this site is starting to give me a complex
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I know how you feel, but it's far worse for men that are not well-endowed. Trust me.
Most women prefer a big penis, and their reason for that is in most cases because they can feel it more and it therefore gives more pleasure. An average size guy can NEVER compensate for that with technique. And then there’s also the visual and mental factor/stimulation which only big penises gives. A small-breasted woman can be just as good in bed as a big-breasted one. A man with a small or average size cock can't be as good as a well-endowed man.
Breasts aren’t as actively involved as a penis is, and that's why breast size isn-t as important as penis size is. There's also tons of men that prefer small breasts - which is not the case with women and small or average penises. Most women want a big penis but settle with an average one or a small one.
No, men don't do that. It's a woman thing. Women are just more shallow, hypocritic and unsympathetic than men are.
It's a bit of a shame that women don't have the same kind of respect for men's bodies/genitals than vice versa.
The same goes for those women who go after men with really big cocks.
"Women are just more shallow, hypocritic and unsympathetic than men are."
Sorry Marcus, gotta disagree with you there. When I'm out in public and I see couples where one partner is much more attractive, invariably it's the woman. I think that men are far more focused on the aesthetic/visual, often preferring an airhead who stops traffic to a mousy librarian type who's got it goin' on upstairs, whereas women will "trade down" a few notches and date a funny-looking/chunky/balding/geeky guy because he's emotionally responsive, clever, and sensitive.
Not as a rule in either case, of course, but I do think that's the trend.
Sorry Marcus, gotta disagree with you there. When I'm out in public and I see couples where one partner is much more attractive, invariably it's the woman. I think that men are far more focused on the aesthetic/visual, often preferring an airhead who stops traffic to a mousy librarian type who's got it goin' on upstairs, whereas women will "trade down" a few notches and date a funny-looking/chunky/balding/geeky guy because he's emotionally responsive, clever, and sensitive.
Not as a rule in either case, of course, but I do think that's the trend.
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That's only because women generally are better looking than men. Men may rate looks very high on the importance scale, but women are so much more critical and intolerant when it comes to a man's looks (face & body).
That's also why men have easier with finding a woman they find attractive, while women rarely see good-looking men in public.
Women always have to find some kind of flaw in a mans looks. I don't know why they do it. Maybe it's because they think it makes them stronger if they criticize a man, or so they can say "good men are hard to find" or whatever women usually say about men.
And did you read the rest of my post?
"there’s also the visual and mental factor/stimulation which only big penises gives"
Say what you will about the physiological response to big cocks, but this part (mental/visual) would also hold true for big breasts.
Say what you will about the physiological response to big cocks, but this part (mental/visual) would also hold true for big breasts.
That may be true. But like I wrote before:
"A small-breasted woman can be just as good in bed as a big-breasted one. A man with a small or average size cock can't be as good as a well-endowed man.
Breasts aren't as actively involved as a penis is, and that's why breast size isn't as important as penis size is. There's also tons of men that prefer small breasts - which is not the case with women and small or average penises. Most women want a big penis but settle with an average one or a small one".
Marcus - if there are "tons" of men who prefer small breasts, why have all the threads started in appreciation of them on here sunk like an anchor after half a dozen replies, while "huge natural tits on a thin body" is the most popular thread of all time?
Gotta disagree that non-huge fellows can't be as good in bed as bigger guys, btw - my boyfriend is the best consistent sex partner I've ever had and he's well within average range. I like huge cocks visually, but normal-sized ones are a lot more versatile in some respects. I shudder to think of trying to accomodate some of the beautiful monsters on here anally!
Gotta disagree that non-huge fellows can't be as good in bed as bigger guys, btw - my boyfriend is the best consistent sex partner I've ever had and he's well within average range. I like huge cocks visually, but normal-sized ones are a lot more versatile in some respects. I shudder to think of trying to accomodate some of the beautiful monsters on here anally!
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Symphonic, is that some kind of passive aggressive way of implying that I'm male, or are you offering honest advice? Either way, I don't "want bigger titties". Obviously you didn't read the thread, or even my original post, in its entirety.
No, I read it, and realized that there was absolutely no way for you to be happy. You'll either change your physical appearance or your attitude; while the internet can be a fun place to release your strife all-in-all even the best medical doctors in the world won't be able to force you to overcome this.
It's just a conscious decision we can't help you with. However, we can help you get bigger boobs.
I wasn't referring to this forum, but men in general. And small breasts are almost just as popular as big breasts - if not more popular.
I'm just saying that a well-endowed guy with great technique/skills will ALWAYS be better than an average guy with great technique/skills.
And no, I'm not saying this because I'm well-endowed, I'm actually average/small.
But ultimately, Marcus, most women are pretty damn happy to come across a good lay, regardless - even if he's small/average. I've been intimate with several dozen men, and only three stand out as noteworthy - one was well-endowed, but two of 'em _weren't_.
Symphonic, what can I say? Most days I have better perspective on the matter, and happened to write this post on a day when I was feeling particularly down about the subject. I think I do have the right approach towards the issue most of the time: focusing on dating people who do appreciate small tits, even though they're in the minority.
Symphonic, what can I say? Most days I have better perspective on the matter, and happened to write this post on a day when I was feeling particularly down about the subject. I think I do have the right approach towards the issue most of the time: focusing on dating people who do appreciate small tits, even though they're in the minority.
False belief?! I've heard tons of women say those things I've written, which is why I'm writing them. And there are many forums where women write these things.
All the sex surveys (they usually appear in newspapers and womens magazines) from my country and other countries all show that women want/prefer a huge cock. Most women are size-queens, it's just not many who are willing to admit to a guy.
Yes, but the woman is still gonna feel like the sex wasn't as good as it could have been if he was big.
Let's face it; it's the size and performance of the man that determines whether it's good or bad sex. Men do all the work in bed, so that's why men get judged and rated and women don't.
That's also why pretty much every woman says they've had plenty bad sex, while men mostly will say that they've had okay/good sex.
"Men do all the work in bed, so that's why men get judged and rated and women don't."
Not necessarily true. I'm heavily oral and tend to give 200 blowjobs for every time my boyfriend eats me out - and he prefers having me on top during intercourse a good chunk of the time, which requires a bit of "work" on my part. Honestly, when I think of what distinguishes the good sex I've had from the bad, it's mostly mental and verbal. The guys who get the highest ratings are the ones with the fewest hang-ups (about natural body odor, hair, awkward moments, etc.) and the fewest inhibitions (kinks are totally welcome in my book, and I love a guy who knows how to talk filthy). Flawless "performance" is not a huge part of the equation, honestly.
Not necessarily true. I'm heavily oral and tend to give 200 blowjobs for every time my boyfriend eats me out - and he prefers having me on top during intercourse a good chunk of the time, which requires a bit of "work" on my part. Honestly, when I think of what distinguishes the good sex I've had from the bad, it's mostly mental and verbal. The guys who get the highest ratings are the ones with the fewest hang-ups (about natural body odor, hair, awkward moments, etc.) and the fewest inhibitions (kinks are totally welcome in my book, and I love a guy who knows how to talk filthy). Flawless "performance" is not a huge part of the equation, honestly.
Physical pleasure is not the paramount achievement for the female person. Males on the other hand have the opposite functioning belief; so while males are all about the physical senses females are all about the emotions most of the time. What makes a great sex partner for a woman interested in a relationship extends much further beyond physical pleasure and needs in females than males most of the time.
If females are after physical pleasures there are some that cannot be pleasured by the largest of penes and there are others who have personal equipment that is smaller than your index finger. You want to talk all those forums and that nonsense? Do yourself a favor, look up the size of the most commonly bought dildos and sex-toys; you'll find that while the "BIG COCK!" is a neat experience most women aren't aiming big at all.
All those sex surveys are performed with X recipients, sometimes less than 200, all specifically hunted out to push the concept that penis size matters the most. Think about it, literally how many times have you heard that "Your Penis is not a Women's Issue?" You know what? It's not. Many of these preferring women are in their teens or young adults, they've only had 7" or something when it comes to "big cock" and have little experience, and most of the time the responses are engineered.
When you ask a woman in a no-strings fashion which is better for physical pleasure you're almost cheating, anatomy will answer that for you easily, but considering many factors including time, foreplay, arousal, interest, etc. the brain trumps the anatomy and the biggest stretchiest object to fill the vagina is usually the last thing on the mind.
When you ask a woman in a relationship based fashion the answer changes completely because women aren't built like men.
Now of course this is excluding extremes, both large and small, in size. Average seems to suit a lot of women since there's a lot of kids still poppin' out and not all men have Humongous Dicks of Pussy Destruction!
False, having a penis that's too large is not only a common issue with the larger community, it's a downright curse. You'll find men on here who are a mere 8" ( in relation to the top lengths on the site ) who have problems with it, including fear and preparation; it's a burden to overcome to say the least.
Truth be told if you take a woman, make her the happiest in all aspects and have decent sex technique she won't care as long as we're not reaching to extremes. Your penis is just not a big enough part of you to make or break most relationships.
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"Most women prefer a big penis...An average size guy can NEVER compensate for that with technique...A man with a small or average size cock can't be as good as a well-endowed man."
I'm not going to even pretend to know what kind of bad experiences have led you, Marcus, to believe this bizarre fallacy so vehemently. Well endowed men can be just as lousy in bed as average guys, just as the hottest girl can give the lousiest head. The simple fact that an individual is born with the genetic coding necessary to develop a couple of extra inches in adolescence does not equate to an inate understanding of how to satisfy a sexual partner.
While there are a handful of size queens who, I imagine, care for nothing else but sheer inches, regardless of who they're attached to, most women should be respected for being a little more complex than that. Whether turned on by a certain look, a certain sense of humor, a certain sexual chemistry, it usually comes down to the same thing - self-confidence - something which you clearly lack.
I'm not going to even pretend to know what kind of bad experiences have led you, Marcus, to believe this bizarre fallacy so vehemently. Well endowed men can be just as lousy in bed as average guys, just as the hottest girl can give the lousiest head. The simple fact that an individual is born with the genetic coding necessary to develop a couple of extra inches in adolescence does not equate to an inate understanding of how to satisfy a sexual partner.
While there are a handful of size queens who, I imagine, care for nothing else but sheer inches, regardless of who they're attached to, most women should be respected for being a little more complex than that. Whether turned on by a certain look, a certain sense of humor, a certain sexual chemistry, it usually comes down to the same thing - self-confidence - something which you clearly lack.
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