I'm not sure I'm up to the challenge here, but I'd like to add some thoughts. My ability to argue points of logic is very rusty, but I have some things to offer.
The Bible is not a cohesive work written by one person, so it is very possible to believe parts and not the whole. It was also written years after the events took place, and compiled years after that, so I do believe some authors and not others- and I believe in the general tone of these authors, realizing their exact verbage may have been misquoted. When I say "I believe", it means I believe they said it, not that I necessarily agree with it.
That something cannot be "A and not A" is a point no one can refute, this has always been a theological difficulty for me. I too share these feelings, as we have been sharing as of late, but I do look to the Bible for some good information on how Jesus wanted us to treat each other. I think there is some wholesome and pure philosophy there. Unfortunately, much of the Bible, New Testament and Old, are compilations of the writings of men who had their own agendas. I have no desire to incorporate the personal opinions of Paul into my daily life, my own personal opinions are equally as valid as his! Just because I am not a published author doesn't mean I can't think.
There are things we know: The world exists, people exist, we are capable of thinking and reasoning, we have the ability to love, judge, fuck, eat, give, hope dream, feel, care, not care, etc. We have freedom of choice in many areas. We have needs that must be adressed. In addition to all of this, we are curious about the world around us and a good deal of attention has been spent throughout history on explaining the hows and whys of our existance. If God created man in his own image, it would not surprise me that god would have inconsistancies and contradictions- this is why we do too! If man created God in our own image, it is even likelier. I have come to accept the fact that inconsistancies exist without having to explain them, mostly because I know I cannot do so with any amount of accuracy. Better to shut my mouth and be thought a fool than to open it and remove all doubt! I am okay with not being able to definitively solve the problem of God or exactly who the various messengers of god have been. Each have contributed to the shapping of our cultures in their own ways, as have Ghandi, Mother Teresa, Neitche, Plato, Einstien, and all the celebrated minds of history. So too have individuals who are far less consequential. Each of us affects the whole with each of our decisions, in a lesser but still meaningful way.
As for me right now, I am more into philosophy than religion for just these reasons. Although I have studied the Bible, I cannot make sense of it. I have read but not studied the Gitas and Vedas, I have read very little of the Koran. It is impossible for me to discern which beliefs are true and which are not true, I am doing well to accept that these beliefs exist outside my opinion of their foundation. Even "absolute realites" change, so I am very reluctant to assign the word "truth" to very much.
I appreciate this topic, anything that gives me cause to research my own feelings is of great benefit.