This act — “straight homosexual sex” or the newly coined term “bud-sex” — is far more common than we may have thought, reaching many areas that seem unlikely, like suburban neighborhoods and even biker gangs alongside the groups that we might anticipate would have this kind of sex: fraternities and yes, even the military.
In the case of the military or even fraternities, it seems far more likely that men would have these encounters. After all, these groups allow for men to congregate with one another, often in places where they may not have access to a female spouse or partner.
However, in other instances, like suburban neighborhoods or biker gangs, this isn’t true. Men simply seek out these meetups, despite identifying as wholly straight.
Many white straight men in rural areas actually believed that their "Bud-sex" encounters strengthened their heterosexual identities.
-Jane Ward
My questions:
As a straight man, have you had any sexual encounter with another straight man? How did it happen? What are your thoughts about it and did you enjoy those encounters?
In the case of the military or even fraternities, it seems far more likely that men would have these encounters. After all, these groups allow for men to congregate with one another, often in places where they may not have access to a female spouse or partner.
However, in other instances, like suburban neighborhoods or biker gangs, this isn’t true. Men simply seek out these meetups, despite identifying as wholly straight.
Many white straight men in rural areas actually believed that their "Bud-sex" encounters strengthened their heterosexual identities.
-Jane Ward
My questions:
As a straight man, have you had any sexual encounter with another straight man? How did it happen? What are your thoughts about it and did you enjoy those encounters?