whatever. i'm sticking to my opinion and y'all can stick to yours. being in a opposite sex relationship when you're bi/pan is following heteronormativity and i'm against it
So if you're bi you can only be gay, if not you're actually secretly straight. Got it.
 
I guess I am super confused. Joshua has been very open about his bi-sexuality, about guys he's had crushes on and about the guy who took his virginity.
A lot of people say stuff like this about bi people. Nico Tortorella’s faced a lot of criticism because he came out as bi some time ago, but then got married to a woman and has never been seen with a guy other than in his acting roles. People claim that he’s straight and only says he’s bi to gain popularity within the lgbt+ community
 
It bloody does exist! I know many that are bi! FFS!
I think it’s mostly because a lot of people come out as bi first because it’d probably be more “acceptable”, socially speaking, to their families and communities than coming out as gay or lesbian and eventually come out as “fully” gay