Yeah I was happy to stumble on the "milking" or "Cum control" or 'Edgine" videos on pornhub. Working a guy to the edge and then easing off is super hot. Unfortunately, it seems like a lot of "milkers/edgers" (at least the ones who show their face on camera) and really unattractive.
 
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Since last december, I have used liber every time.
I get hard, do a bit of dry foreplay, then put some coconut oil (iot is back to solid now (liquid during hot summer), let it melt, and then just move hand up/down over shaft adn glans. My shaft skin is tight and barely move. Totally lost instinct to grab it and try to move it.

What I find with the lube is that I tend to stimulate more of the glans, whereas with dry j/o, I tented to limit stimulation to only the rim.
 
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The most orgasmic way for me to get off is by using lube on my cock, putting a finger up my ass, and touching my balls with the remaining fingers all while stroking.
 
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You should prepare yourself and follow some methods to have superb pleasure:
Set the mood
Change Positions
Take your time
Change Hands
move your hips
Try different strokes
Touch other part of your body
Play around
Don’t forget the prostate!
You can start off slow by using one finger to gently rub the outside and inside of your anal opening, then insert your finger gradually to massage your prostate. Increase the speed and motion as the pleasure begins to build until you’re ready to finish.
Use toys, vibrato , dildo
Watch yourself in the mirror
Watch porn
 
Would fucking, making love to/with a doll be considered masturbation?
Utilizing fantasy to celebrate self-love towards orgasmic relief is a major element of masturbation.
 
Turn the shower down cold when U R hard and spray it on your shaft, wank with shower gel and your jism will feel red hot as it comes up your shaft.

Lubed up rubber gloves with a textured palm.

Use the glove also to massage your cockhead and piss slit, don't work the shaft, just your head. It's mega intense I have to have my partner do it and he has to promise not to move stimulation away from my cockhead no matter how much I beg for it.

Doing the cockhead thing after you cum is meant to be a way of triggering a second orgasm. I've succeeded with it a couple of times but it's a bit wierd almost like a non-cock orgasm. You also need to either get over or not care that it feels like you are gonna piss yourself.

Finally pulling a reverse kegel- squeeze your muscles like you are trying to piss- once you are hard. It helps me cum sooner the force of trying to contract your pelvic floor one way when your body wants to contract it another basically advances orgasm. I usually orgasm for a lot longer this way before I shoot spunk.
 
I am lucky that I am long enough and still flexible enough to be able to self suck.
Nice! I'm still pretty flexible myself but can't quite manage it as I did when was of a certain age
 
I've lost the flexibility capability to self-suck. :rolleyes:I'm amazed with the quantity of dreams that I have frequently that I'm licking my glans prior to sucking my knob into my mouth:yum.
Nice! I'm still pretty flexible myself but can't quite manage it as I did when was of a certain age
:confused:I was never capable of self-sucking. I discovered a possible method of assimilating the sensations. I utilized a tube that extended from my glans tip to my mouth. I couldn't experience the licking sensations, but concentrated suction control was great:innocent:.
 
Turn the shower down cold when U R hard and spray it on your shaft, wank with shower gel and your jism will feel red hot as it comes up your shaft.

Lubed up rubber gloves with a textured palm.

Use the glove also to massage your cockhead and piss slit, don't work the shaft, just your head. It's mega intense I have to have my partner do it and he has to promise not to move stimulation away from my cockhead no matter how much I beg for it.

Doing the cockhead thing after you cum is meant to be a way of triggering a second orgasm. I've succeeded with it a couple of times but it's a bit wierd almost like a non-cock orgasm. You also need to either get over or not care that it feels like you are gonna piss yourself.

Finally pulling a reverse kegel- squeeze your muscles like you are trying to piss- once you are hard. It helps me cum sooner the force of trying to contract your pelvic floor one way when your body wants to contract it another basically advances orgasm. I usually orgasm for a lot longer this way before I shoot spunk.
Worth adding, the reverse kegel can obviously be used if you are bring sucked off, frotting or fucking BUT it seems to make me very slightly soft so I'd only reccomend pulling a reverse kegel once you are already in the hole if you are fucking.
Also it feels almost like the energy is flowing in the opposite direction to normal inside my dick, a good feeling but hard to describe.