I just wanted to comment that I've never seen certain things before that go on here at this site. ...So, I'm not judging anyone. Just curious. That's all. Thanks.
newbie, you have some interesting assumptions behind your questions and the posts of the past few days.
Sounds like you are interested in sexual orientation, in what makes somebody straight or gay, or in how people know they are straight or gay. But instead of asking that question, or going to the source, you do something strange. You classify things as straight or gay (but on what authority I'm not sure), and then on that basis, you yourself decide whether somebody is straight or gay.
Is that a fair description of your method?
If it is, do you see the problem?
I wonder if you might be better off doing a little outside reading on what sexual orientation really is, and how people come to realize they are either straight, bi, or gay. Clearly it's not just a matter of sucking a dick once or twice, nor of noticing somebody's dick. Conversely, it's not a matter of fucking pussy once or twice, or even for 10 or 15 years--since there are still plenty of married men "coming out" after many years of fucking a woman.
I recommend reading. It's an interesting topic. Find a few experts with good reputations from good academic or professional backgrounds. These will be people who know how to think and write about reality, rather than the pseudo experts who twist little fragments of ideas or reality to create some kind of "belief." Beliefs founded on fantasies are actually not beliefs at all. They are wives tales, superstitions, false beliefs, mistakes, or just lies.
If you start with your own assumptions first, and then try to make reality conform to them, you will wind up doing yourself and others quite a disservice. That will keep you living in your head, not reality.
And living in your head can make you strange.
