And you strike me as a slut.
The fact that you used the word to attack her proves that you aren't using it in a sex positive way, so don't even bother to go there.
you really are dense if you believe the less than joyous reception of your thread is in anyway based on your orientation or ya lack of massive prong.
If he had been more sex positive and oozing with love for the ladies, like MickeyLee's wonderful
first post, then this thread would be completely different, but instead he had to bring the conversation down by using language that makes it clear that he's hateful towards some of the women he wants to fuck, and that just spreads all sorts of icky feelings around.
More insight into the OP's mindset revealed here: Sheepish about this site?
Oh jeez, the issues this guy has! That's just not attractive.
The word slut is generally used as a gender specific slur, and thus shows a complete lack of respect for women as sexual beings.
The topic itself wouldn't have bothered me (in fact, I would have contributed) if the OP had been more respectful.
This is how I feel feel. This totally could have been a cool thread, if he hadn't been such a jerk.
I know plenty of women who call other women sluts - how does that fit in? Women aren't generally called bastards - does that mean that those women using the term are all sexist reactionaries?
Duh, it's also wrong when a women slut shames another woman, not just when men do it. If I attacked another woman by calling her slutty, my intention is to diminish her using perceived promiscuity against her, which would be a sexist move on my part since women don't attack men the same way. You seem to think by pointing out that a woman may have ever done it that it invalidates it as "wrong" somehow, which doesn't make a lick of sense. It isn't wrong because of the gender of the person doing the attacking, it's wrong because a person's value isn't determined by how many sexual partners that person has had and it's sexist because implying that a person is a less valuable human being because of how much sex she has had is a rule that is only applied to women, regardless of the gender of the accuser.