the alpha male

[Dominatricks]

In genetics, in biology and in sociology alphas are those that are the dominate leaders. To lead and be prevalent, you must be the strongest, the wisest, and the most valuable. A strong leader possesses many traits that make people comfortable and feel protected enough to be lead by them....being led is a choice they make not one they are forced into. Many confuse being dominant with being domineering. Those that are domineering are usually the ones who donot actually possess power and have to force it. A person of real power does it with ease and has no problem listening, not being effected by many things and yet making the best decisions for all involved.

In the animal kingdom, beta males in order to mate put on alpha traits to attract their mates, but they are fake because they aren't natural. They will peacock, beat their chest to appear strong, or use some other forms of trickery that are often seen through by very stong alpha females. This is no different with humans. Men who put on a badboy act, give backhanded compliments, act disinterested and assholish or force control are those that are putting on an act of dominance not really fully understanding it. Women who fall for these tricks are often just as beta and the men who put it on.

Mostly confidence is what will attract others that are confident be it friends or mates....very much like the girl above where she described what a confident male is. She knows because she is confident herself.

 

[HiddenLacey]

Personally I think of an alpha male as someone in control of the situation. He doesn't need to be the most handsome or the most outspoken. An alpha male knows who he is and doesn't have to be a bully to get his point across.

Just because someone is handsome doesn't make him the alpha male. I might see the handsome man first, but I'm going to be drawn to the quiet man.

 

[D_N Flay Table]

Personally I think of an alpha male as someone in control of the situation. He doesn't need to be the most handsome or the most outspoken. An alpha male knows who he is and doesn't have to be a bully to get his point across.

Just because someone is handsome doesn't make him the alpha male. I might see the handsome man first, but I'm going to be drawn to the quiet man.

True. People here got upset about my story. But they don't understand the dynamic of the D/s relationship.

 

[MrMXYZPTLK]

You sound like a complete ASS.

Of course the other guys was speechless, who wouldn't be? Your behaviour would shock anyone, except someone with an ego like yours.

True, what he did does make him sound like an ass. BUT you'd be amazed at how many girls respond to that. Well correction, you'd be amazed at how many younger girls respond to that.

Older women ussually know what they want in a guy. Younger girls however, seem to go for the stronger guy. Just like in Teen movies. The girl starts off with the asshole football jock, then in the movie as her tastes mature she ends up with the good guy. BUT in all movies the hot young girls ussually starts off with the Asshole JOCK. They put that in all movies because it's ussually true.

 

[maxcok]

I am a very dominant alpha. When I met my current gf she was sitting on the lap of a pusslamb she was dating at a bar. I walked up. Took her by the hand pulled her off his lap and asked if she wanted to get to know me. The other guy was speeches. I took her home that night.

LOL. Why not be a real man? Just club her over the head and drag her off to your cave.

True. People here got upset about my story. But they don't understand the dynamic of the D/s relationship.

I bet I do.


Some guys (many guys) confuse being alpha with being a complete asshole. They take what they want by force.

Some insecure gals (and guys) have no mind of their own and like being controlled by assholes.

 

[joseph_hung]

I am a very dominant alpha. When I met my current gf she was sitting on the lap of a pusslamb she was dating at a bar. I walked up. Took her by the hand pulled her off his lap and asked if she wanted to get to know me. The other guy was speeches. I took her home that night.

I'm not really sure if this is more depressing if it's true or if it's bs. If it's bs, it's depressing that there are people who need to come online and try to roleplay as though they're their alpha macho Fallout 3 character. If it's true, it's depressing that there are still barbarians reproducing and ruining future society for my kids.

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

I am a very dominant alpha. When I met my current gf she was sitting on the lap of a pusslamb she was dating at a bar. I walked up. Took her by the hand pulled her off his lap and asked if she wanted to get to know me. The other guy was speeches. I took her home that night.

:wank::spank:this is better than the fictional stories section on lpsg

i say, let's hear from the alpha females on here! there i was, in the bar, and saw some cute stud sitting on the lap of this cocktigress. so, i went up to him, shoved my tongue down his ear and said, you want some more of that?? grabbed him by the belt buckle and took him home to be my love slave that very night. that little ol slut i took him from was speechless.:lmao:

 

[joseph_hung]

:wank::spank:this is better than the fictional stories section on lpsg

i say, let's hear from the alpha females on here! there i was, in the bar, and saw some cute stud sitting on the lap of this cocktigress. so, i went up to him, shoved my tongue down his ear and said, you want some more of that?? grabbed him by the belt buckle and took him home to be my love slave that very night. that little ol slut i took him from was speechless.:lmao:

Best porn premise ever :biggrin1:

 

[HiddenLacey]

:wank::spank:this is better than the fictional stories section on lpsg

i say, let's hear from the alpha females on here! there i was, in the bar, and saw some cute stud sitting on the lap of this cocktigress. so, i went up to him, shoved my tongue down his ear and said, you want some more of that?? grabbed him by the belt buckle and took him home to be my love slave that very night. that little ol slut i took him from was speechless.:lmao:

PMSL... cocktigress:tongue: Seriously where do you come up with this stuff?

 

[Patchos]

Fine. I assure you that you would never have to worry about djg doing that to you.

Awwww Diddums!

Whatta douche...

 

[D_N Flay Table]

LOL. Why not be a real man? Just club her over the head and drag her off to your cave.

I bet I do.


Some guys (many guys) confuse being alpha with being a complete asshole. They take what they want by force.

Some insecure gals (and guys) have no mind of their own and like being controlled by assholes.

Ok. Let me elaborate since I typically post from a mobile device.
The girl I was talking about in ny story is a professional domme. The guy she was with ** which I didn't know at the time was a sub. As a matter of fact a sissy.
So, not only in that situation was it accepted but also expected. That what I was saying when I said most people don't understand the D/s relationship.

 

[D_N Flay Table]

But since we've touched on the topic of what is the alpha I will put my 2 ¢ in.

To me an alpha male is a man like me.
What do I mean?
I am a kind man, and a loving man.
I am a guy that would do anything for his friends and for a stranger in need.
I am the guy other men come to when their wives leave them, and the need counseling. I am a man that help people find solutions to problems they are facing. In a relationship I share and equal respectful role with my partner. Bring she is a very strong alpha female. And work as a team to get over life's hurdles together.
I don't get in Physical confrontations with people and have not since grade school. I am happy with my. Life where I am at the present moment, but have ambitions to constantly better myself to be the best man I can be for my community my family and myself.
And that is why I am considered an alpha by my friends and the men that know me irl from the lpsg.

 

[maxcok]

Ok. Let me elaborate since I typically post from a mobile device.
The girl I was talking about in ny story is a professional domme. The guy she was with ** which I didn't know at the time was a sub. As a matter of fact a sissy.
So, not only in that situation was it accepted but also expected. That what I was saying when I said most people don't understand the D/s relationship.

Oh my, this just gets better and better. Would you like me to hand you some tap shoes or a shovel?

So . . . you knew she was a professional domme and he was a sub, and you're now describing a specific scene where this was not only "accepted" but "expected"? So it wasn't some random assertive act of yours in a bar as you described? It was contrived and "expected", so therefore you were risking nothing? Kinda takes the wind out of your whole macho 'alpha' identity, don't it?

Not to mention, if she's a professional domme it's entirely possible her client was not only okay with being cuckolded, but might very well get off on it. I hope she gave you a cut of the fee for being her assistant and playing out your part in the scenario.

One question, if she's a domme, does that mean you're now her "sissy pusslamb" alpha male? LOL.

Tgirls is right. This belongs in 'Fictitious Stories'.

 

[maxcok]

Oh my, this just gets better and better. Would you like me to hand you some tap shoes or a shovel?

But since we've touched on the topic of what is the alpha I will put my 2 ¢ in.

To me an alpha male is a man like me.
What do I mean?
I am a kind man, and a loving man.
I am a guy that would do anything for his friends and for a stranger in need.
I am the guy other men come to when their wives leave them, and the need counseling. I am a man that help people find solutions to problems they are facing. In a relationship I share and equal respectful role with my partner. Bring she is a very strong alpha female. And work as a team to get over life's hurdles together.
I don't get in Physical confrontations with people and have not since grade school. I am happy with my. Life where I am at the present moment, but have ambitions to constantly better myself to be the best man I can be for my community my family and myself.
And that is why I am considered an alpha by my friends and the men that know me irl from the lpsg.

So I guess the answer is tap shoes, lol.


My, I've never seen such a swift and dramatic transformation from 'alpha' to 'sissy pusslamb'.

 

[D_N Flay Table]

Oh my, this just gets better and better. Would you like me to hand you some tap shoes or a shovel?

So . . . you knew she was a professional domme and he was a sub, and you're now describing a specific scene where this was not only "accepted" but "expected"? So it wasn't some random assertive act of yours in a bar as you described? It was contrived and "expected", so therefore you were risking nothing? Kinda takes the wind out of your whole macho 'alpha' identity, don't it?

Not to mention, if she's a professional domme it's entirely possible her client was not only okay with being cuckolded, but might very well get off on it. I hope she gave you a cut of the fee for being her assistant and playing out your part in the scenario.

One question, if she's a domme, does that mean you're now her "sissy pusslamb" alpha male? LOL.

Tgirls is right. This belongs in 'Fictitious Stories'.

Ah, touche. But like I said, I only learned of that after the fact. He was/is a 'sissy' is an not sure if he is/was a cuck. That is an interesting question. And I am by far no 'toughguy ' however I am extremely assertive.
However what I do know after catching her gaze several times over the course of the evening. And here looking very interested I went forward and took my chances. Because in reality there was nothing to lose. The worse she could say was ' no'
But as it turns out. It did end up well for both of us now that we are both in a very good equal relationship.

 

[maxcok]

Ah, touche. But like I said, I only learned of that after the fact. He was/is a 'sissy' is an not sure if he is/was a cuck. That is an interesting question. And I am by far no 'toughguy ' however I am extremely assertive.
However what I do know after catching her gaze several times over the course of the evening. And here looking very interested I went forward and took my chances. Because in reality there was nothing to lose. The worse she could say was ' no'
But as it turns out. It did end up well for both of us now that we are both in a very good equal relationship.

That's good, I'm happy for you, whatever the dynamics.

So you knew she was "very interested", "in reality there was nothing to lose". How alpha and "assertive" of you.

Now you be careful spinning in circles while you're wearing tap shoes, pusslamb. Ballet slippers might be safer.

I would say I can't wait to hear the next variation on your story, but frankly, I've lost interest.

I think I'll just sit over here in the corner and pick my alpha toes or tug on my big alpha cock. :smile:

 

[D_N Flay Table]

That's good, I'm happy for you, whatever the dynamics.

So you knew she was "very interested", "in reality there was nothing to lose". How alpha and "assertive" of you.

Now you be careful spinning in circles while you're wearing tap shoes, pusslamb. Ballet slippers might be safer.

I would say I can't wait to hear the next variation on your story, but frankly, I've lost interest.

I think I'll just sit over here in the corner and pick my alpha toes or tug on my big alpha cock. :smile:

You do what you gotta do.

 

[Patchos]

That's good, I'm happy for you, whatever the dynamics.

So you knew she was "very interested", "in reality there was nothing to lose". How alpha and "assertive" of you.

Now you be careful spinning in circles while you're wearing tap shoes, pusslamb. Ballet slippers might be safer.

I would say I can't wait to hear the next variation on your story, but frankly, I've lost interest.

I think I'll just sit over here in the corner and pick my alpha toes or tug on my big alpha cock. :smile:

Just a tip: Alphas talk in third person

 

[D_N Flay Table]

Just a tip: Alphas talk in third person

Lol!

 

[maxcok]

Just a tip: Alphas talk in third person

Maxcok appreciates the tip.