I was visiting an old friend, when his neighbor knocked on his door. He need some help moving a bookcase, but my friend's back had gone out on him, so he volunteered me. The neighbor was super tall (6'4" I would guess), buffed, and handsome, with face that reminded of a young Tom Cruise, but more rugged. We got along great and more than his bookcase, such as a sofa and huge TV screen, were moved around his house. At the end, he asked me if I was gay or bi. Totally took me by surprise.
He paid me the big compliment of saying he wanted to hook with much older man that looked like me. Then he further surprised me by telling me that it was much harder to hook up with older guys than with young women, so he takes the path of less resistance. (The impression I got was that he hooks up with a different woman every night.)
I posted his observations here:
Young women Are Far Easier to Hook-Up With Than Older Men
The conclusion I have come to is that dating and hook-up apps are the decisive factor, as a super tall, super handsome guy gets 95% of women to respond (many women set a minimum height of six foot). But an older guy probably fears some sort of trick or scam, so he doesn't accept the offer. (There is also the issue of not being able to rise to the occasion.)