it before we had sex the first time, and I asked them about it. Several of them said they finally realized that they enjoyed sex more with guys with large, thick penises, and decided it was best to talk about it before having sex with a guy the first time. some guys will just avoid sex after that (guess they figure they're too small), and others will go ahead but not feel bad when the woman doesnt want another date. However, they all admitted that just because a guy has a big cock doesn't mean he's going to be a great fuck.

-Ranger

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

To Red44 and SizeQueenNY: Would you consider an open relationship, where one man satisfies your non-sexual needs and other men fulfill your physical needs? There seems to be a whole sub-culture of what some call cuckholds (don't like that term which often means SPH). But there seems to be a subset of men who can let there wife/companion find sexual satisfaction outside the relationship. I'm not recommending this, I'm just interested in your opinions. Thanks.

Good question. Ideally I would not want to have an open relationship. Relationships are hard enough without having a 3rd person involved. As in going thru a divorce, I wouldn't want to do anything to jeopardize a future long term relationship... I've made friends on this site and other online venues that have been the cuckold. I've heard about their own experiences and although it yields some fun...long term it doesn't seem to work out. I try to never say never...so it just depends on the circumstances.

And if I did fall in love with someone who wasn't as big as I want/need...I like to think I'd be open to finding a way to be sexually satisfied by him. I do appreciate great oral skills. And I do have my toys to help out. But again for those who've read my previous posts...there's a lot more to the sexual chemistry for me than just cock size. I need someone who is not intimidated by my sex drive. Who can keep up with me. Sex isn't everything but it is super important.

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

I found this site by mistake and joined out of curiosity but I am a sizequeen. The only issue is, being a sizequeen on a site like this and fet, people assume I fall on the more promiscuous side of things. That isn't true for me at all. The number of partners I have had is low compared to many women I know. I have had a lot of sex with a few men. So yes there is the preference for large cock and I am on fet because of my sexually submissive side. The issue is, I am looking for one person to get to know and spend time with. How do I approach this while being true to what I am looking for within the adult community(have tried with other men, does not work out well)

i say good luck to you...there aren't alot of big cocks in the world,i know from this site and from watching porn one would think otherwise,but it's hard enough out in the world to find a person that's the right match to just be in a relationship with yet alone whatever physical endowments they might have.(or might not have)

 

[hsarge]

Re44, there is the old line that when sex is good, its only 20 % of a relationship; when its bad, its 80% of the relationship. I know personally its hard to find everything in 1 person. You just need to understand your own priorities. And yes, you have been very clear in the past.

 

[D_Sigmund Fockbuddy]

To Red44 and SizeQueenNY: Would you consider an open relationship, where one man satisfies your non-sexual needs and other men fulfill your physical needs? There seems to be a whole sub-culture of what some call cuckholds (don't like that term which often means SPH). But there seems to be a subset of men who can let there wife/companion find sexual satisfaction outside the relationship. I'm not recommending this, I'm just interested in your opinions. Thanks.

God, you really put women on a pedestal... the more I read your posts the more put off I am by them. Stop pandering, seeking approval, etc and grow some balls.

 

[hsarge]

Hey Molec, you F@@k face. You see that hat. I wore one for period of time and you didn't get that for marshmellows, deuce bag. This is the women's forum and therefore I would tend to be a gentleman with them. As far as you are concerned, up yours a@@hole.

 

[Enid]

i don't really see how hsarge's post was suggestive of putting women on a pedestal. i'm pretty sure he was just asking if either woman would ever consider becoming involved with more than one man in order to fulfill all of their desires. i guess i don't see how asking that question is pandering.

to the OP: i wish i had some smart, sage advice for you. the best i can offer is don't stray too far from what you want (by making excessive concessions which sacrifice stuff which is very important to you), and immediately cut out of your life (as romantic options, anyway) all those who don't appear to want the same things.

 

[Supersized]

I'm in New Jersey across the water. Want to go out on a date? I'm single and well endowed.