How long in a new relationship does everyone here wait for sex? And guys, how long should a woman wait to be considered respectable vs a slut? I'm not talking teenagers either - adults 25 years and up :wink:
When I read op, I though all those bras were burned for no reason.
If you think a woman can be considered a slut for doing it on the first date, you should go and live in the 19th century.
I'm not saying you have to do it on the first date. But I respect women who have no problems with doing that.
Sex on the First Date sluts..
Non sluts, blow job first date, sex the following date..
This has been my findings for the last 60+ women ive been with over the past 10 years..
Come again? So basically intercourse=slut but oral sex=non-slut? How is this possible? LOL.
When I read op, I though all those bras were burned for no reason.
If you think a woman can be considered a slut for doing it on the first date, you should go and live in the 19th century.
I'm not saying you have to do it on the first date. But I respect women who have no problems with doing that.
*sigh*Sex on the First Date sluts..
Non sluts, blow job first date, sex the following date..
This has been my findings for the last 60+ women ive been with over the past 10 years..
Like I said, I get to call women whatever I want lol... Nothing wrong with sluts, they are necesary for balance in this world..
I wasn't challenging you on the use of the word "slut", I just found it hard to believe that you made a distinction between intercourse and oral sex on the first date. If anything, intercourse seems more innocent and natural to me than oral sex, but you have a right to your opinion.
The 3 date rule is fluff to me, so its gonna depend on the guy. We could bail on our date within the first hour to have sex for all I care, so long as it feels right. Also might never have sex if the relationship turns to friendship.
Generally, I am of the mind that it should happen whenever it feels right...and if you are feeling one another, that can be pretty fast. If it's mostly about sex, this is not really an issue.
However, what happens when you actually like someone and care what their impression of you is. If I don't care about someone, what they think of me is hardly a concern. The struggle is (or at least for me) when I like someone because they turn me on and mostly because of how we communicate and the whole mental aspect.
So it's all super confusing.