Average Black Man

[XLargeBlackGuy]

It seems like people here, need cited evidence on the above topic of black men in fact having the larger penises. Well I'm going to share one source with you all at the the moment, any objections, I'll show you another, simple as that. Yes, more white people have participated in these surveys and you will see that in the link that I cite,... but even though there was a significant smaller amount of black men, they still proved to have bigger penises.

The article: Is It True What They Say About Penis Size vs. Race

Survey:
Penis Size Survey Analysis: Penis Size By Race, Height, Shoe Size, Sexual Orientation and More

Now after you read that, think about if more brothers stepped up to the plate.I'm may only be 8x5, but I feel I'm well endowed no matter what anyone says. I'm a trainer at a gym with 8,000 members,more than half being men, not saying I've seen 4,000 penises in the locker room, but I've seen a lot in the flaccid state, and hate to say it people, but there is always some truth in these stereotypes.

 

[eldeld]

This is another reason I'm opposed to the stereotype. What about the average or small black men? Guys are insecure enough if they're just average, how is a normal black guy going to feel when everyone expects him to be huge.

Also, it tends make people look at black men as sex objects. Lots of guys who want to get with me say they want to just because they've heard black girls are freaky in bed, and they couldn't care less about having a relationships with me. It's very discouraging.

Big cocks, regardless of race, are awesome, but there's nothing good about setting an unrealistic standard.

Amen sista!

 

[eldeld]

most of the black guys I went to school with were bigger than the guys of other races. this could be seen in locker rooms and in sports. is it proven, i don't know. but from what limited experience i've seen, it's true.

WTF! We got it! Damn! Okay, Blacks tend to be bigger! This has been established and is getting on my nerves! The point of the thread is to open the forum for discussion for those of us who may not feel they measure up to the stereotype!

Is there any other fucking thing that we can have pride in besides our dicks? We have been objectified to the point that many of us have suffered some emotional scarring from it! How many of us have been bedded by a White chick just to see if it is true - with no intention of having a lasting relationship? How many of us have been rejected when we don't measure up? How many of us are ashamed to disrobe in a locker just because we feel we don't measure up? Can we get some intelligent discussion about that?

 

[eldeld]

Actually I'm not really afraid to admit it, as long as I see some "proof" to back it up. Someone seeing maybe 10-20 black soft penises in some gym, when there are more than millions of black men on this earth, hardly qualifies to me. It's an argument that I hear all the time that gets of my nerves. I mean to hear some of you guys tell it, most/all white guys at the gym are walking around with stubs in the shower. Well I've been to many gym showers with both walking around naked. If anything, the white guys usually look larger on average to me. It's all perception, since no one really knows how long a soft "random" penis will eventually grow anyway.
I can go by this site like someone else recently mentioned on here. The biggest white penises I've seen on here, appear to rival the biggest black ones. And there are a helluva lot more large white penises on here than black ones, as there are more white men in the world.

There are not more white men in the world! Please! Just more white men in the United States than Black men!

 

[eldeld]

It's not so much the average black guy that I worry about. Us average brothers will usually find our way I believe. I worry more about the small or smaller black brother, especially since no seems to believe they exist or feel.

Interesting comment about being seen as sex objects. Now as a man, that shouldn't be something that bothers me, but as a black man, I'd say it was the main thing that pisses me off. Gotta be more to us than just that? Truth be told, that is probably my "real" issue with the whole thing. Yeah you stuck-a-cord with me there! Not only do I also find it discouraging, but it also somewhat saddens me.

Thank you for the intelligent comment! This is what I am talking about!

 

[eldeld]

It seems like people here, need cited evidence on the above topic of black men in fact having the larger penises. Well I'm going to share one source with you all at the the moment, any objections, I'll show you another, simple as that. Yes, more white people have participated in these surveys and you will see that in the link that I cite,... but even though there was a significant smaller amount of black men, they still proved to have bigger penises.

The article: Is It True What They Say About Penis Size vs. Race

Survey:
Penis Size Survey Analysis: Penis Size By Race, Height, Shoe Size, Sexual Orientation and More

Now after you read that, think about if more brothers stepped up to the plate.I'm may only be 8x5, but I feel I'm well endowed no matter what anyone says. I'm a trainer at a gym with 8,000 members,more than half being men, not saying I've seen 4,000 penises in the locker room, but I've seen a lot in the flaccid state, and hate to say it people, but there is always some truth in these stereotypes.

So your point is. . .

I am asking about the average or less than average brotha! Who the fuck cares if we are bigger! That is not the damn point! I'm losing my patience with my people here! Our shallow egos are coming to the fore here! Let's have an intelligent discussion about the issue presented in the beginning of the thread.

Hey why don't all of you 'we got big dicks' brotha's start a thread entitled: "Us Blacks only got big dicks and nothing the fuck else to offer!"

 

[Aplus]

It seems like people here, need cited evidence on the above topic of black men in fact having the larger penises.

Thanks for posting that reply Elderd! I just erased a very long response to this because of your post. I really tire of that whole argument since I really can't relate that much with it anyway.

 

[Group51]

I can go by this site like someone else recently mentioned on here. The biggest white penises I've seen on here, appear to rival the biggest black ones. And there are a helluva lot more large white penises on here than black ones, as there are more white men in the world.

Quoted for truth.

 

[Aplus]

There are not more white men in the world! Please! Just more white men in the United States than Black men!

Point well taken. Thanks, I actually meant the United States. I was really trying to put the who's bigger argument into perspective.

 

[Group51]

The article: Is It True What They Say About Penis Size vs. Race

Yes, gay guys are significantly bigger than straights. You saw that bit of the survey right?

 

[HaagenDazs]

WTF! We got it! Damn! Okay, Blacks tend to be bigger! This has been established and is getting on my nerves! The point of the thread is to open the forum for discussion for those of us who may not feel they measure up to the stereotype!

Is there any other fucking thing that we can have pride in besides our dicks? We have been objectified to the point that many of us have suffered some emotional scarring from it! How many of us have been bedded by a White chick just to see if it is true - with no intention of having a lasting relationship? How many of us have been rejected when we don't measure up? How many of us are ashamed to disrobe in a locker just because we feel we don't measure up? Can we get some intelligent discussion about that?

WTF is actually what I should be asking you. Whether or not the point is getting on your nerves, that's your problem. The post asked a question, and I answered it part of it that I felt was relevant, and I wasn't answering you, I was answering someone else.

If you're having a mental problem about having a little/average dick, that's your problem. I don't have a little/average dick so I can't speak from the point of view of someone who's been "Scarred for life for being rejected" about it HENCE the reason I didn't answer that part of the question. However, someone in the thread asked whether or not it was normal for us to be bigger, and I ANSWERED THEIR QUESTION. See?

Let's step back for a second and have some Haagen Dazs, because at this moment you're acting a lil out of your body by coming at me with the whole "WTF, DAmn, Oh my God" thing and questioning my post. First of all, I did NOT say that all black men had going for them were big dicks. So don't put that in my mouth. The thread asked a question about black dick size and if you'd been rejected. I answered it. You didn't ask all that other shit that developed. Now if you want a thread on revolutionizing the black male mind after the generational belittlement of it due to slavery and mental conditioning from four hundred years of corrupt governmental agendas and the mental conditioning that reduces black men to thugs with huge cocks....MAKE A THREAD ABOUT THAT.

Now if you feel you don't measure up, that's your problem.

"Nobody can make you a slave but you".

You have to change your mental conditioning and realize that there's more to black men then our traditionally larger dick size. And at no point did I EVER say that's all we had. I simply answered one part of the question and didn't answer the rest. And it is my choice to do so.

But do not come in a thread, that asks about black men dick sizes, and then act crazy at people who answer the question in one part.

 

[XLargeBlackGuy]

So your point is. . .

Hey why don't all of you 'we got big dicks' brotha's start a thread entitled: "Us Blacks only got big dicks and nothing the fuck else to offer!"

Stop being so sensitive....I know well in fact, we have plenty of other things to offer, but I am not on the "What the fuck else we have to offer" support group, but on the " {LARGE PENIS} support group". I just posted that survey to give some sort of citation, to those who asked for it.

 

[Aplus]

How many of us Black Men are of average or just above average size. Do you feel the pressure and shame of not 'measuring' up to the stereotype?

I thought the original question was a straight-forward one with a distinct direction. Not really sure how all the other stuff got involved. I guess I helped steer it away from its original course, and for that I apologize. Maybe we all need to see the original question again to stay on its course or purpose.

 

[eldeld]

From Haagen Dazs: "Let's step back for a second and have some Haagen Dazs, because at this moment you're acting a lil out of your body by coming at me with the whole "WTF, DAmn, Oh my God" thing and questioning my post. First of all, I did NOT say that all black men had going for them were big dicks. So don't put that in my mouth. The thread asked a question about black dick size and if you'd been rejected. I answered it. You didn't ask all that other shit that developed. Now if you want a thread on revolutionizing the black male mind after the generational belittlement of it due to slavery and mental conditioning from four hundred years of corrupt governmental agendas and the mental conditioning that reduces black men to thugs with huge cocks....MAKE A THREAD ABOUT THAT

You know, you are right. I apologize about reacting to you. You are kinda bearing the brunt of some of the other responses that have been posted throughout the thread that have pent up a rage unleashed on you. For that I apologize.

But if you read some of the responses throughout the thread it has strayed. I have found solace and realization about myself that has been helpful. But I have noticed (and you can go back and look) a lot of the 'we blacks got big dicks' response come from guys who blow the scale in size. I just regret having seen the thread turn into a race (blacks are bigger than whites!) issue. Now, I know that you did not say that big dicks are all that we have going for us. But, I believe that we Black men have so many social and psychological dysfunctions that I feel that our tenacity to the 'at least we got big dicks' idea has become our only claim to any real manhood. Being Black and not having a 9" plus member is embarrasing. Now ain't that some bullshit? That's the issue I was hoping to have a healthy discussion about.

So again, I apologize at 'yelling' at you (I hate Black on Black fighting!) Now I'll step back and have some Haagen Daz! I (The ice cream that is!)

 

[Anatomy9]

i have no idea

 

[eldeld]

I thought the original question was a straight-forward one with a distinct direction. Not really sure how all the other stuff got involved. I guess I helped steer it away from its original course, and for that I apologize. Maybe we all need to see the original question again to stay on its course or purpose.

Thanks Aplus!

 

[Aplus]

How did you handle the pressure? How do you define average or below? I know that in my case I really felt that I was less than average until coming to this site. I have almost come to peace with myself.

I've noticed some of us brothers in the locker room tend to be shy about disrobing. I've also noticed that they tend to have modest bulges. Many of the White men who are modestly endowed are apt to disrobe with no problem. It leads me to conclude that the Black men have not come to peace with themselves. What is your thought on this?

A little late and distracted on this, but I did want to get back to it. How I personally handle the pressure now is that I just don't think about it or let it bother me anymore. I have what I have, and either someone is gonna like or they aren't. Helps to be practical, which I've always been...although I haven't always used it. Took some time, real life experiences, and real life conversations for me to get there though. As one online guy put it to me years ago. "If you feel small at 6 inches, just imagine how small I feel at 3 inches?" Any issue I may have had went out the window after that. And when I really looked back on my real life experiences, I realized that the positive far outweighed the negative by a long shot. For some reason though, I gave the "bad" far more weight than I gave the good. All of a sudden, I completely stopped caring what others thought or expected. No more hiding my penis in the locker room, or being afraid to drop my pants in front of anyone. Sex became way easier, more pleasurable, and I was a lot better at it all of a sudden. Maybe because the issues were gone, I was just able to really relax, enjoy myself, and let loose. I would say that I'm now 40 years old, and I wasted a lot of time/years worrying about something that I really couldn't change.

It did take me a long time to feel comfortable disrobing in public, especially when you consider that I have no real problems with nudity in general. I have also noticed that some other modestly endowed black guys seem to not disrobe as easily either. Now some people are just modest by nature, but I do sometimes wonder if it is the fear of not measuring up that causes it. I do still think the expectations are a real one, and do still "feel" others expectations...I just don't care anymore though.

How I define average is really based on the total collection of every real penis size survey I've ever seen, combined with my real life experiences. Nothing more I can really go by. Seems to matter little to me these days really, but I always assumed between 5 to 7 inches. Growing up there really was no such thing as average. Your penis was considered either small or big...no inbetween really existed. Wasn't until I got in my mid 20's that the words average-sized penis came to light. Funny thing is, I never really considered my penis small until a few people told me it was or reacted as if it was.

 

[eldeld]

A little late and distracted on this, but I did want to get back to it. How I personally handle the pressure now is that I just don't think about it or let it bother me anymore. I have what I have, and either someone is gonna like or they aren't. Helps to be practical, which I've always been...although I haven't always used it. Took some time, real life experiences, and real life conversations for me to get there though. As one online guy put it to me years ago. "If you feel small at 6 inches, just imagine how small I feel at 3 inches?" Any issue I may have had went out the window after that. And when I really looked back on my real life experiences, I realized that the positive far outweighed the negative by a long shot. For some reason though, I gave the "bad" far more weight than I gave the good. All of a sudden, I completely stopped caring what others thought or expected. No more hiding my penis in the locker room, or being afraid to drop my pants in front of anyone. Sex became way easier, more pleasurable, and I was a lot better at it all of a sudden. Maybe because the issues were gone, I was just able to really relax, enjoy myself, and let loose. I would say that I'm now 40 years old, and I wasted a lot of time/years worrying about something that I really couldn't change.

It did take me a long time to feel comfortable disrobing in public, especially when you consider that I have no real problems with nudity in general. I have also noticed that some other modestly endowed black guys seem to not disrobe as easily either. Now some people are just modest by nature, but I do sometimes wonder if it is the fear of not measuring up that causes it. I do still think the expectations are a real one, and do still "feel" others expectations...I just don't care anymore though.

Thanks for the response. I appreciate the thoughtful response. I have really beat myself up for not measuring to the Black 'standard' of 15"! Believe it or not this thread has been very helpful for me. At 7.5 X 5.5 I have come to peace with myself. I kinda realized that it is selfish to want to feel better about myself by being larger than others. Like I need them to feel smaller to make me feel big! But this stereotype is so powerful, and yet so destructive to Black men, who are in need of positive stereotypes and realities.

 

[Aplus]

Thanks for the response. I appreciate the thoughtful response. I have really beat myself up for not measuring to the Black 'standard' of 15"! Believe it or not this thread has been very helpful for me. At 7.5 X 5.5 I have come to peace with myself. I kinda realized that it is selfish to want to feel better about myself by being larger than others. Like I need them to feel smaller to make me feel big! But this stereotype is so powerful, and yet so destructive to Black men, who are in need of positive stereotypes and realities.

Well I understand. It's pretty much imbedded in society as this point in one way or another. Hell it's hard to turn on the tv and not hear some subtle or not-so-subtle mention of it. Seems every tv show, commercial, infomerial, or comedian has a small dick/big dick joke or story just waiting to be told. I even hear some mention of it at work it seems like every other day. It's really hard to escape. I think the key is not taking others comments or expectations personally or to heart. You have what you have, and you can't change it in my view. Might as well enjoy life and especially sex while you can.

 

[Big Del]

Black here but quite a bit bigger than average

Peace and Love
Del