As long as theres all these threads about the ideal cock and staying power and such, I have a question for the guys on this forum. Gals welcome to chime in too. First I have to give some background. The past 6 wks or so Ive been having a lovely sexual fling with this 24 y/o fellow who is, frankly, rocking my world. :smile: Hes quite nicely endowed, knows how to move, great body, etc. A definite catch. But the thing thats really blowing me away is the orgasmic control this guy has. In my experience and from what Ive heard, younger men have a harder time holding their orgasm than older guys, i.e. young men cum faster. But I obviously hit the jackpot because this guy is only 24 y/o but he can last forever before he cums. I know some ladies probably wouldnt like that but hes the perfect fit for me because Im multi-vaginally-orgasmic and I like very long sex, like even upwards of 30-45 mins. of intercourse or sometimes more. There arent a lot of guys who can last that long but with this fellow we could even be having vigorous sex for ages and he stays steel hard the whole time. Anyway OMG for me as you can imagine its like an orgasmic gold mine. :biggrin1: :biggrin1: So heres the thing. I told him I love it and I asked him what his secret is (out of curiosity and so I can pass it on to future partners!). He told me this: when he was in high school and starting to have sex, he came really fast and was very nervous about not satisfying his woman. He read that he could improve his staying power by masturbating to the point of orgasm but not letting himself cum. So he started doing it and it helped, so he kept at it. He says since he was 17 hes been doing that anywhere from once a week to every other day, and in 7 years hes trained himself to stay hard as long as he wants. He says its not even difficult anymore, that he can basically decide when to cum, or not to cum at all. So my question is have other men tried this technique? Did it work for you? Im sure not everyone would stick with it for 7 years (!!) but Im wondering if this is an effective way for a man to last longer. But damn based on the sex were having its hard not to be sold on the idea! :tongue: