Step-Unc Gets Me Hard On

[Fornandooo]

Hello. It’s not what it seems I promise I met him when I was 18! So it’s not weird right?? Well long story short I have seen to fallen for another “straight” man. I say with quotations cuz to my knowledge his first wife got arrested for being a crack addict and she had already had two kids before she met him so he took them in. Mind you the kids are young (but I can’t say) just young enough to be a hand full the time she’s arrested, so besides that, from there he’s been having relationship issues (obviously who wouldn’t) wanting to find a good mother for the kids and a good partner to be with. The reason why I say he’s not fully “straight” is cause he would tell me about the nights he had in high school with girls and tell me some of his wild sex stories and said that nothing turns him on anymore. I learned that issue when my mom dated him first. She was trying to give him head on the porch and it was just flaccid. He also mentioned to me a brother/friend (I can’t remember) traumatized him, when they slept in the same room, the other guy would jerk off so much it weirded him out and he didn’t like touching himself. But I so by godly Jesus wanna touch that man. He used to come by regularly to our house to help his brother out with our yard. We always needed help with the yard due to constant work with my mothers home made thrift shop. So we would take shots after working. The guys would drink their beer and we’d smoke a blunt. And obviously he’d stay over. Now I wish… I wish I had it in me. You know what I’m talking about but I doubt he’s a deep sleeper and I don’t wanna get caught up doing something dumb he knows I’m gay cause my mom was so open to telling people but it makes me nervous around older men cause I don’t want them to assume I have a fat crush on you even tho I do.. so I let him know I used to have a thing for him but I’m over it saying I looked up to having a dad like him but sadly my mother chose his brother cause he can get it up now I’m not dissing the man we’re calling my new father, he’s just lazier, less good looking, and frankly, I was looking forward to a relationship with a step dad I wanted to fuck also they have different dads so the looks are definitely 180 from each other. I just think he’s so damn fine probably just because he’s so damn sweet and unproblematic. The man drinks beer but most it does is make him flaccid and sleep, whereas my new step father likes to yell and thro tantrums like a child and complain about every litte thing to my MOTHER! Won’t even go to the root of the problem to fix it just complains. This is why I don’t usually like people that drink beer.

But the reason I bring you guys here today, you see, while he was home alone with his mother he had been doing some drinking and fell asleep on the couch. His mom is on an oxygen machine off and on so didn’t need it %100 but always acted like she did. (I know this from when I moved out for a period of time while my mom moved his parents into my room ) Anywho she must’ve been reaching over her ridiculously big bed for her cane under her and she fell out of bed and hit her head pretty rough. She was in the hospital for a few days before they pronounced her brain dead. It hit him the hardest cause he wasn’t even awake. And all I wanna do is comfort him but the best I did was send a cute cat vid of my cat cause he likes cats. I just wish there was more I could do but not be weird or take advantage of him cause now is a GREAT time to take advantage but I’m not that guy

Sorry the convo got turnt a whole 180 so I’m gonna attach some of my fav clips of him tell me what you think I should do? Should I text or say nothing at all? I know grief is different from everyone but when you think you’re the root problem I feel like he’s in such a bad place rn. He’s already let me know how suicidal he is I just imagine it’s only getting worse any help would do!

 

[dreamer20]

I’m gay & nervous when older men know cause I don’t want them to assume I have a fat crush on them even tho I do.. so I let him know I used to have a thing for him but I’m over it His mom was pronounced brain dead. It hit him the hardest. I wanna comfort him. Now is a GREAT time to take advantage but I’m not that guy What should I do? Should I text or say nothing at all? He's suicidal I imagine it’s getting worse help!

Hi Fornandooo. I would tell him he's not responsible for his mother's death, not to kill himself and give him this link:
Helping Yourself Heal When Someone Dies - Center for Loss & Life Transition
As you already know, you'll have to deflate your horn, let him know you're available to talk to and be around - when you can - whilst he goes through his grieving process

 

[Fornandooo]

Hi Fornandooo. I would tell him he's not responsible for his mother's death, not to kill himself and give him this link:
Helping Yourself Heal When Someone Dies - Center for Loss & Life Transition
As you already know, you'll have to deflate your horn, let him know you're available to talk to and be around - when you can - whilst he goes through his grieving process

Thx for the sweet serious conclusion

 

[mastde]

why are you taking photos and videos of him without consent..?

 

[Fornandooo]

why are you taking photos and videos of him without consent..?

Better than touching right? I’ve made that mistake before with a friend when i was a wee lad

 

[hugmedaddy69]

Try to empathise with him and think about what he's going through right now. This isnt the time to push anything sexual. Support him as a friend/relative, not as a romantic interest. Im not saying it wont ever happen, but not right now.

 

[sulab027]

Honestly? The best you could do is just be there, if you can be even more than you were, better. I'll have you know, you shouldn't expect anything to happen and if something does happen, dont expect it to be a wonderful experience for him in a way that's gonna make him want more.