Wife Sharing and Cuckolds, How did you get into it?

[jk60122]

I like many other men in this world have a fantasy about seeing my wife with another man. We have discussed it in the past, she has seened into it at times, and then other times she has not. I have pretty much just left it alone. If she ever wants to explore it further that would be great but it up to her.

But to all of the men and woman that are into this type of thing, how did you get into it? Who's idea was it? Where did you find a person? Did your partner like the idea from the start or did it take some convincing? What were the experiences like? How did it affect your relationship?

Please share your experiences.

I don't want to hear from people that are against this type of thing. I am not looking to be judged, and I don't want anyone posting their experiences being judged either. I don't want to hear that you think it is wrong and you would never do it or any stuff like that. If you don't have anything constuctive to add, please don't add anything.

 

[D_tukldktu]

We got into it because my husband always pictured me as being a porn star. He has always thought I was super sexy and should be shared. He enjoys watching me with someone else and is VERY turned on at even just the thought. We have gone back and fourth on the subject because when I'm super turned on I am into it , but when I'm not I could take it or leave it. It's not that he doesn't please me , he just gets turned on by it. He loves big things in me , so naturally he wants me to be with guys who are hung - it's also a plus that I LOVE hung cocks. I was with previous guys before we were married and since being married in march i have only been with one. As weird as this sounds I almost think it made us a stronger and more open couple. It's as if doing the cuckold or having an open relationship made us more honest. We are able to live out his fantasies as well as mine without feeling guilty. I can't say what will happen with your situation , but if you don't try you will never know. It has also significantly improved our sex life together too !

 

[Uncutpete]

I got into couples in my teens when my coach invited me home for "dinner" with his wife. I kept seeing them, and fucking her, several times a week until I went to college. Since then, I have almost always had regular couples as part of my very active sex life... as I do now. I never accept an offer to try to seduce a wife who is reluctant or when the hub is unable to talk to her about having me. I insist that the couple has talked about it in advance and then that we all talk together ahead of time... a lot of this is to reduce husband shock, at the level of pleasure that his wife enters into when we finally get to fuck.

I make it clear that I am about the pleasure of the wife first and foremost. My first goal is her satisfaction, the full exhaustion of her body's need for sexual fulfillment. That may require that she and I be alone for a period of time at first, so that she can get over worrying about him and his needs and concentrate on her own. That said, I am very flexible about the level of contact with and involvement of the hub. Often, he will start out watching for the first sessions, and then want to become more involved with our fuck, even with my body. I find that the fewer artificial boundaries that are laid down, the more fun all around.

Message me if you have any questions about the choice to open your couple this way.

 

[PittCoupleN]

For us it was kinda, sorta by accident. Wife and I had been talking for a while about trying to meet couples for some group play we both fantasized about but weren't having any luck. All the traditional swinger types wanted to do was swap and not only wasn't that what we were looking for the wife was still a little apprehensive about how she'd ultimately react to me being with another woman and worried that her obsessing about it might wreck the whole thing . After a few misfires and false starts and at my suggestion as I had no such concerns we decided to make our first time out something more in her wheel house. So we found a bi-guy who was willing to join us and respect all our boundaries (really hers)

The first time we met we started doing all the usual MFM stuff at a hotel with some light bi contact between me and him as well. We'll call that round one. After recovering and refreshing in the whirlpool bath the wife and he started making out and then moved to bed for round two while I, *ahem* recorded them on my phone. Everything prior to that had been recorded on a camera on tripod focused on the bed. In days that followed as I edited the videos into one watchable "high lights" video I started to realize the amount of time they'd spent focusing on enjoying each other, much more than anything else and I was eager to watch, then, and as I complied our video.

We arranged another night with the same guy a couple weeks later ostensibly to meet as a threesome again but this time after joining in for a short while I intentionally stepped aside and focused on recording the evenings events and sure enough as I expected they barely missed me and I was more than fine with that. Eventually it simply came to be obvious as we watched the videos of those nights I enjoyed watching her fuck other guys as much, or maybe more, as she liked doing it while I watched.

We still talk about meeting with a couple, but it doesn't seem to be in the cards as not only do the traditional swinger types seem to be focused on swapping partners, they're oddly judgemental about bi-guys. So while we don't often have opportunities these days as finding partners who share our interests or meet our, for lack of a better term, expectations in our area is nearly as improbable as finding the proverbial unicorn ...

It was a matter of trial and error led us to settle for the time being on wife sharing/watching.

 

[tea42]

My ex-wife and I talked about it during sex. We then just pulled some different friends in on occasion. Pretty soon, our entire group of friends were all fucking each other. Great times!

 

[NautiRogue]

Shortly after my divorce from my first wife, I booked a trip to Hedonism III as a single guy. The experience was awesome! I fucked 4 women that week. I came back from that trip with a new understanding that sex can just be sex.

When I met the woman who is now my wife, I told her very early in our relationship that I would never be monogamous. She had always been bi-curious, but she'd never had any experience with the lifestyle, despite that fact that within her own 7-year marriage she'd been unfaithful throughout half of it, and she'd had 3 different affairs.

One night, I slid a butt plug up her ass and fucked her pussy. I told her to imagine that it was two real cocks. Within a week we had our first MFM threesome.

From threesomes we moved on to couples-play. She's fucked me and two other guys multiple times. She's bi-furious and craves pussy, but finding single females who are open to play has proven to be exceptionally difficult for us. She gets her FF fix with couples play. When we got married, we spent our honeymoon at Hedonism II and this winter we're going back for our third time together.

As time has gone by, I've found myself leaning toward bisexuality and the Hotwife lifestyle. When we do a threesome with another guy, I like there to be some MM contact. I love watching her fuck other guys. It's so hot to fluff a guy for her and watch her slide his throbbing cock into her dripping pussy and ride it until it unloads deep in her cunt. Then it's my turn to lick and suck her clean before I slide in for sloppy seconds to reclaim her.

She has a full hall pass to play with anyone at any time. The only requirement is that she tell me about it. She's played without me many times, and it is a huge turn on! When I'm out of town on extended business trips, she'll usually hook up with a guy or a couple. She's played with couples multiple times during the day while I'm at work. Several times when I had to work late, she's gone out with another guy and spent the night with him. And last Valentine's Day, she spent the afternoon fucking another couple before coming home with a well-used and full pussy for me.

The lifestyle requires total openness, honesty, and communication. These are all things that make any relationship strong, but when you're sharing your bodies with others, these are even that much more important. She and I came from first relationships where neither of us had been faithful. Now, we both get the physical sex we want with full permission. Why have an affair when you can just tell your spouse, "I'm going to fuck so-and-so tomorrow night."

My wife and I have an exceptionally strong relationship, and we attribute a lot of it to swinging.

 

[deleted817718]

My wife and I have a cuckold relationship, and have had an agreement between us for her to have sexual freedom outside our marriage for 3 years now. It began with me talking about my fantasies of watching her have sex, which she started to like the idea of. She confessed that she didn't like the idea of me ever having sex with anyone else, which I admitted I was not interested in doing so.
My wife has always been a little disappointed with my size and performance in bed, and this added fuel to the fire when we talked about her having extra marital sex, as she had started getting a little frustrated, due to 99% of her orgasms being given to her by her own hand, after we had had sex.
So without telling me, my wife put herself on tinder. And sure enough she found herself a man willing to have sex with her while her husband watched. He seemed nice, around her age, but younger than me. From the dick pic he sent, he was very well hung and had a good body. So she set up the date and we got ready for him.
The reality of watching your wife having sex with another man is not what the fantasy would make you believe, but the reality for my wife being watched was not comfortable at all. You'd assume there would be a lot of jealousy running through your mind when you watch your wife have another man on top of her, but I felt none. At first I was just really pleased that my wife was having better sex. She orgasmed very fast and constantly repeated the words 'oh my god, it's so big'. But she looked a little cagey about things, slightly uptight and embarrassed.
After a while they stopped for a rest. The guy still hadn't cum, and was proudly laying back with his dick rock hard and covered with a condom. My wife came over to me, sitting on the side of the bedroom on a chair. She said to me 'I'm a little uncomfortable with this at the moment'. I told her I could see she wasn't really looking too confident with it, and I asked her if she wanted to stop and... She interrupted me with a quick 'no no no!' And continued 'I was just thinking, could you let me do this alone? It's you watching me that's making me feel uncomfortable. Can you go downstairs, I just want to be able to enjoy this. He's really good, and I keep orgasming.'
Obviously I did as I was asked and left them to enjoy themselves. My wife thanked my a lot for it too. She has since then had sex with several men, some being regular 'friends with benefits'. But this was the one and only time she had sex in front of me. We agreed that it was better for her to do it alone, as I really didn't find it as arousing as I hopped, more just pleased my wife was liking it, and she disliked being watch and couldn't really enjoy it with me there.
We found that this situation works well for us. Other than this our life is totally vanilla, and unless you are in our closest circle of friends or are one of the men my wife has slept with, you wouldn't guess that we are a cuckold couple.

 

[dontuwantoknow]

I like to see my girl get fucked

 

[isitme2]

When me and my wife started dating she would tell me, only when she's been drinking, about her past sex life. The more she would drink the more details she would tell me. I thought of my wife as a very innocent young girl. I was shocked to hear about some of her past sex life. It's very interesting to hear a girls point of view when it comes to sex. Every weekend it was the same thing. We would go out partying, get drunk and fuck. I found myself wanting to hear about her past. If she was completely sober she wouldn't discuss it. So what knew when was a good time to bring it up. She told me the good, bad and the funny. My imagination ran wild as I imagine her doing what she was telling me. Sometimes she would tell me the size and what position they did it in. I'm Black and my wife is Hispanic. Her funny story was having terrible terrible sex with two white guys. So she always wondered if all white guys where bad in bed.

Years later me and my wife got into swinging. It took me a long time to convince her to get into it. My ultimate fantasy was to see her have great sex with another man. I also wondered if another man could please her like I do. My wife fantasy was to have sex with a white guy. Why??? I don't know but it's her fantasy. There goes that saying "Once you go black..." The first three white guys she had sex with we're complete utter duds. I foolishly thought I was the only man that could possibly please her. So we had pretty much given up. My wife is very picky and it took almost a year for her to date those three guys. The next guy she went out on a date with was someone that called her out of the blue. He was a bartender she flirted with to get free drinks from him. She said he want her type and she really wasn't attracted to him. Luckily I convinced her to go out with him since I was working that night. One thing led to another and she ended the night at his apartment. My wife recorded their sex for my enjoyment. That white guy had a very thick cock & he knew how to use it. He fucked the hell out of my wife that night. Both of our fantasy was fulfilled that night.

My wife has moved on from White guys now. Now she date guys she's attracted to whether their whit, black or whatever. When we got into swinging a few couples liked my BBC and I guess word got around. So I helped fulfill a few couples BBC fantasy. But overall we're into hotwifing than swinging. It has immensely helped out our sex life.

 

[B_chinagirl4u2]

I met my now husband at a swingers club, I joined him and his then GF for a FMF, we started meeting often. I guess we fell in love, the other girl still joins us regularly. We have been swinging as a couple for 5 years. I love watching him with other girls, he loves watching me with other girls and men.
Swinging is so much fun and I agree can make a relationship stronger.

 

[1sweetbabe]

I have to agree with the above posts.. I think it does make a relationship stronger when u can be open about what u want. but U also have to both be on the same page when it comes down to it as well.. I have been in a relationship and we got into swinging and I loved it.. I loved to watch him please and be please by another female as well as he loved to watch me.. My last BF was very much wanting to watch me with a hung guy and it turned him on greatly to think about it and It turned me on as well 1 to know that he was so hot and horned up over the idea and 2 cause I was gonna get the best of it all...
Looking for a guy to be the male is up to u there are swinger sites out that and u can join and go to parties, or u can place an ad out there as well and see what u get..
My last bf and i got alot of responses from the ad we placed, just never got the chance to meet them..
Best wishes

 

[chitownheat1]

Late 30s couple ,,, been in the lifestyle off/on for 8 yrs .... have experimented with some light cucking -- mostly verbal stuff. Wife loves to dirty talk and is always in the lookout for a couple with a hubby hung bigger than me. She will dirty talk to me and the other wife about how the other hubby is fucking her -- the verbal sparring really gets her excited. She also encourages the hubbies to compare cocks side by side and comment on each other ... have to admit ... its a turn on to put em side by side by side and compare.

 

[Sirramm]

I got into swinging almost by accident over 20 years ago when my then ex-wife was constently hit on by the husband of a couple we use to drink and hangout with. One night he 'jokingly' asked if he could fuck my wife. After A LOT of drinks I answered "Sure only if I can watch while if fuck yours!". Moments later I watched him slide his cock into her while his wife sucked my dick. After that night my wife and I didn't talk about it really but everytime I fucked her I thought about it and how hot it was watching her fuck.

Many months later at another party I got turned on and this time I started it by asking if I could fuck his wife again. She had her period and couldn't/wouldn't so my wife said "How about you both do me" and from that point forward all doors were open. You haven't had a blowjob until you get one from your wife or GF while she is getting royally fucked.

I suggest everyone try it at least once...but ONLY if you are already in a very strong and stable relationship!!!

 

[Straighteightguy]

My wife and I have been in to swinger's clubs and I've watched her with other men and women. She was the one who pushed me to be with another guy and finally I;ve been into a couple of sixty-nines or we have had several threesomes with other men. She likes me to go down on her after another guy has fucked her.

 

[travelingwilly]

Started with dirty talk in the bedroom about threesomes. Eventually she said "I can get someone around" told her to do it and the guy came around. Heart was banging like fuck but once we got started it was amazing! I love watching her with another guy, I just wish it happened a lot more often.

 

[OlderNudistM]

Shortly after marriage we went to an adults only resort. There, we would participate in all the resort activities and it was fun. Since my wife has a thick juicy ass, I loved spanking it. I would spank her whenever the urge came on which was often especially when we were dancing. Had a couple of other married men approach me asking if I would spank there wives while they watched. One guy was a newlywed that week. as the week progressed we would spank each others wives. Many months later wife and I would reflect back on that trip and she brought up how horny and wet that made her feel being spanked by others. I asked if she would want anything more and she openly said she would have liked to suck those guys off after the spanking. Being nudists we've seen plenty go on and happen especially at private parties and we have always discussed the events in details. It certainly made it for hotter sex.
I have always been ok with sharing her mentally so I was ready to let her have fun. With 2 trusted guys we know, sharing her and watching her have the fun she had and has been having with me joining in the fun, certainly made that part of our life way more fun.

 

[rtg]

I like many other men in this world have a fantasy about seeing my wife with another man. We have discussed it in the past, she has seened into it at times, and then other times she has not. I have pretty much just left it alone. If she ever wants to explore it further that would be great but it up to her.

But to all of the men and woman that are into this type of thing, how did you get into it? Who's idea was it? Where did you find a person? Did your partner like the idea from the start or did it take some convincing? What were the experiences like? How did it affect your relationship?

Please share your experiences.

I don't want to hear from people that are against this type of thing. I am not looking to be judged, and I don't want anyone posting their experiences being judged either. I don't want to hear that you think it is wrong and you would never do it or any stuff like that. If you don't have anything constuctive to add, please don't add anything.

I'd love to do this but have always been too scared to bring it up

 

[Mike hung]

Myself and my wife have a very diverse open sexual relationship, we've been involved in the swinging scene for years here in the UK and we're well known for being the go to couple for those seeking the huge dick experience, my missus really enjoys watching me ruin somebody else's woman Lol. I usually get at least one request a week

 

[pipedreamer79]

My wife and I have been married 14+ yrs now, and decided to explore an open/poly-minded dynamic about 2.5 yrs ago.

We're both very open-minded, and have virtually no hangups. We don't struggle with shame over any of our desires, and we're both adventurous. We're both bisexual, exhibitionist/voyeurs... Wife is entirely submissive, and I'm a switch. Because I'm bisexual and a bottom, I understand the feeling that only a well hung man can provide.

I'm of very average endowment, but have zero issues pleasing my partners. We're more of the hotwife couple persuasion than we are a true cuckold. While I enjoy some of the aspects that cucks crave (being told to watch closely, cleaning up creampies, etc), I'm just not the sissy, submissive, sexually inadequate cuck--I'm just a freak that loves watching my wife take big dick.

As has been mentioned by others earlier in the thread, the open and honest communication that's required for this sort of thing to work has made our relationship as strong as it's ever been.

The biggest challenge has been finding guys that are on the same level as us in regards to what we are seeking from him--intelligent, well-hung, clean, and isn't a flake that disappears before the first meeting.

 

[Tatu_Biker]

I've thought about this often, only probably a little differently than others. I'm not into the idea of another guy actually pussy fucking my wife, or any cock sucking or anything else like that. Some things are just for me. But since my wife is quite busty, a fantasy I've had is for another guy to fondle her big breasts, and then slide his dick between them and tittyfuck her until he gives her a pearl necklace. I've mentioned it to her once, and although she was surprised, she never said "no".