I am not saying ALL black guys do this to me when I am in the US, of course not. It is just I only get that approach from blacks in the US. I never have Asians or whites drive up to me with stupid lines and then curse at me for not responding. I am more commenting on the berating bit, the stupid lines don't bother me. I have white guys say something like "your loss" but nothing so obnoxious as the basically canned "well fuck you den, biiiiiATCH!" They almost all say the same thing. And seriously, having someone go "whoooooo" (South Americans) or spin their wheels isn't frightening. Someone calling me names and cursing at me, is. I am petite and when alone getting harassed feels different than getting hit on. I am basically afraid of them when I am alone. Yes, it is a generalization, just as much as the original post saying XYZ women don't like blacks is. I sometimes feel bad about it, as I shouldn't prejudge; but at the same time.. when I am in the States, every time I see a couple of young black guys with their pants halfway down their thighs between me and my destination I think of taking a different route.