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A while back I was in my gym...returning from the shower. I wasn't fully hard, but halfway there and holding it down with one hand. At my locker, there were two older black men getting dressed in front of the door I was using, and I had to excuse myself to get to my door. I got up to one guy, and said "Sorry", (meaning sorry to bother you to get to my locker). He took a look down at my half-hard dick and looked over at his friend said "Dont apologize, when you are our age you will take all of those you can get!"

He nodded down to my dick and his friend started to chuckle. I pointed at my locker to show I has trying to get through, grabbed my stuff and found an empty bench to get dressed. The attention only got my dick harder, and I think by the time I got pants on it was fully engaged from being so self conscious from the attention. It was all in good humor and they certainly werent being sexual or creep...like I said earlier, sometimes a boner is just - a boner. It happens to us all.
 

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Last time I checked we all have the same equipment down there. Two balls and cock. Sometimes it just likes to say hello. It is like a mobile ringing at the worst time. You didn't have control over when someone will call you just like sometimes we don't have control over cock when it comes ringing. Don't apologize just ignore it and it should go away.
 

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It happened to a friend of mine in school once. He was mortified at the time and got nicknamed "Woody" as a result of it. 10 years later, he now thinks it was funny.

Some other tips for making things go "back down" if the situation "arises"

1. Take an ice cold shower;
2. Mentally visualize what your mom would look like naked;
3. Don't look at anyone else in the locker room and look down at your own feet in the shower. (This has been most helpful for me).
 

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when it does happen i feel like i am the onlyone it happens to and everyone is watching and judging me
thanks jake, at least i am not alone

what would you guys honestly think if you saw a young guy getting hard in locker room


You are definitely NOT the only one it happens to... And when I see dudes getting wood in the locker room, I think it's hot. If it really makes you that uncomfortable, just step into a stall and have a wank before you get naked in front of other guys. It should cut down the random boners.
 

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Re: Not yet another stiffie?

hi all

i am 18 and regularly attend the gym
have no problem being nude around other guys in the locker room, but i do tend to cover up because i am afraid of geting an errection even though i am not turned on by most of the guys although i do like to chech some out:tongue: , when i do go completly nude in the shower etc i always have a towel close by.
does anyone have any tip on how to keep soft in these situations.
is it just my age?

Don't cover up in normal nudity places, as your apparent insecurity, I think, could invite teasing or make it more conspicuous.

I suspect that semi-erections are more common than people think, as often people don't even care or notice so much what the other guy is doing, well unless they are looking for perversion? And sometimes erections may be a bit too brief to be even all that much noticed.

How to keep soft? Just mentally suppress it, and go about one's normal business, and leave the nice hot water running in the shower even if getting a hard-on, but don't linger any longer than usual, and if it gets hard anyway, penises getting hard is a "fact of life." It's what they were made to do. At least be glad you don't need some Viagra or unnatural medical aid just to get it up.
 

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used to happen to me a lot in my younger days. Just kept the towel on, then I finally got my head around it and it never happened again. Never see a guy with a boner at my gym but find the younger guys never let the towel go. It is funny to watch them struggle to pull up their boxers without the towel falling. I also found a wank before the gym never worked, unless it is in the shower.
Don't think about it and it won't happen
 

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I get off being naked around other people and especially when io'm damp and in the slightly chilled air of the locker room... when I'm walking around the lockers but not I always get a semi which is usually half covered as I will carry my towel infront of me, I dont wrap it around me though, that would be more obvious if I ever did go full pole.

Mines certainly a lot to do with how the air feels on my skin when im wet not just there being guys around. I'm more likely to tent up around the poolside than in the showers, for example.

It was the showers I was always more worried about as well and I've never had a problem there lol
 

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hi all

i am 18 and regularly attend the gym
have no problem being nude around other guys in the locker room, but i do tend to cover up because i am afraid of geting an errection even though i am not turned on by most of the guys although i do like to chech some out:tongue: , when i do go completly nude in the shower etc i always have a towel close by.
does anyone have any tip on how to keep soft in these situations.
is it just my age?

Dude. Who cares about keeping soft?
:biggrin1:
 

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when it does happen i feel like i am the onlyone it happens to and everyone is watching and judging me
thanks jake, at least i am not alone

what would you guys honestly think if you saw a young guy getting hard in locker room


My perspective:

When I see that, I think "awesome! a hot young guy with a hardon!"
 

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Hey there..........it a normal thing and if others are starring its probably because they arent hard. I have the same problem after an intense workout and I just sorta turn my back to them or continue on with my showering and getting dressed , hard or not.....eventualy it will go away..and trust me your not the only one that gets those......if they look , they look...
 

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if you do get a boner do not worry too much about it, str8 or gay they will all look and think of you when they go to bed