The truth about a tiny dick

[love2compare]

Right, nice example @Tattooed Goddess i always say that there is a match out there for YOU, a perfect match for each and everybody! Just don't be a real loser and hide away struggling - go out there trying to find it...

 

[windibundu]

The truth about tiny dicks....is that they are generally smaller than big dicks.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

The truth about tiny dicks....is that they are generally smaller than big dicks.

Did you know I was born on my birthday?

 

[hammer75]

My estranged husband would talk about how normal dicks are so lucky. They can go deep, they can go shallow, they can be deep throated, do anal. All the things in 21 years my husband and I were unable to do. It sucked for is both being generally mismatched in our body parts. I've been torn so many times. It runs sex when it hurts. Vaginas come in all sizes. I have a micro sized vagina that needs a dick that won't tear it up like childbirth.

You and my wives have had polar opposite vaginas ... but I understand the part about not fitting size wise with a partner. It’s demoralizing.

 

[sodominsane]

Did you know I was born on my birthday?

You too.....we have a lot in common!!!

 

[1352661]

Nobody will be perfect, granted, but they do fit their ideal type or meet most of the criteria.

Love comes love goes, hot is hot regardless. Desire is desire.

I have strong basis because I have heard and experienced first hand on what women state they desire and what its like to be on the other side.

Yeah, maybe so, but the rest of you assholes do not have anything to risk. You are never going to be put down for your manhood, or lack thereof. You will never know what its like. Even if a guy is rejected for being too big, never going to be put down for it.

I can appreciate what you’re saying because I’ve been rejected for my size (7+)and the mental scarring of rejection over your penis is ego shattering to the MAX. My father and uncles have massive penises(9+ and Girthy) and it makes me feel inadequate because I take after my mom’s side.

Anyway women are pickier than us when it comes to sex so pick the shorter girls they’ll be a easier fit if you’re smaller which should make it easier to satisfy them ... I’m mean on average short girls ive been with have had really tiny pussies and the taller girls have had Grand Canyons... which sucks because I’m attracted to the bigger girls.

Yes it’s still a risk to date but we all risk our egos when showing our bodies not all men are hung and not all women have supermodel bodies so body shaming should be kept to a minimum if you ask me.

 

[dude77007]

None. I have answered before, how difficult is it to understand? I have heard women’s comments on what they like, prefer, idealize, lust, and desire. Why would I expose and rusk myself to rejection and humiliation when I already heard directly from them that I am not their ideal type of what they want, expect and desire

I agree. If a guy has gotten actual feedback or a reaction that a girl prefers a big dick and this reaction often enough, THEN it isn't all in his head or a perception that some women will find him inadequate. Then, it becomes which girl will it matter to and which ones it won't? That's not an anxiety a guy wants to take in to the bedroom. Probably, a women figures she is going to encounter "average" guys often and a Trophy dick occasionally, but she definitely knows what a little dick looks and feels like. Just like the big dicked guys who wonder if they are being liked for their big dick, a small guy has to wonder if her is being dumped for his little dick or something else. No doubt, his first assumption will be for his small dick. Every guy wants to feel that he measures up whether he's showering at the gym, standing at an open urinal or dropping his pants in the bedroom. PRINCE TINYMEAT

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I've been having sex since 1992 and I've only come across 1 penis I'd consider small. But it wasn't too small for my vaginal needs. I have only come across 1 that is way too large for any comfort and it actually be hard to get in the mood knowing I was about to endure that much pain. All of them in between blur together and I can't remember which dick I remember belonged to which dude. My brain didn't care enough to remember it.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I agree. If a guy has gotten actual feedback or a reaction that a girl prefers a big dick and this reaction often enough, THEN it isn't all in his head or a perception that some women will find him inadequate. Then, it becomes which girl will it matter to and which ones it won't? That's not an anxiety a guy wants to take in to the bedroom. Probably, a women figures she is going to encounter "average" guys often and a Trophy dick occasionally, but she definitely knows what a little dick looks and feels like. Just like the big dicked guys who wonder if they are being liked for their big dick, a small guy has to wonder if her is being dumped for his little dick or something else. No doubt, his first assumption will be for his small dick. Every guy wants to feel that he measures up whether he's showering at the gym, standing at an open urinal or dropping his pants in the bedroom. PRINCE TINYMEAT

But our man Harry has never been rejected. He's never been with a woman. So all his certainty is based on some hearsay smack-talking. That's the "reality", "real life" that he's so certain about.

 

[love2compare]

I've been having sex since 1992 and I've only come across 1 penis I'd consider small. But it wasn't too small for my vaginal needs. I have only come across 1 that is way too large for any comfort and it actually be hard to get in the mood knowing I was about to endure that much pain. All of them in between blur together and I can't remember which dick I remember belonged to which dude. My brain didn't care enough to remember it.

Wow haha, that's interesting and funny. I for one could tell exactly which man is behind every single cock i've seen from my sexual dates... let alone all the incredible pictures i took of them haha

 

[Gj816]

The problem is society in general tells us that bigger is better, and smaller is a joke. Movies, music, television shows, even general advertising makes both overt and subtle jabs at small guys. SNL had a skit about Michaelangelo's statue of David, laughing at the "model" even going so far as blatantly saying that he should kill himself for being that small. There's a KitKat commercial currently going on using whatsherfaces song where she talks about wanting a big dick, using that line in the commercial. There's an air conditioning company billboard I see every day on my way to work saying, "Is your wife hot? She needs a bigger unit." I have to see that crap every. damn. day. I haven't watched a comedy movie in years because every single one goes for the dick size joke. Bigger is better is inescapable, and as long as it's perfectly acceptable to laugh at guys with small dicks, then it will continue to matter. Your personal preference may vary, but I seriously doubt anyone looks at a 3-4" dick and gets all hot and bothered.

Dick size is irrelevant in that: it's not the end all be all of life.

Confidence in one's self is the key. How you carry yourself. Being secure in your ability as a man. None of us had a say in what we were born with. But we do have a say in how we handle what life throws at us.

 

[916416]

For those who dont know what you're talking about, I will tell the tale.

I'm high school I was friends with two guys, T and K, and another girl. We can call her G, for girl, (since her name also began with T). G and I both knew K. I found K attractive, but wouldn't have had the guts to say so. He didn't give me any reason to believe he was interested anyway.(Besides, I did actually have a crush on someone who doesn't come into this story.)

K had a crush on G. G had a crush on T. T had a crush on me. K went out of his way to hook me up with T. Once I saw it was impossible for G to ever get her way with T, I was open to noticing how pretty his eyes were, and how easy our friendship always was. With me distracting T, K was able to move on G.
T became my first lover, and we remained friends for a really long time after school. K and G got engaged a few years after high school. K died a month or two after they announced their engagement.

K and I were really close. We transferred out of that school and into another together. Achieved together. Cried and laughed together. When I laid with T for the first time, it was K I called to gossip and to explore my feelings when I got home. It was K I asked all my questions about condoms and blowjobs. He was one of my best friends.

G was abusive. Until the day we parted ways forever, G was a domestic abuser of one man or another. K was my friend. G is somebody I used to know. Anyway, she had a retail gig, and she bought him some drawers at her job. She insisted he show them to me one afternoon chilling at another friend's house. There were a few of us there, but she seemed to primarily want me to see his boxers. He didn't want me to see. Why would he? He always treated me more like a little sis. G beat him and beat him despite everyone's objections, and he acquiesced. His embarrassment was palpable.

His undies were cute. It was weird but also titillating. T was not exactly my type. He was so skinny and pale. K was broad and solid. K had years of training in several martial arts. T was always sickly. I was into T because of WHO he was as a person and how he treated me. But I always had an eye for K. At the time, there were so many reasons to feel guilty about it, but undeniably, I liked seeing him in so little clothing. And yes, I thought if it had ever stopped being inappropriate to also harbor attraction, in addition to my friendly love for him, I would have made my attraction clear, and let him decide what to do about it. But he died, and I had long given up any such notion by then.
Moreover, imagine if instead of friends, WE had been high school sweethearts? Gosh, I don't know how I'd have recovered. His death was hard enough to swallow. Like losing a brother. But if it had been losing my first love? Man.

Anyway, I saw his undies with the cute design on them. He bent to pull up his pants, and he fell out. May have been flaccid, may have been a chubber. It was very long and thick. I looked. Couldn't be helped. We all looked. None of us ever spoke of it. Ever. Yeah it made a lasting impression. I mean, it was the second penis I ever saw in person, and it was bigger apparently soft than even what I had seen hard in porn. Of course I remember that. Who wouldn't?

That was the 90's. Meanwhile, I have written this about the man I was under just yesterday.

Just stopping by to say thank you for telling your story. That was fascinating.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Ive met thousands of women in 42 years really cannot know. Through work, college, high school, social circles, travel, out and about etc. Really cannot account. The reality is that the percentage is about 98-99 that at one point

It simply is not credible that most of the women you meet talk to you about penises. Most of the women you meet will be far too loosely associated with you, or too professionally decourous to even joke with you, especially in that manner. There's also that speaking only for myself, and to my observation of women I know, we aren't going to make innuendo, commentary, nor jokes with or in proximity of men we don't want to flirt with. It turns into a shit show. My friends and I prefer not to encourage unwanted attention.

 

[916416]

@HarryPalmas is a person determined to be miserable about himself. There is nothing you can do for a person in that mindset. The best move is to ignore him & don't get sucked into his depressing worldview. The women and men here especially @Tight_N_Juicy @AlteredEgo @Fade and @ItsAll4Kim have given time & example after example showing his fallacy to be just that. He is not here to hear that he is wrong. He is here to here that he is correct and his life sucks. He is like a SPH lover who’s unhappy. It’s just weird.

 

[deleted1138933]

But our man Harry has never been rejected. He's never been with a woman. So all his certainty is based on some hearsay smack-talking. That's the "reality", "real life" that he's so certain about.

It is not hearsay if they are saying it themselves.

 

[deleted1138933]

It simply is not credible that most of the women you meet talk to you about penises. Most of the women you meet will be far too loosely associated with you, or too professionally decourous to even joke with you, especially in that manner. There's also that speaking only for myself, and to my observation of women I know, we aren't going to make innuendo, commentary, nor jokes with or in proximity of men we don't want to flirt with. It turns into a shit show. My friends and I prefer not to encourage unwanted attention.

I never said they all talk to me about penis and size. But if cf course some have or made jokes, insinuations etc. There are always instances when another guy will bring up the topic. I have also overheard conversations. In all that I have never heard any one woman say that they actually in any way, if given a choice for sex, idealize, want, or prefer small over medium or large.

 

[deleted1138933]

I can appreciate what you’re saying because I’ve been rejected for my size (7+)and the mental scarring of rejection over your penis is ego shattering to the MAX. My father and uncles have massive penises(9+ and Girthy) and it makes me feel inadequate because I take after my mom’s side.

Anyway women are pickier than us when it comes to sex so pick the shorter girls they’ll be a easier fit if you’re smaller which should make it easier to satisfy them ... I’m mean on average short girls ive been with have had really tiny pussies and the taller girls have had Grand Canyons... which sucks because I’m attracted to the bigger girls.

Yes it’s still a risk to date but we all risk our egos when showing our bodies not all men are hung and not all women have supermodel bodies so body shaming should be kept to a minimum if you ask me.

No its not. Big guys do not risk anything. They can not be mocked or shamed for being big.

 

[deleted1138933]

I agree. If a guy has gotten actual feedback or a reaction that a girl prefers a big dick and this reaction often enough, THEN it isn't all in his head or a perception that some women will find him inadequate. Then, it becomes which girl will it matter to and which ones it won't? That's not an anxiety a guy wants to take in to the bedroom. Probably, a women figures she is going to encounter "average" guys often and a Trophy dick occasionally, but she definitely knows what a little dick looks and feels like. Just like the big dicked guys who wonder if they are being liked for their big dick, a small guy has to wonder if her is being dumped for his little dick or something else. No doubt, his first assumption will be for his small dick. Every guy wants to feel that he measures up whether he's showering at the gym, standing at an open urinal or dropping his pants in the bedroom. PRINCE TINYMEAT

But encountering average, which I believe you mean medium, is not the same as small. See ow you equate trophy with big? Difference is, there is nothing wrong or shameful for being desired for your big dick.

 

[deleted1138933]

Dick size is irrelevant in that: it's not the end all be all of life.

Confidence in one's self is the key. How you carry yourself. Being secure in your ability as a man. None of us had a say in what we were born with. But we do have a say in how we handle what life throws at us.

It is not irrelevant when it comes to sex. So a guy can do and have all other stuff, how does that fix any problem if woman wants at least medium?

 

[deleted1138933]

@HarryPalmas is a person determined to be miserable about himself. There is nothing you can do for a person in that mindset. The best move is to ignore him & don't get sucked into his depressing worldview. The women and men here especially @Tight_N_Juicy @AlteredEgo @Fade and @ItsAll4Kim have given time & example after example showing his fallacy to be just that. He is not here to hear that he is wrong. He is here to here that he is correct and his life sucks. He is like a SPH lover who’s unhappy. It’s just weird.

Again, coming from a guy born with everything who has nothing to risk.