Do you ever find yourself wet when you're not horny?
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Oh I can agree we can be turned on by weird stuff, but if it is related to sex, even of another species, it's really not strange to think the human mind could look at anything sexual and start having sexual thoughts.
Where as my cat stares at us have sex and seems disgusted by it or not bothered in the least of what we are doing. She has no idea what is going on around her to even get sexual thoughts triggered to her mind. But I can see this happening in the reverse easily because we understand what is going on, even just a little.
Human sexuality is odd and so complex. I can be triggered into sexual arousal by the smell of my husbands cologne, even sometimes on another man. Or by a song that we love to have sex to. Pavlov's dogs we all are.
Where as my cat stares at us have sex and seems disgusted by it or not bothered in the least of what we are doing. She has no idea what is going on around her to even get sexual thoughts triggered to her mind. But I can see this happening in the reverse easily because we understand what is going on, even just a little.
Human sexuality is odd and so complex. I can be triggered into sexual arousal by the smell of my husbands cologne, even sometimes on another man. Or by a song that we love to have sex to. Pavlov's dogs we all are.
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But finding myself getting wet in a horny way when I am not having horny related thoughts is not happening in my world. Maybe it's just me but I think lubrication is much more complicated than that. I have a very high sex drive and since my hysterectomy I've not been able to get wet as easily from porn, but I can be very aroused and otherwise entirely ready for sex.
Strange thing is, since the hysterectomy I notice I'm getting much wetter from sexual play. I used to get wet easily from porn, not anymore. Aroused yes, wet no. But I also have very little to no vaginal wetness happening on a daily basis due to estrogen loss from the hysterectomy so those fluids aren't being mixed in with the slimey arousal wetness. So the slimey stuff is pure and abundant but only if brought out in a certain way.
I'm having to work my mind much harder to get these signs to show up than ever before. It's a sudden change and obviously related to the hysterectomy. Food for thought though.
Strange thing is, since the hysterectomy I notice I'm getting much wetter from sexual play. I used to get wet easily from porn, not anymore. Aroused yes, wet no. But I also have very little to no vaginal wetness happening on a daily basis due to estrogen loss from the hysterectomy so those fluids aren't being mixed in with the slimey arousal wetness. So the slimey stuff is pure and abundant but only if brought out in a certain way.
I'm having to work my mind much harder to get these signs to show up than ever before. It's a sudden change and obviously related to the hysterectomy. Food for thought though.
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Bitch:biggrin1:
I'll let it slide this time. No pun intended.
I think, though picky, it is worth pointing out that bonobos are not our ancestors, we share an ancestor with them (from around 6 to 7 million years ago). I'm open to correction, but I don't believe we know much about the social behaviour of the common ancestor - just theories extrapolated from chimp, bonobo and human behaviour.
The bitch comment wasn't just a joke, because males and females do seem to react differently though not in the Pavlov sense. Thank you for your openness MR, I can't say that I fully understand what is going on, I'll have to think about it a lot more, but the whole issue of this thread regards the different physical and mental connections that men and women make. Men seem to be more singing from the same hymn sheet mentally and physically than do women when it comes to mental and physical sexual response. The reasons for this are fascinating and hopefully will help men understand women better.
You're almost certainly correct, I'm no biologist.
I think we look at these social primate groups in an attempt to understand our old ancestors from whom we receive genetic patterns and perhaps more.
I am on a bit of a quest to try to understand our behaviour rather than to judge it.
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What men need to understand,realy?Present your dick when she shows she wants it!That's all you need to understand!
Till she brings out the whips chains and the strapon!!lollol!
About a year and a half ago I put some links up about this research on LPSG. If anyone is interested in reading up on it...
What Do Women Want? - Discovering What Ignites Female Desire - NYTimes.com
http://jezebel.com/5139038/what-women-want-to-talk-about-what-women-want
What Do Women Want? - Discovering What Ignites Female Desire - NYTimes.com
http://jezebel.com/5139038/what-women-want-to-talk-about-what-women-want
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I am embarassed to say I actually found those pictures a bit hard to look at. I was left wondering if I look like that inside....and hoping I don't. Weird as I love women and love their bits, but have never seen inside like that.
The pics were really full-on for me.
To answer the OP, yes, I do find myself getting wet at the weirdest of times, on some days. I've never been able to work out why, or what causes it.
Given that sperm can enter the uterus within minutes, I would say, if the theory is correct, that it implies hectic gang banging of females thought to be ovulating.
There is also a theory that males fall asleep after ejaculation (or at least become less active) so that females can fuck other males.
I think I read somewhere that family gang banging was part of the Aboriginal culture at weddings. I had better go check that in case I am very wrong.
I always thought that the penis head was that shape to stop your hand coming off the end. :wink:
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I much prefer your explanation about panty liner sales. I have to grab the remote and switch channels whenever a panty liner ad comes on,- I can't take the suggestion that as woman age they piss themselves. I may write to the advertising standards agency and get the ads banned.
Really? You thought panty liners were about pee?
Nope, it's a natural and normal function of the vagina to get wet.
It's far more abnormal with me to be dry, and in fact, it gets uncomfortable if it is too dry. I think the best analogy is your nose, the way it feels so uncomfortable when it's totally dry because it's not supposed to be.
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panty liners are not the same thing as frickin' tena lady
Tena!!! That's the ad I'm thinking of. Evil. Pure evil.
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