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mermaiden: [quote author=DizzyGus link=board=relationships;num=1034747082;start=0#1 date=10/16/02 at 01:02:35]My opinion...
First off I'm not a gay male. I've been with 3 guys and about 35-40 girls in my 30 years.
You say you are shy. Well a lot of people equate that with a lack of confidence. I am not saying you need to be the life of the party everywhere you go but if you want to get dates and get to know people you need to be at least KIND OF an outgoing person.
How do you dress? Are you in shape? Those are things that also can help you display confidence.
I work out a lot and I always dress nicely and I wear cologne no matter what and it is amazing how those things give me confidence when I am around people.
It also helps that I have a ten and a half inch dick (when I'm HARD of course ) and I know how to use it or so I have been told.
I think maybe you just need to be more sure of yourself and present yourself better. I don't mean to offend you by saying that, I am just saying that that is what works for me. When I am wearing good clothes and I have my hair done just right (I'm a bigtime mop head though ) and I know that I look good, and when I know that my body is looking buff and that I can screw any girl that I meet until she's screaming the swahili alphabet backwards...it's quite a feeling. ;D
I learned a lesson in hockey a long time ago...if you present yourself like you are your opponent's bitch then that's how they will treat you and you'll get pushed around all game long. But if you present yourself as a badass and if you knock your opponent on his ass and tell him that you're gonna be kicking his ass all night then you've got the upper hand.
Same thing when dealing with people...if you present yourself as a shy guy even though you might be a really nice guy, well...that's not going to get you what you want. You're going to be treated the same way as you've always been treated.
But! If you present yourself looking hot and smelling good and with a hot body and knowing you've got a monster swinging between your legs......
You might be surprised at how many people will literally throw themselves at you.
As far as the problem of hurting the girl with your size goes, well I had a girlfriend when I was a teenage guy that taught me all about FOREPLAY and that most girls can't get enough of it. And that's what I usually do unless I know the chick is already totally horny for my dick. The more foreplay you participate in the more lubed up she'll be and the more capable of taking in your dick or at least most of it. Ever since that girl taught me how to eat pussy (suction is a BIG KEY), I have never had a problem causing pain during sex because I make sure to turn the girl on completely. I have performed oral sex on some girls for over an hour in some cases and believe me when I was done doing that I had no problem sliding in balls deep! ;D
Somebody else on this board said that 90% of sex is in your mind and your attitude. I could not agree more!
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This is soooo true! Even if a guy wasn't built or hung, if he has confidence he can almost have any woman he wants!!! I've seen it many times where a guy doesn't look like he has much going for him untilhe opens his mouth, then look out! I've seen theopposite too. grat looking guys being dogged by girls because of how they carry themselves.
Great colones, abercrombie fitch 'woods'. the bath shop has a great smelling mens line, very clean and fresh. guys NOTHING beats great hygene folled up with some nice colone.
try it what have you got to loose?
First off I'm not a gay male. I've been with 3 guys and about 35-40 girls in my 30 years.
You say you are shy. Well a lot of people equate that with a lack of confidence. I am not saying you need to be the life of the party everywhere you go but if you want to get dates and get to know people you need to be at least KIND OF an outgoing person.
How do you dress? Are you in shape? Those are things that also can help you display confidence.
I work out a lot and I always dress nicely and I wear cologne no matter what and it is amazing how those things give me confidence when I am around people.
It also helps that I have a ten and a half inch dick (when I'm HARD of course ) and I know how to use it or so I have been told.
I think maybe you just need to be more sure of yourself and present yourself better. I don't mean to offend you by saying that, I am just saying that that is what works for me. When I am wearing good clothes and I have my hair done just right (I'm a bigtime mop head though ) and I know that I look good, and when I know that my body is looking buff and that I can screw any girl that I meet until she's screaming the swahili alphabet backwards...it's quite a feeling. ;D
I learned a lesson in hockey a long time ago...if you present yourself like you are your opponent's bitch then that's how they will treat you and you'll get pushed around all game long. But if you present yourself as a badass and if you knock your opponent on his ass and tell him that you're gonna be kicking his ass all night then you've got the upper hand.
Same thing when dealing with people...if you present yourself as a shy guy even though you might be a really nice guy, well...that's not going to get you what you want. You're going to be treated the same way as you've always been treated.
But! If you present yourself looking hot and smelling good and with a hot body and knowing you've got a monster swinging between your legs......
You might be surprised at how many people will literally throw themselves at you.
As far as the problem of hurting the girl with your size goes, well I had a girlfriend when I was a teenage guy that taught me all about FOREPLAY and that most girls can't get enough of it. And that's what I usually do unless I know the chick is already totally horny for my dick. The more foreplay you participate in the more lubed up she'll be and the more capable of taking in your dick or at least most of it. Ever since that girl taught me how to eat pussy (suction is a BIG KEY), I have never had a problem causing pain during sex because I make sure to turn the girl on completely. I have performed oral sex on some girls for over an hour in some cases and believe me when I was done doing that I had no problem sliding in balls deep! ;D
Somebody else on this board said that 90% of sex is in your mind and your attitude. I could not agree more!
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This is soooo true! Even if a guy wasn't built or hung, if he has confidence he can almost have any woman he wants!!! I've seen it many times where a guy doesn't look like he has much going for him untilhe opens his mouth, then look out! I've seen theopposite too. grat looking guys being dogged by girls because of how they carry themselves.
Great colones, abercrombie fitch 'woods'. the bath shop has a great smelling mens line, very clean and fresh. guys NOTHING beats great hygene folled up with some nice colone.
try it what have you got to loose?