Why I'm 100%

[petite]

:frown2: Poor neglected BF. Maybe it's his buff torso that's scaring them off.

I almost feel obligated to send him a perv message now.

Don't feel too sorry for him. Technically, he got lots of PMs perving on him, those men just sent all their PMs to me, hoping that I'd fill them in on all the dirty details about him. And weirdly, his only pervy PM was about me. I wonder if other LPSG couples experience this? Do they think that a person's partner will be more honest or more willing to share that sort of information?

Ah, he's so sweet. Can I borrow him when you're not busy with him? :smile:

He is a totally adorable and a complete sweetheart. Borrow? Only if I could watch! :tongue:

 

[Bbucko]

So, am I right in assuming that no one cares about me wanting to view gay fisting midget/little people porn, and that this thread is probably moot?

Au contraire, mon chou: I would love to see gay fisting midget/little porn. Send me some Hotfile links pronto!

 

[maxcok]

Ya right, that was exactly what I wrote back then.

Sorry, I guess I shouldn't have paraphrased. Would it be better if I quoted you directly?

Bullshit

Most real straight men will kick your ass if you try anything. You just got lucky because there's something called "bi".

Seriously, lots of (straight) guys dislike gays because of the minority amongst the gay people which can't accept the fact that straight means straight.

If a gay man makes an offer to me, I'm OK with it. I can say no and he will leave me alone. But if he wouldn't respect me being straight and try to trick me into something... I swear he would find himself in hospital afterwards.

That's soo much better than saying you'd "punch some guy's lights out", huh?

And unless you're no professional psychologist stop interpreting shit when you have absolutely no clue.

It doesn't take a professional psychologist to see you are a very angry, potentially dangerous young man. It doesn't take a professional psychologist to recognize that you are deeply homophobic, and that there's a very good possibility that homophobia is internalized, and may very well originate from your own inner conflict. Your vehemence and defensiveness are key here.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

 

[maxcok]

I wonder if other LPSG couples experience this? Do they think that a person's partner will be more honest or more willing to share that sort of information?

Oh honey, you give people waaay too much credit. and I love that about you.

He is a totally adorable and a complete sweetheart. Borrow? Only if I could watch! :tongue:

Cool. Now we're getting somewhere pervy. :mischievous: (just watch?)

 

[D_Relentless Original]

I personally believe its impossible to be 100% straight . I think 90-100% gay would be being thinking men like Brad Pitt or George Clooney are attractive.For instance I think Paul McCartney was attractive guy back in the day, BUT I am not sexually attracted or want some kind of romantic relationship. Nor with any man at all. But I however can say that I can admire other men or say that some are attractive much the same way women compliment other women. So when I came here to LPSG originally I believe I had put myself at 99% Straight-1% gay. Or something around that. But then I find myself getting messages from men asking if I wanted to do gay things, or was bi-curious instead. I politely declined. The compliments were flattering at first, but then it got a little annoying. So now I keep myself at 100% straight so only rarely do gay men message me. If I was a gay I wouldvve have listed myself as gay. If I was bisexual, I would list myself at bisexual. I am straight, so I wish people would stop asking.

So i guess dinner and a drive in movie is off then mate?

hehe just kidding you. seriously, i get messages more from straight guys on here than i do gay guys and i don't have a % either, but i get what you are saying.

Ya right, that was exactly what I wrote back then.
And unless you're no professional psychologist stop interpreting shit when you have absolutely no clue. Thank you.
Should have stopped talking to you after such crap like "..and go on with your happy heterosexual life."
But of course you were so kind to ignore things like:
"Plus those offers come from total strangers who don't feel the urge to introduce themselves first. Plust those guys mostly are ppl with zero posts."
or
"I never said anything about being offended. I have no problem with men writing pm's in case they know how to behave."

SB, you are a great guy and have a great sense of humor and i fully agree with your previous post about people respecting boundaries, some ppl are just ignorant and type with their dick.:smile:

 

[B_Hung Jon]

Thank you everyone for the insight, even the negative bashers. The one thing, and most important part, that I forgot about the Internet is that not everyone is what they seem. Didn't cross my mind how many guys here that list themselves 100% straight but still ask for gay sex.

But I didnt me to come here and come off as "wah wah wah, gay men are messaging me, make it stop". I just wanted to say what I thought, and see if anyone else felt the same way

Which is what I don't understand to be honest. This site seems so tolerate and be nice to gays, so why hide behind 100% straight on the forums and then PM people. And I don't take serious offense to the offers, it just confuses me because I (wrongly) assumed having 100% straight would (magically) stop all the offers.

To me, I would consider myself straight. I like vaginas, I'm attracted to women, and I want to date and have sex with women. But like I said, I can find other men attracted just like how other women can call each other pretty and beautiful, but I have no interested in dating or having sex with a guy. So that's my 1% or whatever fucking percentage of gayness that I have. And to BigDallas, I'm pretty sure I actually did receive a message saying " "Let me help you with that 1%" "



But that aside, as any guy, straight or gay, I love to have my ego stroked, so heh...thanks guys for those compliments.

This whole discussion is one of the things I like about LPSG. It challenges all my ideas about what people mean by sexual/emotional orientation or interest. The conversation plays with my head in the strangest ways. There is something I would like to add to this thread. I have met a lot of different people on this site over the last few years but the people I've felt most close to have been those who have shared their intimate feelings with me. Part of that emotional intimacy has been expressing their confusion or mixed feelings about their sexuality. Guys who may have no interest in other men sexually in their "real" lives find a place here where they can express their attraction without feeling that they have to "come out" as gay or bi or whatever. I think that's a great thing. I have had people express their loving (or lusting) feelings in the environment of LPSG which is not judging nor fearful. I hope this makes sense. So some people may not ever be clear about knowing their sexual/emotional identity. And that's cool to me. I feel fortunate to have met so many open and caring people here who do not judge me in the same way that I do not judge them. Thanks LPSG. :biggrin1:

 

[musclebare9]

Was the public service announcement necessary?

Just as necessary as every gay TV star, musician, politician, or anyone else who thinks themselves important coming out of the closet and announcing that they are gay.

I list myself as 99% straight for many of the same reasons as Riven. I do get many PM's asking what the 1% means or making sexual offers. I explain wht the 1% means to me or thank them for the flattery and let them know that I am not interested. It doesn't bother me but I have often thought that it would be nice to have a single way to let others know that I am not interested.

I do have photos on the site and I understand that both gay and straight men will view them. I also believe that this site is neither gay nor straight and that women will also view my photos. The photos are just that, photos. You can do whatever you want while viewing them. I am on the other end of a cable modem with a firewall that blocks gay advances, blow jobs, ass grabs, etc. I will always respond nicely to anyone whether gay or straight.

 

[HungThickProf]

Just as necessary as every gay TV star, musician, politician, or anyone else who thinks themselves important coming out of the closet and announcing that they are gay.

I list myself as 99% straight for many of the same reasons as Riven. I do get many PM's asking what the 1% means or making sexual offers. I explain wht the 1% means to me or thank them for the flattery and let them know that I am not interested. It doesn't bother me but I have often thought that it would be nice to have a single way to let others know that I am not interested.

I do have photos on the site and I understand that both gay and straight men will view them. I also believe that this site is neither gay nor straight and that women will also view my photos. The photos are just that, photos. You can do whatever you want while viewing them. I am on the other end of a cable modem with a firewall that blocks gay advances, blow jobs, ass grabs, etc. I will always respond nicely to anyone whether gay or straight.

Wow. That's ridiculous. First of all, people come out to be honest about who they are against the social norms, there is a difference. Second, maybe you wouldn't have that issue if so many other 99% straight guys weren't trying to jack-off with, suck, and/or fuck other guys. And third- you want to provide that information say that you can give your "protect me from gay advances" firewall a break? Put it in your profile. There is plenty of room for you to put that shit in your signature area. Problem solved. Now lets tackle something a little less complicated like world peace.

 

[HungThickProf]

Just as necessary as every gay TV star, musician, politician, or anyone else who thinks themselves important coming out of the closet and announcing that they are gay.

I list myself as 99% straight for many of the same reasons as Riven. I do get many PM's asking what the 1% means or making sexual offers. I explain wht the 1% means to me or thank them for the flattery and let them know that I am not interested. It doesn't bother me but I have often thought that it would be nice to have a single way to let others know that I am not interested.

I do have photos on the site and I understand that both gay and straight men will view them. I also believe that this site is neither gay nor straight and that women will also view my photos. The photos are just that, photos. You can do whatever you want while viewing them. I am on the other end of a cable modem with a firewall that blocks gay advances, blow jobs, ass grabs, etc. I will always respond nicely to anyone whether gay or straight.

Oh, and by the way- if a guy posts pictures of his ass on a big dick site, 9 times out 10, he wants to be fucked in it. Just sayin'.

 

[Empathizer]

If you're a 100% straight man who's pissed about other guys wanting to cyberfuck you with their eyes, and you think you'd never do anything of the sort, and you live and work among women, you are a hypocrite. And a misogynist.

In my experience, guys who need to preen their hetero peacocks' tails and strut about the aviaries of "birds" flexing their wings, are generally the worst at restraining their straightness-affirming sexual-harassment mating songs and overly-active female-tail-grabbing prehensile wing-ends.

Sorry, but as a straightish woman with, you know, dignity, and sense, I feel 100% not-sorry for you.

 

[INTP]

Well, I am heterosexual. I have no attraction to men whatsoever, not even in the inner recesses of my mind. I am actually surprised sometimes when I read about various male celebrities that are apparently attractive to most women, as to me they just look like puny dickheads.

Hugh Jackman, for example. To me, a heterosexual male, he just looks like a dumb, grinning dipstick that needs a shave. I was amazed to read that he is attractive to most women my robot brain cannot see what females (and homosexualsI suppose, by extension) see as attractive in that numnut. He just looks like a nothing dingbat to me, that I would barely even be conscious of were he in my presence, so there you go...

 

[luka82]

Well, I am heterosexual. I have no attraction to men whatsoever, not even in the inner recesses of my mind. I am actually surprised sometimes when I read about various male celebrities that are apparently attractive to most women, as to me they just look like puny dickheads.

Hugh Jackman, for example. To me, a heterosexual male, he just looks like a dumb, grinning dipstick that needs a shave. I was amazed to read that he is attractive to most women my robot brain cannot see what females (and homosexualsI suppose, by extension) see as attractive in that numnut. He just looks like a nothing dingbat to me, that I would barely even be conscious of were he in my presence, so there you go...

ha?

 

[musclebare9]

Oh, and by the way- if a guy posts pictures of his ass on a big dick site, 9 times out 10, he wants to be fucked in it. Just sayin'.

Or kissed!

 

[D_Asston Kutcher]

On a site like this a guy has to just draw a line in the sand. I'm 100% straight so don't PM me with come-ons or whatever.
It seems that the only people who have a problem with people who are 100% straight are well...those who aren't 100% straight, and some of the female members(for some strange incomprehensible reason that completely eludes me).
It's not a shot at you personally or a condemnation of what you feel is right. It's simply a polite way of saying "Not interested".
Respect our sexuality as we respect yours.

 

[B_Nick8]

Well done. You've just managed to cut down on 1% of the unwanted messages you'll get.

I guess that means you'll have to look to the very wise responses you've gotten and find another way to handle this all-too-typical internet situation.

 

[HungThickProf]

Or kissed!

Touche

 

[maxcok]

Just as necessary as every gay TV star, musician, politician, or anyone else who thinks themselves important coming out of the closet and announcing that they are gay.

For most people coming out has historically been an act of bravery, especially for those in the public eye. It also sets a positive example for others to follow. It is that simple act more than anything else multiplied exponentially by thousands that has inspired and allowed others to come out, and it has led directly to the level of acceptance we've reached in our society. I don't think most if any of them do it for the attention.

I list myself as 99% straight for many of the same reasons as Riven. I do get many PM's asking what the 1% means or making sexual offers. I explain wht the 1% means to me or thank them for the flattery and let them know that I am not interested. It doesn't bother me but I have often thought that it would be nice to have a single way to let others know that I am not interested.

Why don't you (and other guys and gals with this same complaint) just put a polite caveat in your signature box, as Petite and many others have done?
Unless of course you (and others with this complaint) secretly get off on the atttention and flattery.

 

[luka82]

for most people coming out has historically been an act of bravery, especially for those in the public eye. It also sets a positive example for others to follow. It is that simple act more than anything else multiplied exponentially by thousands that has inspired and allowed others to come out, and it has led directly to the level of acceptance we've reached in our society. I don't think most if any of them do it for the attention.

exactly!

 

[maxcok]

Well, I am heterosexual. I have no attraction to men whatsoever, not even in the inner recesses of my mind. I am actually surprised sometimes when I read about various male celebrities that are apparently attractive to most women, as to me they just look like puny dickheads.

Hugh Jackman, for example. To me, a heterosexual male, he just looks like a dumb, grinning dipstick that needs a shave. I was amazed to read that he is attractive to most women my robot brain cannot see what females (and homosexualsI suppose, by extension) see as attractive in that numnut. He just looks like a nothing dingbat to me, that I would barely even be conscious of were he in my presence, so there you go...

Well, attraction is entirely subjective. I'd be curious to know what guys you do think are hot,
objectively speaking of course. Maybe somebody on LPSG? :smile:

On a site like this a guy has to just draw a line in the sand. I'm 100% straight so don't PM me with come-ons or whatever.

Sands have a tendency to shift. Maybe you should set it in stone. :wink:

It seems that the only people who have a problem with people who are 100% straight are well...those who aren't 100% straight, and some of the female members(for some strange incomprehensible reason that completely eludes me).

I don't think most people have a "problem" with someone being 100% straight. It's more a question of how some (many) guys wear that identity - is it a comfortable old t-shirt or a suit of armor?

 

[Pendlum]

There is a slight problem with the signature thing. A lot of people don't read that, or would ignore it. Now I don't have anything about my sexuality, or measurements in my signature like some. But it still says 100% Straight on everything I post, and on my profile, but I still get asked if I'm "gay or str8" (almost never straight, pretty much always 'str8', just an observation). This really isn't a big deal though since I don't really care all that much if I get PM's from guys hitting on me. In fact, out of all the guys who I would rather have PMing me, I'd rather it be the guys who WOULD probably read my signature and such, instead of the guys who would ignore it. At least that ups the chances of talking to someone interesting. :tongue:

Plus it would give some guys even more excuse to rage. But if I'm honest, I complain sometimes, but mostly humorously about it. And more about how silly or uncreative, or just down right weird some of the messages can be.