Straight men getting head from gays?

If your eyes were closed and you were told nothing I doubt it would matter one way or another.

If my eyes were closed and David Duke or Adolf Hitler were licking my kitty kat, it would most likely feel good, but I don't get my kitty kat licked with my eyes closed and neither do straight men get sucked with their eyes closed either. WTF at this stupid logic.
 
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Guys give better head. Doesn't make you gay.

That's your opinion and those of other gay and bisexual men. Within a heterosexual relationship, there is more than oral sex. Women have VAGINAS, that can be wetter and tighter than a mouth. This is why I believe that homosexual men who are obsessed with heterosexual men are so fixated on oral sex because that is the one thing they feel they can trump women over, but they can't.
 
I think almost everyone in this thread has completely ignored the question. The op's asking about Straight men. I think it's abundantly clear that uf you get head from a man your bi at least (if not gay). Hate to do this old high-school debate move but the definition from Merriam-Webster

a: of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward the opposite sex b: of, relating to, or involving sexual intercourse between individuals of opposite sex.

And please don't let's make this a b.s. arguement about labels, he's asking ABOUT a label. Not whether or not you agree with it's use, those are two entirely different points.


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Guys give better head. Doesn't make you gay.

Oh, it makes you *very* gay. It makes you the definition of gay. By definition, "gay" is inclination toward having sexual activities with a member of your own sex. If a man is getting head from another man, then both, if consenting, are necessarily gay. Any doubt in anyone's mind is just delusional thinking. Why would anyone want to self-delude himself? Perhaps to justify a lifestyle which one feels guilty about, or as a fantasy. Who knows.
 
Oh, it makes you *very* gay. It makes you the definition of gay. By definition, "gay" is inclination toward having sexual activities with a member of your own sex. If a man is getting head from another man, then both, if consenting, are necessarily gay. Any doubt in anyone's mind is just delusional thinking. Why would anyone want to self-delude himself? Perhaps to justify a lifestyle which one feels guilty about, or as a fantasy. Who knows.

Bingo. :tongue:
 
I love blowjobs but would never want a guy's face anywhere near my dick. If you're into that then go ahead and enjoy, but don't call yourself straight.
 
Arnt we all bisexual? I think the caviot is to what degree.

Ill explain. I dig watching another dude banging a babe. I need dick in my porn. I have rubbed one out in front kf another guy, had dick in mouth before, but not defined with my sexuality by it, just comfortable with it
 
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I've said it countless times before, but... On this very site, and on a few others, you'd be amazed at how many 100,000% "straight" guys (married, 2.3 kids, the whole deal), have hit me up privately. It's why I don't really bother with the whole labeling thing, in the first place.

My other favourite analogy, when the argument, "If you've tried it, you're bi/gay," is... Yeah, I've tried Brussel sprouts a few times too. Still don't like them (yeah, I know, I'll love them the way YOU prepare them :rolleyes: ), and it doesn't make me a vegan.
 
Oh, it makes you *very* gay. It makes you the definition of gay. By definition, "gay" is inclination toward having sexual activities with a member of your own sex. If a man is getting head from another man, then both, if consenting, are necessarily gay. Any doubt in anyone's mind is just delusional thinking. Why would anyone want to self-delude himself? Perhaps to justify a lifestyle which one feels guilty about, or as a fantasy. Who knows.

It may be your definition of gay but it is not what being gay is. Only a straight man would give an answer like this. So here is the deal. Whan you are gay you are attracted to and desire both sexually and emitionally to be with a guy. I was once married, and had sex with my wife. I was never straight. I was a gay man having sex with a woman. The old addage Just because you are in the garage doesn't make you a car is true.

You can be straight but have gay sex. But having gay sex does not make you gay. Even a little.

Maybe it is easier for a gay man to understand that because we often are pressured by society to pretend to be straight and yes even to the point of getting married to a woman. I actually thought at 20 years old maybe getting married would some how make me straight. It didn't.
 
I don't think I've ever seen any of the "straight" guys anser this age old question....

If a gay man in a gay relationship, sucks on a womans nipples, is he then straight?

What if he has intercourse with her? Straight then?

Only if he wants seconds. :smile:
 
THANKs auncut10

EXACTLY how i feel and what i have experienced also
to me you have summed up accurately and summarized all 200 odd posts on this thread
Not saying for sure its 100% correct, but more so than any of those who have said
'if you let a guy suck yr dick yr Gay'...what a lot of BS

i would hate to imagine the hangups / upbringing of those who firmly believe this..
yep blame religious upbringing .. as well
 
I've said it countless times before, but... On this very site, and on a few others, you'd be amazed at how many 100,000% "straight" guys (married, 2.3 kids, the whole deal), have hit me up privately. It's why I don't really bother with the whole labeling thing, in the first place.

My other favourite analogy, when the argument, "If you've tried it, you're bi/gay," is... Yeah, I've tried Brussel sprouts a few times too. Still don't like them (yeah, I know, I'll love them the way YOU prepare them :rolleyes: ), and it doesn't make me a vegan.

Completely agree! I think "100%" anything lacks perspective
 
There was an interesting thread recently about whether gay men would let a woman give them a blow-job. The majority who responded, wouldn't. They wanted more sense stimuli than just a warm wet mouth divorced from the actual person performing.

However, some straight men use fleshlights, melons or even, famously, apple pie to pleasure themselves! :eek: So I suppose they could more easily think of a male cocksucker's mouth as just a recepticle. :rolleyes:

There seems to have been a long tradition in the States of cocksuckers providing service to men who don't think it detracts from their straightness as long as they don't reciprocate. ("Cocksucker" can be used as an insult, but there's no equivalent for a cocksuckee.) Similar to the Arab attitude that you're only gay if you get fucked, and not gay if you do the fucking.

Personally, I don't think I'd enjoy sucking a guy who was so straight he couldn't reciprocate or at least show some appreciation/affection. And I hope these "straight" men are treating their women with a bit more consideration than that too. But I digress...
 
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