Gym Locker/shower Room Stories

[tomp]

We’ve raised a “towel dance” generation of men who will wear their underwear into the showers

Yea it's bad - I've been in the steam room before with just a towel drapped over me next to guys fully clothed complete with shoes and sox on - I guess you just leave wet and stay that way the rest of the day -

 

[opinionman]

Yea it's bad - I've been in the steam room before with just a towel drapped over me next to guys fully clothed complete with shoes and sox on - I guess you just leave wet and stay that way the rest of the day -

I'm surprised they don't put the towel on at home UNDER their gym clothes!
It's also discourteous to wear all your gear into the sauna.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

What do you guys suppose the reason would be for the modesty in being nude? Is it penis size, being uncircumcised, or more so a fear that someone might record them without them knowing? It could be a combination of all but I suspect that the fear of being recorded is the biggest fear today with cameras being so prevalent. We've seen the videos online that show guys changing in locker rooms and it makes you wonder how a camera was propped up and placed to be able to capture the footage. People are very creative with ways to record in spaces where cameras should not be allowed. I don't really assume that the fear stems from being naked and being seen by others. Most people that feel that way are from other generations where camera phones were not a thing.

There is a guy that goes to my gym and wears a sock over his dick when he's in the locker room. For him it's not the being nude that he worries about. He's told others that his fear is being recorded. He said that the sock is just until he gets in the shower where he feels more safe from being recorded. He also joked that the sock is also his wash cloth. I'm surprised nobody has come up with the idea of disposable cock covers that just cover your cock for situations such as public locker rooms. I wouldn't personally buy them because I am never in the locker room in the nude long enough to feel like someone could record me. I also choose lockers that are strategically faced away from people coming and and lockers that are situated in a way that I'm at a corner locker so that i'm not in between others. I never turn towards others when nude and if I have to be nude for longer than expected I will drape my towel over my shoulder so that the length of it hangs in front of me to cover me. The guys that tend to get caught by voyeurs are those that linger around naked and are doing other things instead of getting dressed or to the showers. I've seen guys standing at their lockers texting, clipping nails, organizing things in their bag, etc. The etiquette just isn't there for some in the locker rooms. It's meant to a be a place for quick coming and going. Not to shame older gents but they are very comfortable just sitting around and socializing while nude but those benches are not for lounging imo. I've actually had to break up conversations just to get to my locker to retrieve my items.

 

[gooallla]

i can only tell my own experience-
i live in tel-aviv, israel and recently being naked in the gym's locker room became much more common among young men (20s-40s). probably most of them are straight and are not looking for cruising or anything..
some of them are also using the sauna naked (which was exclusively done by the very old men before).

 

[RyanMars]

Young men are more conscious of male sexuality in general now with gays being so open with their lust for other men it has made young men self conscious about their sexualized bodies.

Back in the day men didn’t think of being sexualized. Especially their bodies. Gay men were in the closet. And dick size. Many men are afraid of being judged as everyone is a size queen now.

 

[Txprvdude]

What do you guys suppose the reason would be for the modesty in being nude? Is it penis size, being uncircumcised, or more so a fear that someone might record them without them knowing? It could be a combination of all but I suspect that the fear of being recorded is the biggest fear today with cameras being so prevalent. We've seen the videos online that show guys changing in locker rooms and it makes you wonder how a camera was propped up and placed to be able to capture the footage. People are very creative with ways to record in spaces where cameras should not be allowed. I don't really assume that the fear stems from being naked and being seen by others. Most people that feel that way are from other generations where camera phones were not a thing.

There is a guy that goes to my gym and wears a sock over his dick when he's in the locker room. For him it's not the being nude that he worries about. He's told others that his fear is being recorded. He said that the sock is just until he gets in the shower where he feels more safe from being recorded. He also joked that the sock is also his wash cloth. I'm surprised nobody has come up with the idea of disposable cock covers that just cover your cock for situations such as public locker rooms. I wouldn't personally buy them because I am never in the locker room in the nude long enough to feel like someone could record me. I also choose lockers that are strategically faced away from people coming and and lockers that are situated in a way that I'm at a corner locker so that i'm not in between others. I never turn towards others when nude and if I have to be nude for longer than expected I will drape my towel over my shoulder so that the length of it hangs in front of me to cover me. The guys that tend to get caught by voyeurs are those that linger around naked and are doing other things instead of getting dressed or to the showers. I've seen guys standing at their lockers texting, clipping nails, organizing things in their bag, etc. The etiquette just isn't there for some in the locker rooms. It's meant to a be a place for quick coming and going. Not to shame older gents but they are very comfortable just sitting around and socializing while nude but those benches are not for lounging imo. I've actually had to break up conversations just to get to my locker to retrieve my items.

“Sock dick dude” sounds insecure about the size of his manhood being filmed and thus “exposed” to the world for having a child size penis. The irony is that its highly unlikely anyone is interested in filming the small dick weirdo.

And Im one of the guys who you describe as “lingering nude” and thus getting possibly “covertly filmed”… and ? I know Ive been recorded (caught guys, seen iphones left strategically in a bag/in an open locker etc) its not the end of the world and is actually flattering. I enjoy being a dude with a nice package and dont mind being ogled for some dudes spank bank later.

Was just working out at the Flagstaff Athletic Club tonight and one of the things I love about this gym is the abundance of muscular young straight white jocks who appear to purposely show off in the open showers, sitting nude in the steam room or “lingering” nude at their locker… Fuck yeah

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

“Sock dick dude” sounds insecure about the size of his manhood being filmed and thus “exposed” to the world for having a child size penis.

Here is the irony of it. His dick isn't small. You can see the size and shape in the sock but you just can't see it full on. I've seen him snatch it off just before stepping into the shower and he's got nothing to be ashamed of that's why I feel there are other reasons guys are hesitant about being seen. Secondly there are a lot of guys with average and below average cocks who love to show for lack of a better word. It's hard to explain but I know for me, I love stripping out of my wet soggy clothes after a good workout and washing the filth from my body.

 

[RyanMars]

Here is the irony of it. His dick isn't small. You can see the size and shape in the sock but you just can't see it full on. I've seen him snatch it off just before stepping into the shower and he's got nothing to be ashamed of that's why I feel there are other reasons guys are hesitant about being seen. Secondly there are a lot of guys with average and below average cocks who love to show for lack of a better word. It's hard to explain but I know for me, I love stripping out of my wet soggy clothes after a good workout and washing the filth from my body.

Why doesn’t he just wear a towel ?

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Why doesn’t he just wear a towel ?

Good question. I might ask him myself next time I see him. I'm sure others give him weird looks and probably ask him about the sock. He seems nice enough to answer questions and explain how he feels.

 

[out_standinginhisfield]

Finally, after the third time using the squat rack I noticed he kept following me around. He seemed thirsty for cock and like it was his gym routine. Some of us go to work out, and he went to suck cocks in the sauna.

I didn't think much of it because I'm not into cruising so I dodged him by going to the Lockeroom early and pretend like I was leaving. He followed, of course, and once I saw him grab a towel I went to finish my routine.

After a heavy day of legwork, I could barely stand and hobbled back to the lockeroom so I could find some relief in the sauna. I hadn't emptied out a load from my cock in what felt like a week because I had been so consumed with work. Parts of me were dying to run to the nearest stall and quietly work out my load, and other parts said I'd just hold off for the couple I have been playing around with. I held it.

I hobble/saunter to the sauna after a quick rinse in the shower. No one in sight. I open the door, drop my towel and find the perfect spot to leg my legs absorb the heat of the cedarwood. But I quickly realized in my daze of exhaustion I failed to look around the corner and see a guy sprawled in the corner, legs open, stroking his cock. It looked like he had been edging for a whole hour, waiting their desperately for me or who ever had a pulse and balls. He winked at me as I threw my towel back on and leaned forward.

I leaned forward out of discomfort, but also because I could feel my cock starting to writhe with anger. Yeah I have an angry cock, and was in need of some anger management. Fuck it.

I throw my towel back off and sic him on my cock like a dog that hasn't ate all day. He gagged and choked and was stroking his own. He came in less than 20 seconds. Two pathetic pills of cum. What a waste I thought to myself as I pulled his head deeper on my now, fully throbbing cock. I slap him and he responds in enjoyment. I slap again and grab his hand and bring him into the open showers...

 

[opinionman]

What do you guys suppose the reason would be for the modesty in being nude? Is it penis size, being uncircumcised, or more so a fear that someone might record them without them knowing? It could be a combination of all but I suspect that the fear of being recorded is the biggest fear today with cameras being so prevalent. We've seen the videos online that show guys changing in locker rooms and it makes you wonder how a camera was propped up and placed to be able to capture the footage. People are very creative with ways to record in spaces where cameras should not be allowed. I don't really assume that the fear stems from being naked and being seen by others. Most people that feel that way are from other generations where camera phones were not a thing.

There is a guy that goes to my gym and wears a sock over his dick when he's in the locker room. For him it's not the being nude that he worries about. He's told others that his fear is being recorded. He said that the sock is just until he gets in the shower where he feels more safe from being recorded. He also joked that the sock is also his wash cloth. I'm surprised nobody has come up with the idea of disposable cock covers that just cover your cock for situations such as public locker rooms. I wouldn't personally buy them because I am never in the locker room in the nude long enough to feel like someone could record me. I also choose lockers that are strategically faced away from people coming and and lockers that are situated in a way that I'm at a corner locker so that i'm not in between others. I never turn towards others when nude and if I have to be nude for longer than expected I will drape my towel over my shoulder so that the length of it hangs in front of me to cover me. The guys that tend to get caught by voyeurs are those that linger around naked and are doing other things instead of getting dressed or to the showers. I've seen guys standing at their lockers texting, clipping nails, organizing things in their bag, etc. The etiquette just isn't there for some in the locker rooms. It's meant to a be a place for quick coming and going. Not to shame older gents but they are very comfortable just sitting around and socializing while nude but those benches are not for lounging imo. I've actually had to break up conversations just to get to my locker to retrieve my items.

What do you guys suppose the reason would be for the modesty in being nude? Is it penis size, being uncircumcised, or more so a fear that someone might record them without them knowing? It could be a combination of all but I suspect that the fear of being recorded is the biggest fear today with cameras being so prevalent. We've seen the videos online that show guys changing in locker rooms and it makes you wonder how a camera was propped up and placed to be able to capture the footage. People are very creative with ways to record in spaces where cameras should not be allowed. I don't really assume that the fear stems from being naked and being seen by others. Most people that feel that way are from other generations where camera phones were not a thing.

There is a guy that goes to my gym and wears a sock over his dick when he's in the locker room. For him it's not the being nude that he worries about. He's told others that his fear is being recorded. He said that the sock is just until he gets in the shower where he feels more safe from being recorded. He also joked that the sock is also his wash cloth. I'm surprised nobody has come up with the idea of disposable cock covers that just cover your cock for situations such as public locker rooms. I wouldn't personally buy them because I am never in the locker room in the nude long enough to feel like someone could record me. I also choose lockers that are strategically faced away from people coming and and lockers that are situated in a way that I'm at a corner locker so that i'm not in between others. I never turn towards others when nude and if I have to be nude for longer than expected I will drape my towel over my shoulder so that the length of it hangs in front of me to cover me. The guys that tend to get caught by voyeurs are those that linger around naked and are doing other things instead of getting dressed or to the showers. I've seen guys standing at their lockers texting, clipping nails, organizing things in their bag, etc. The etiquette just isn't there for some in the locker rooms. It's meant to a be a place for quick coming and going. Not to shame older gents but they are very comfortable just sitting around and socializing while nude but those benches are not for lounging imo. I've actually had to break up conversations just to get to my locker to retrieve my items.

That is an absurd response to a fear: wearing a sock over your dick?? That only draws attention to it.
I also wonder if fear of being filmed is the primary culprit. Guys were afraid of locker room nudity long before cell phone cameras. Sometimes, as you say, it's got to be shame over size, sometimes fear of getting an erection, sometimes fear that a dude looking at your junk might awaken in you the fact that you crave cock yourself, etc. The reasons are probably endless.
I don't agree that locker rooms are meant to be a "Place for quick coming and going." There's no need to be quick, esp after, say, a long and tiring workout. Taking some time, having a sauna if you can, etc. is just a way of cementing that this guys only space and time should not be violated or produce some sense of urgency. Quite the opposite, in my opinion.

 

[deleted25215671]

I hope I’m not too late to this thread but I have a hot story to share! When I was younger, I was a gymnast for several years and I always thought my coach was sexy as fuck and a bit fruity despite being married with kids around my age. He was about 6 foot 4, solid, muscular build, brown hair with curtains, veiny arms and wore glasses. Very mature looking. Back then, he’d always help me stretch and was very hands on. Was definitely my bisexual awakening. A number of years pass and I stopped doing gymnastic and just focus on lifting weights instead. I’d been training at this commercial gym for a couple years now and for the first time in a long time, I’d see him there training himself (still looking sexy as fuck). We spoke to each other for a bit, catching up, and I decided to ask him to spot me while I squat. Once I was done squatting, he told me how great I’m looking and how those squats are really helping me build my glutes. I laughed and we chatted a bit about his wife and family (which made me sad inside knowing he’s still married). I finished my gym sesh and went to use the sauna. I took all my clothes off and just had a towel wrapped around my waist. It was just me in there for a couple of minutes and then my old coach walked in wearing sexy tight speedos while holding his towel in his hand. This was the first time seeing most of his body and it was sexy as fuck! He smiled at me as he sat down next to me. As no one else was in there besides us two, I told him how I liked being in the sauna naked to increase natural test levels and asked him if it was okay. He didn’t say much, but nodded his head. I unwrapped my towel showing off my thick arse and semi hard cock. I told him how I liked to do stretches in here as well, as I started to bend over exposing my tight hole. He could see him trying not to stare and his bulge in his tight speedos getting bigger. I craw over to him and say “why don’t you join me and take your speedos off? They’re starting to look tight”. He sighed and slowly took his off exposing his throbbing cock. Was probably about 8inches and thick as fuck. He said in a soft tone “fuckkk I can’t get over how thick your arse is looking. Definitely from all the squats”. By this stage, I was hard as fuck and said “look, I know you’re married and have kids, but you can touch it if you’d like”. He slowly reached out and gave it a feel. His cock was rock hard at this stage as I slowly reached over to grab it. I started rubbing it in my hand (it was heavy) as he started to stick a finger into my tight hole. “It’s tight. I thought someone like you would be lose” he said. I leaned in to give him a peck on the lips. Next moment, it broke out into a steamy, hot makeout sesh. This is what iv been waiting for for years. We heard someone coming into the sauna, so we quickly wrapped our towels around ourselves before either of us could finish. As someone else entered, he gave me a smile and left the sauna. I followed after him shortly. By the time I made it to the locker room, he’d already showered and gotten dressed. “No one can ever know about this” he told me. He smiled and left. I searched through my phone that night and found his contact number from years back. I sent him a text saying how I had fun and we should do it again sometime. The following week, his wife was out (his kids had moved out of home) so he invited me over. Since then, we’ve had sex a number of times, and each time just gets hotter and hotter.

 

[tomp]

I hope I’m not too late to this thread but I have a hot story to share! When I was younger, I was a gymnast for several years and I always thought my coach was sexy as fuck and a bit fruity despite being married with kids around my age. He was about 6 foot 4, solid, muscular build, brown hair with curtains, veiny arms and wore glasses. Very mature looking. Back then, he’d always help me stretch and was very hands on. Was definitely my bisexual awakening. A number of years pass and I stopped doing gymnastic and just focus on lifting weights instead. I’d been training at this commercial gym for a couple years now and for the first time in a long time, I’d see him there training himself (still looking sexy as fuck). We spoke to each other for a bit, catching up, and I decided to ask him to spot me while I squat. Once I was done squatting, he told me how great I’m looking and how those squats are really helping me build my glutes. I laughed and we chatted a bit about his wife and family (which made me sad inside knowing he’s still married). I finished my gym sesh and went to use the sauna. I took all my clothes off and just had a towel wrapped around my waist. It was just me in there for a couple of minutes and then my old coach walked in wearing sexy tight speedos while holding his towel in his hand. This was the first time seeing most of his body and it was sexy as fuck! He smiled at me as he sat down next to me. As no one else was in there besides us two, I told him how I liked being in the sauna naked to increase natural test levels and asked him if it was okay. He didn’t say much, but nodded his head. I unwrapped my towel showing off my thick arse and semi hard cock. I told him how I liked to do stretches in here as well, as I started to bend over exposing my tight hole. He could see him trying not to stare and his bulge in his tight speedos getting bigger. I craw over to him and say “why don’t you join me and take your speedos off? They’re starting to look tight”. He sighed and slowly took his off exposing his throbbing cock. Was probably about 8inches and thick as fuck. He said in a soft tone “fuckkk I can’t get over how thick your arse is looking. Definitely from all the squats”. By this stage, I was hard as fuck and said “look, I know you’re married and have kids, but you can touch it if you’d like”. He slowly reached out and gave it a feel. His cock was rock hard at this stage as I slowly reached over to grab it. I started rubbing it in my hand (it was heavy) as he started to stick a finger into my tight hole. “It’s tight. I thought someone like you would be lose” he said. I leaned in to give him a peck on the lips. Next moment, it broke out into a steamy, hot makeout sesh. This is what iv been waiting for for years. We heard someone coming into the sauna, so we quickly wrapped our towels around ourselves before either of us could finish. As someone else entered, he gave me a smile and left the sauna. I followed after him shortly. By the time I made it to the locker room, he’d already showered and gotten dressed. “No one can ever know about this” he told me. He smiled and left. I searched through my phone that night and found his contact number from years back. I sent him a text saying how I had fun and we should do it again sometime. The following week, his wife was out (his kids had moved out of home) so he invited me over. Since then, we’ve had sex a number of times, and each time just gets hotter and hotter.

never too late for a good story like that

 

[hzs3fg]

I hope I’m not too late to this thread but I have a hot story to share! When I was younger, I was a gymnast for several years and I always thought my coach was sexy as fuck and a bit fruity despite being married with kids around my age. He was about 6 foot 4, solid, muscular build, brown hair with curtains, veiny arms and wore glasses. Very mature looking. Back then, he’d always help me stretch and was very hands on. Was definitely my bisexual awakening. A number of years pass and I stopped doing gymnastic and just focus on lifting weights instead. I’d been training at this commercial gym for a couple years now and for the first time in a long time, I’d see him there training himself (still looking sexy as fuck). We spoke to each other for a bit, catching up, and I decided to ask him to spot me while I squat. Once I was done squatting, he told me how great I’m looking and how those squats are really helping me build my glutes. I laughed and we chatted a bit about his wife and family (which made me sad inside knowing he’s still married). I finished my gym sesh and went to use the sauna. I took all my clothes off and just had a towel wrapped around my waist. It was just me in there for a couple of minutes and then my old coach walked in wearing sexy tight speedos while holding his towel in his hand. This was the first time seeing most of his body and it was sexy as fuck! He smiled at me as he sat down next to me. As no one else was in there besides us two, I told him how I liked being in the sauna naked to increase natural test levels and asked him if it was okay. He didn’t say much, but nodded his head. I unwrapped my towel showing off my thick arse and semi hard cock. I told him how I liked to do stretches in here as well, as I started to bend over exposing my tight hole. He could see him trying not to stare and his bulge in his tight speedos getting bigger. I craw over to him and say “why don’t you join me and take your speedos off? They’re starting to look tight”. He sighed and slowly took his off exposing his throbbing cock. Was probably about 8inches and thick as fuck. He said in a soft tone “fuckkk I can’t get over how thick your arse is looking. Definitely from all the squats”. By this stage, I was hard as fuck and said “look, I know you’re married and have kids, but you can touch it if you’d like”. He slowly reached out and gave it a feel. His cock was rock hard at this stage as I slowly reached over to grab it. I started rubbing it in my hand (it was heavy) as he started to stick a finger into my tight hole. “It’s tight. I thought someone like you would be lose” he said. I leaned in to give him a peck on the lips. Next moment, it broke out into a steamy, hot makeout sesh. This is what iv been waiting for for years. We heard someone coming into the sauna, so we quickly wrapped our towels around ourselves before either of us could finish. As someone else entered, he gave me a smile and left the sauna. I followed after him shortly. By the time I made it to the locker room, he’d already showered and gotten dressed. “No one can ever know about this” he told me. He smiled and left. I searched through my phone that night and found his contact number from years back. I sent him a text saying how I had fun and we should do it again sometime. The following week, his wife was out (his kids had moved out of home) so he invited me over. Since then, we’ve had sex a number of times, and each time just gets hotter and hotter.

Ah, school coaches and Catholic priests...

Cut from the same fabric, so to speak.

 

[RyanMars]

Ah, school coaches and Catholic priests...

Cut from the same fabric, so to speak.

I think school coaches are a bit different as they spend more time with students. I have seen questionable stuff on social media of gymnastic coaches helping students do stretches that are ok but can also be very erotic. It is a very fine line. That story gave me pause bc of history. Not a good look.

 

[borg1125]

We’ve raised a “towel dance” generation of men who will wear their underwear into the showers

Yep. When I first saw that gen do the "towel dance" a decade or so ago I was like WTF as I watched them wiggle and twist their underwear off under the towel. And then the reverse dance of putting your underwear on up under the towel.

 

[opinionman]

Psychotic behavior.

Yep. When I first saw that gen do the "towel dance" a decade or so ago I was like WTF as I watched them wiggle and twist their underwear off under the towel. And then the reverse dance of putting your underwear on up under the towel.

 

[Jakeyd]

They miss out on so much. The simple pleasure of being in a male only space and being free not to worry about letting our equipment hang free is something which I find intensely grounding and peaceful. Other guys will see our penis and we will see theirs, and acknowledging each other as men in this way shows respect and pride in our common masculinity.

 

[Perfectsix]

The problem with our “common masculinity” is some of us have more of it than others and it is easier for the bigger guy to show his share of masculinity off than it is for those with a bit less…

 

[opinionman]

They miss out on so much. The simple pleasure of being in a male only space and being free not to worry about letting our equipment hang free is something which I find intensely grounding and peaceful. Other guys will see our penis and we will see theirs, and acknowledging each other as men in this way shows respect and pride in our common masculinity.

Absolutely spot-on, man. And, by the way, this feeling is exponentially magnified in places like Jack- off clubs, where camaraderie is king.