Wife Sharing and Cuckolds, How did you get into it?

[libralover4u2]

As time has gone by, I've found myself leaning toward bisexuality and the Hotwife lifestyle. When we do a threesome with another guy, I like there to be some MM contact. I love watching her fuck other guys. It's so hot to fluff a guy for her and watch her slide his throbbing cock into her dripping pussy and ride it until it unloads deep in her cunt. Then it's my turn to lick and suck her clean before I slide in for sloppy seconds to reclaim her.
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It has been very similar for my GF and me. We started playing with others at a swing club in New York City. For the first several years, I was straight and we played with other couples. Then got together with a guy who had a 9 X 7 inch cock, bigger than she ever had before. She is gorgeous and he was so hot for her, and she for him. After he and I had given her foreplay and oral to give her an orgasm, she found that his cock had gotten soft while we were doing that. She started sucking his cock to get it hard and then asked me, "Can you a help me get it hard. When I moved up beside her face, she moved his hardening cock over to my lips, and I started sucking it while she sucked his balls. It was the first time I had ever sucked a cock, but it was very exciting feel it get very hard in my mouth. Then I moved his cock over by her pussy; he rolled a condom on his cock; and I started rubbing his cock head up and down in her pussy lips and over her clit. By that time her pussy was gushing, her hips were bouncing up and down, and she kept saying, "Put it in, put it in." He said, "I got it, and slid his cock deep in her pussy." As they fucked I alternated between French kissing her and sucking her nipples. She used one hand to stroke my hard cock. After about 40 minutes, he raised her legs up high over her head and started fucking her fast. She was moaning and then he started groaning that he was cumming. At that time I felt my cock cum in her hand.

While we sometimes get together with another couple and I fuck the gal, usually we now have one to three guys with us for a swing sessions. She likes to start off with a guy sucking each nipple and another sucking her clit. She has great orgasms that way. And, she can outlast our two male guests and still have time and interest for a good sloppy seconds for me.

To us it is not cuckolding, but just having sexual fun with others. We think of cuckolding as when the male guest or the gal degrades the guy. In our situation she always treats me with utmost respect and lets our guests know that she expects that from them too. We both enjoy it together. And, and other guys have said, "There is nothing as exciting as seeing your gal really enjoy fucking another guy and having wild about her and cum hard deep in her pussy, in a condom, of course. Recently we have been using F2C female condoms when we are with guys who have a big cock, and leaving the female condom in her so I can have genuine sloppy seconds. We both love it when the guy's cum gets all white and frothy around my cock as I fuck her.

 

[BigBen]

I've thought about this often, only probably a little differently than others. I'm not into the idea of another guy actually pussy fucking my wife, or any cock sucking or anything else like that. Some things are just for me. But since my wife is quite busty, a fantasy I've had is for another guy to fondle her big breasts, and then slide his dick between them and tittyfuck her until he gives her a pearl necklace. I've mentioned it to her once, and although she was surprised, she never said "no".

If she loves size and giant loads.....I volunteer...LOL. Which pictures in your profile are her? Where are you?

 

[rtg]

Sorry, I misunderstood.
I wish I lived near you!

Lol all good. I was referring to previous relationships... and I'm pretty sure I'd find it difficult to bring up in any future ones too.

 

[amazzzed2]

If you were with me, I would bring it up, and encourage you to try other men.

 

[unbroken]

So I'm a Tri-sexual guy in a lonterm committed relationship with the straightest of strait woman. See is sexy as hell, has an awesome body, and hands down best sex I've ever had, and I've had more than my fair share...all this while she can count her combined sex partners all on one hand...

So before she knew I had been with guys before, we'd get freaky every now and then and this lead to her pegging me a few times. It was incredible! If you've ever experienced that kind of openness and intimacy it truly is amazing! So then I opened up and asked her what she thought about us finding a bi guy to fuck me?? She agreed until I found one and then got cold feet. It almost split us up.

Since then no more pegging or ass play for me and I go through stages of missing it to craving it...even if it's just from her pegging and rimming me like before. Aside from that everything is still amazing and great! The times I've brought it up haven't been good...

She (like a lot of women) can't separate sex and emotional attarchment. For me, I'm not attracted to men, don't look at them and think anything, don't kiss or cuddle (cause that's just gay) lol!! When I think of male/male sex or get aroused by it all I'm thinking about and invisioning it a long, fat cock slamming into my well lived tight ass and feeling the fullness, the stretching, the full hanging sack slapping at my taint or ass with each thrust, and being filled with a huge load of cum!

So lately (past year or so) I've been fantasizing about watching her with another man. Sure I would eventually like her to want the same (probably not watching) for me, but that isn't the reason I've wanted it. She is smoking fucking hot, has a great pussy and ass, and deserves it. I'm sure the first time or two I might want to join, we'd have to work all that out. My biggest concern is that she is 100% satisfied, loyal, and honest with me. She literally has eyes for no one else and is pretty conservative. She won't even wear low cut tops to show off.

So in yalls experience, what's the best way to approach the subject? When? During sex? After sex? Dirty talk during sex "i.e. Fucking her hard and she's about to cum and asking her "you like that cock?" Which I have many times in that exact situation in time, but this time when she says "uh huuuh", then asking in the same gritted teeth tone "you wish it was someone else's cock"...(I'm not small) but saying "someone bigger?" Or telling her "youd look so sexy with another mans cock in your mouth (or ass) right now" saying that right before I cum and fill her to the brim...

What's the best way to break the ice on this?? Thanks!!

 

[MicroWill]

2 weeks after our wedding day my wife announced that she had a found a real man with a real dick and I was going to learn to please cock and obey my wife. And I love it!

 

[need2bsexy2]

I came to it from the other side. I have been the bull for several couples. There was no Bi action between me and the husband. Just a concentration on the wife. Hubby and I bumped into each other during satisfying the wife. Some couples were repeats and others were one of a kind. I always thanked both wife and hubby for sharing. Never got a negative reaction from either wife or hubby. Great fun and I love to share a wife with her hubby.

Each couple approached me and it was mostly the wife starting the interaction.

 

[Uncutpete]

For us it was kinda, sorta by accident. Wife and I had been talking for a while about trying to meet couples for some group play we both fantasized about but weren't having any luck. All the traditional swinger types wanted to do was swap and not only wasn't that what we were looking for the wife was still a little apprehensive about how she'd ultimately react to me being with another woman and worried that her obsessing about it might wreck the whole thing . After a few misfires and false starts and at my suggestion as I had no such concerns we decided to make our first time out something more in her wheel house. So we found a bi-guy who was willing to join us and respect all our boundaries (really hers)

The first time we met we started doing all the usual MFM stuff at a hotel with some light bi contact between me and him as well. We'll call that round one. After recovering and refreshing in the whirlpool bath the wife and he started making out and then moved to bed for round two while I, *ahem* recorded them on my phone. Everything prior to that had been recorded on a camera on tripod focused on the bed. In days that followed as I edited the videos into one watchable "high lights" video I started to realize the amount of time they'd spent focusing on enjoying each other, much more than anything else and I was eager to watch, then, and as I complied our video.

We arranged another night with the same guy a couple weeks later ostensibly to meet as a threesome again but this time after joining in for a short while I intentionally stepped aside and focused on recording the evenings events and sure enough as I expected they barely missed me and I was more than fine with that. Eventually it simply came to be obvious as we watched the videos of those nights I enjoyed watching her fuck other guys as much, or maybe more, as she liked doing it while I watched.

We still talk about meeting with a couple, but it doesn't seem to be in the cards as not only do the traditional swinger types seem to be focused on swapping partners, they're oddly judgemental about bi-guys. So while we don't often have opportunities these days as finding partners who share our interests or meet our, for lack of a better term, expectations in our area is nearly as improbable as finding the proverbial unicorn ...

It was a matter of trial and error led us to settle for the time being on wife sharing/watching.

Are you in Pittsburg? Is it really that hard to find a good outside man, who is open to some contact with you?

 

[stykboy]

My wife has agreed to become a hotwife... now we just need to find a guy, or guys... any advice?

 

[PittCoupleN]

I'd love to do this but have always been too scared to bring it up

Then figure a way to get him to bring it up and make him think it was his idea.

Watch porn together? If so make sure it's often or always the theme, sooner or later he'll ask you what you think and you just ask surprised.

And don't be so anxious to do as to make him think he's coming up short some how and you're just looking to step out on him. Make him work for it.

 

[Cuckfootboy]

I started early as a teenage. One of my best friends won a bet against me and I had to kiss his barefeet. He figured out I had a foot fetish and used it to his advantage. One night when we were over his house, me, him, and my gf getting drunk/stoned, he made me worship his barefeet in front of her. She ended up riding his cock while I licked his feet. That started a life of cuckolding for me

 

[JackDoff]

Our group sex sessions were supposed to be mfm but the lad involved got back with his ex before we had chance to go through with it - he suggested it to his girlfriend and a 4way resulted. Both are quite a bit younger than us which felt slightly odd but while I was with his girl I loved looking across at him fucking my wife.

I wouldn't want the cuckold scenario personally I'd always want to be involved if we go ahead with a 3way which no doubt we will at some time the other guy/girl is the 'hired help' not a replacement. An enhancement if you like - icing on the cake but not the actual cake if that makes sense.

 

[Topramen1]

Shortly after my divorce from my first wife, I booked a trip to Hedonism III as a single guy. The experience was awesome! I fucked 4 women that week. I came back from that trip with a new understanding that sex can just be sex.

When I met the woman who is now my wife, I told her very early in our relationship that I would never be monogamous. She had always been bi-curious, but she'd never had any experience with the lifestyle, despite that fact that within her own 7-year marriage she'd been unfaithful throughout half of it, and she'd had 3 different affairs.

One night, I slid a butt plug up her ass and fucked her pussy. I told her to imagine that it was two real cocks. Within a week we had our first MFM threesome.

From threesomes we moved on to couples-play. She's fucked me and two other guys multiple times. She's bi-furious and craves pussy, but finding single females who are open to play has proven to be exceptionally difficult for us. She gets her FF fix with couples play. When we got married, we spent our honeymoon at Hedonism II and this winter we're going back for our third time together.

As time has gone by, I've found myself leaning toward bisexuality and the Hotwife lifestyle. When we do a threesome with another guy, I like there to be some MM contact. I love watching her fuck other guys. It's so hot to fluff a guy for her and watch her slide his throbbing cock into her dripping pussy and ride it until it unloads deep in her cunt. Then it's my turn to lick and suck her clean before I slide in for sloppy seconds to reclaim her.

She has a full hall pass to play with anyone at any time. The only requirement is that she tell me about it. She's played without me many times, and it is a huge turn on! When I'm out of town on extended business trips, she'll usually hook up with a guy or a couple. She's played with couples multiple times during the day while I'm at work. Several times when I had to work late, she's gone out with another guy and spent the night with him. And last Valentine's Day, she spent the afternoon fucking another couple before coming home with a well-used and full pussy for me.

The lifestyle requires total openness, honesty, and communication. These are all things that make any relationship strong, but when you're sharing your bodies with others, these are even that much more important. She and I came from first relationships where neither of us had been faithful. Now, we both get the physical sex we want with full permission. Why have an affair when you can just tell your spouse, "I'm going to fuck so-and-so tomorrow night."

My wife and I have an exceptionally strong relationship, and we attribute a lot of it to swinging.

I'm in Pittsburgh too, Let's connect!

 

[Heat]

My wife and I have been in to swinger's clubs and I've watched her with other men and women. She was the one who pushed me to be with another guy and finally I;ve been into a couple of sixty-nines or we have had several threesomes with other men. She likes me to go down on her after another guy has fucked her.

You enjoy going down on her after she's been fucked by another guy?

 

[Tatu_Biker]

Has this happened

No, not yet.

 

[amazzzed2]

I'd love to do this but have always been too scared to bring it up

Maybe you could just tell your husband that you have read about couples that have experienced this, and see what he says.
I wish my first wife would have done that instead of having an affair. I would have told her that I was OK with it.

 

[rtg]

Maybe you could just tell your husband that you have read about couples that have experienced this, and see what he says.
I wish my first wife would have done that instead of having an affair. I would have told her that I was OK with it.

Lol I'm single.

 

[amazzzed2]

Lol I'm single.

Sorry, I misunderstood.
I wish I lived near you!

 

[amazzzed2]

Lol all good. I was referring to previous relationships... and I'm pretty sure I'd find it difficult to bring up in any future ones too.

Thank you.
I'm having a difficult time accessing your photos.
How can I do that?

 

[rtg]

Thank you.
I'm having a difficult time accessing your photos.
How can I do that?

You can't. I put them all on private... so no one can see them.