Seriously WHY

[dolfette]

Hmm, I was always taught, and have always taught, to take the opportunity when it presents itself.

^^^the smart answer. you take any shot that presents itself in order to get away. in that situation everything's a weapon...a high heel, a glass, a bunch of keys, an elbow. no holdong back and make your first shot count.

 

[Pendlum]

So it's my right to hurt people when I feel afraid.Great!I carry a 45 just for people that scare me!:smile:

Technically it is when you believe that you are in serious physical danger, and may even die. Being 'scared' is just too broad!

But I agree with many of the posters, I think it is ludicrous to think that hitting a guy in the balls isn't okay when your are defending yourself. So what if it makes him more angry? So what if it can cripple him? He is trying to hurt, and if it is self defense you are fearing for your life. Fuck his reproductive organs. He is infringing upon your right to life, as far as you should be concerned his rights are forfeited when he infringes upon yours. It doesn't matter that there are more effective methods to defend yourself. A gun would be handy, but isn't always available. You do what you have to to survive, balls be damned.

And if it is just an argument, or you are mad at each other, it shouldn't be violent in the first place.

 

[EllieP]

I have never hit a person in the groin or even contemplated such an action. But if I were in a situation where a man was attempting to rape me, trust me, putting his groin out of action is the first thought to come to my mind. I'm not above gouging eyeballs either. When I approach my car at night, my keys are held between my fingers and my hands in a fist. I can be quite lethal, you know. I'm also a crack shot with a .357 and Dad's taken me to the pistol range many times.

In fact, given the unfortunate opportunity if a man did try to rape me and I had my gun I'd probably shoot him in the groin first BEFORE I kicked him.

Sorry, Lisa, self defense is a perfect excuse to hit a man in the groin either with your leg, foot or bullet.

 

[B_Marius567]

I Never seen a man being kicked there and I never been kicked there.
if a woman is mad at me I am staying away from her so i do not get kicked there.

 

[1kmb1]

I have seen this stating in threads and I have heard women state this, And the movies make it out to be no big deal. Why do women feel it is okay to hit a man in the grion? The fact of the matter is some States have made it law that it is considered Sexual assault if you hit a man in the groin.

As a woman who really hates this action and finds no purpose other than to bodily harm another human being. I would love to know how and why is this acceptable. I have spoken to a few men that have stated this did not disable them it pissed them off and they responded in turn to the offender. I say good the man who slap a idiot woman for harming him.

Sorry self defense is not an acceptable excuse, studies have shown that hitting a man in the nose, the solar plexis or even the throat has more impact than the groin. Fact you can permanenty disable a man by hitting him in the groin, Any woman who worships the penis should realize that if you hit him there he may never get it up again.

So stop hitting a man were it will do him the greatest harm and piss him off. Your pissed at him for being a jerk hit him in the gut just below the rib cage that will have a much bigger impact. Nothing like having the wind knocked out of you to make you think twice about pissing a lady off. And yes I have slammed a guy using my whole body weight behind the punch to the gut and it works really well.

Be nice to the man's package, It is a fun part of the man you don't want to lose.

From a Pissed off female

you shouldnt hit a man for pissing you off period. just because hes being a jerk doesn't make it self defense, he would have to actually hit you. being a woman doesn't give you a right to hit someone.

 

[voidout]

i just can't even believe this is really being discussed at all.

anyway, to add something about self defense tactics for women who don't feel exactly comfortable with carrying a knife, there are a lot of things in your purse you can use to hurt someone.

for example, if i'm alone and walking, and it's dark...especially in a parking lot at night...i always keep my keys in my hand, a key in between each finger. if someone ever came to attack you, scratching and punching them this way will hurt like HELL and catch them off guard. if you get them hard enough, you can probably stab them. also...a pen! stab the mother fucker with it. if you don't want to carry an actual knife around, consider a swiss army knife. no matter what you pull out of that in a panic, you can stab with. it might not be as damaging, but it could give you enough time to get away.

i always keep one of these in my pocket, or in my actual hand, when i'm walking to my car, in a park and it's getting darker out, or simply when i feel uneasy. my brother also always has at least three knives on him at a time. if we're out at a bar, and he sees someone sketchy looking at me, or has an uneasy feeling, he'll slip me the knife as soon as he can. especially if he knows i'm about to go to the rest room alone.

sometimes, attackers simply noticing you're aware, is enough for them to realize you're not going to be an easy target.

 

[boobsguy21]

http://www.lpsg.org/158651-nipple-bumps.html#post2448069

How big are my nipples? I recently had a man describe them as being like large, plump, juicy raisins. :rofl: :biggrin1: I can laugh now, but at the time I was mortified!!! Turns out my-ex bf had pics of me nude on his cell phone. I knew that. What I didn't know was that he had shown his sleaze ball landlord the pics. Said sleazeball upon meeting me, decided he needed to get some and thought I should be okay with that since he had already seen pics of me nude. :angryfire2: NOT!!! Fortunately you can take the girl out of Jersey, but you can't ever take the Jersey out of the girl. :biggrin1: Let's just say he's walking funny now. http://www.lpsg.org/158651-nipple-bumps.html#post2448069



This post inspired the thread.I think you should all have a look.

So he tried to rape u?

or were u just pissed so u kicked him in the nuts?

 

[D_Kaye Throttlebottom]

you make a great point. i don't feel it's acceptable either and i have never hit or kicked a man in the balls, even when they really deserved it.

what constitutes deserving it? Charging at you full speed - trying to rip your pants off you? I don't kick men in the balls because I'm having a bad day or because he called me a bitch.

i've always heard that it's supposedly better to elbow someone in the face, nose, or stomach in cases of self-defense, rather than kicking him in the balls. after all, the elbow is the hardest part of the human body.

IF you haven't taken a self-defense class - please don't postulate what you think is taught in a self-defense class. Those things make some angrier - they do not stop him. An elbow is not the hardest part and you don't strike with an elbow.

If you want to know what they teach - take the class, but don't project about things you've not been in the position to need or use. If you've never had to kick a man in the balls, congratulations. I hope you never have to - but it's nuts to tell anyone they don't have to.

 

[boobsguy21]

IF you haven't taken a self-defense class - please don't postulate what you think is taught in a self-defense class. Those things make some angrier - they do not stop him. An elbow is not the hardest part and you don't strike with an elbow.

Wow if u are worried that an elbow is going to make him angrier imagin how angry kick in the nuts will make him lol.

 

[dolfette]

there is no best move.
there are too many variables.
there's only the shot that presents itself.

 

[B_Marius567]

some men talk like there are going to hurt you when they have no plans to hurt you.

 

[dolfette]

some men talk like there are going to hurt you when they have no plans to hurt you.

the laws of self defense apply to direct and present threats.
if i point a gun at a cop and tell him i'm going to shoot, would you think him wrong for shooting me first, because maybe i didn't really mean it?

only an idiot would wait to find out if he actually, really, properly meant that he was going to rape/beat/kill her.

especially as, being on average smaller and weaker, we can't afford to let him get in the first blow. we're a lot easier to incapacitate than he is.

 

[koval]

If you decide to kick a man in the groin, then you had better be ready for the consequences that will follow.

I was at a nightclub once and saw a woman turn around and kick a guy in the groin, turns out that some guy had slapped her ass and in the confusion she kicked the wrong guy before her friend told her it was the other guy next to him who did it. Before she managed to apologise to the innocent victim, the victim in question smacked her fully in the face with his fist sending her flying over her table. All hell broke loose in the club and the Gardai (cops) were called. When the found out what she had done to an innocent person who was just in the wrong place she was arrested and charged with assault causing actual bodily harm.

If you do kick a guy in the groin then you had better run, FAST! You do that to a guy and you're toast if he manages to stand up afterwards as he will take you out.

 

[AlteredEgo]

there is no best move.
there are too many variables.
there's only the shot that presents itself.

Exactly!

some men talk like there are going to hurt you when they have no plans to hurt you.

Let me tell you a story.

When I was a little girl of 12 or 13, a boy who lived two doors down from me used to menace me. We used to walk home at the same time, and since we were so geographically close, he'd usually end up walking a few feet behind me. He'd say things to me, barely audibly. He'd tell me about fantasies in which he and his friends raped me. He'd tell me about fantasies in which he undressed me in my house. He'd speak in graphic detail. If I ran, he ran. If I took another route home, he'd catch up with me. I stole condoms from my mother, and began carrying them in my school bag because when he told me he was going to rape me very soon, I believed him. A woman had recently made the news for asking her rapist to wear a condom, and it seemed like a good idea. He told me if i told on him he'd burn my house down when my mother was alone. (She was in a wheelchair.) I began getting home from school just a tiny bit earlier, or much, much later to avoid him. He never raped me; I almost never saw him.

Well, that creepy neighbor shot someone on the next street over 17 times, and then fled first to Jamaica, then to England. No one knows where he is now or they're not saying. He left behind a former friend of his who served three years for the brutal slaying before he was exonerated based on new evidence that the shooter had to be right handed like the guy who got away, not left-handed like the one they arrested. Meanwhile, he spent three years in Riker's with the grown-up offenders. I saw him a few months ago and he still seemed ruined.

I'm not a frightened little girl anymore. If a man says he's going to hurt me, and gets close enough that he could, I will ruin his mothafuckin' day. Believe that!

 

[D_Tintagel_Demondong]

Let me tell you a story.

When I was a little girl of 12 or 13, a boy who lived two doors down from me used to menace me. We used to walk home at the same time, and since we were so geographically close, he'd usually end up walking a few feet behind me. He'd say things to me, barely audibly. He'd tell me about fantasies in which he and his friends raped me. He'd tell me about fantasies in which he undressed me in my house. He'd speak in graphic detail. If I ran, he ran. If I took another route home, he'd catch up with me. I stole condoms from my mother, and began carrying them in my school bag because when he told me he was going to rape me very soon, I believed him. A woman had recently made the news for asking her rapist to wear a condom, and it seemed like a good idea. He told me if i told on him he'd burn my house down when my mother was alone. (She was in a wheelchair.) I began getting home from school just a tiny bit earlier, or much, much later to avoid him. He never raped me; I almost never saw him.

Well, that creepy neighbor shot someone on the next street over 17 times, and then fled first to Jamaica, then to England. No one knows where he is now or they're not saying. He left behind a former friend of his who served three years for the brutal slaying before he was exonerated based on new evidence that the shooter had to be right handed like the guy who got away, not left-handed like the one they arrested. Meanwhile, he spent three years in Riker's with the grown-up offenders. I saw him a few months ago and he still seemed ruined.

I'm not a frightened little girl anymore. If a man says he's going to hurt me, and gets close enough that he could, I will ruin his mothafuckin' day. Believe that!

Wow. That must have been horrifying for you as a girl.


My take on the nad-kicking: if he gropes your boob, slap him in the face. If he tries to rape you, kick him in the nuts.

I often wondered why Mother Nature made them so sensitive...

 

[ManlyBanisters]

My take on the nad-kicking: if he gropes your boob, slap him in the face. If he tries to rape you, kick him in the nuts.

An intemidiary possibility for a retaliation to a boob grabbing level of sexual assault is a quick, hard flick to the penis - not the balls, the penis. A slightly more forceful option is an open handed, loose wristed slap with the back of the hand - you know, like when you hold out one hand and slap it with the back of your other hand to make a loud noise. With both of those there is no follow through as there is with a kick or punch and there is very little weight behind the contact so the chances of causing any significant or permanant damage are reduced almost to zero, yet the contact is sharp enough and painful enough to get the point across.

That's in a boob grabbing, ass pinching type situation - I don't recommend it at all as a means of defending oneself against anyone who you believe is attempting a more violent assault.

I often wondered why Mother Nature made them so sensitive...

The clue is in the question, rex... Mother Nature :wink:

some men talk like there are going to hurt you when they have no plans to hurt you.

If a person is threatening something they're only a step away from doing it.

See AE's story.

the laws of self defense apply to direct and present threats.

True that.

 

[boobsguy21]

I agree manly, i mean i cant even count the number of times i have had my bum pinched in clubs. And if every time someone did it to me i went postal on them, i would live in a very small town.

 

[RawDog]

Regarding inapproriate reactions to inappropriate actions, a friend once said:

"It's better to be carried out by twelve than by six."

 

[B_Marius567]

The clue is in the question, rex... Mother Nature :wink:



If a person is threatening something they're only a step away from doing it.

See AE's story.


A guy use to work with talks very loud like he is going to beat me up something but that's how he talks

 

[Gillette]

Regarding inapproriate reactions to inappropriate actions, a friend once said:

"It's better to be carried out by twelve than by six."

Was your friend named Confucious?
Maybe I'm having an obtuse moment here, but I don't get it.

A guy use to work with talks very loud like he is going to beat me up something but that's how he talks

You're a guy. You're a tall guy and not particularly delicate of build.
I don't think it's quite a parallel situation.