Wife Sharing and Cuckolds, How did you get into it?

[need2bsexy2]

I came to it from the other side. I have been the bull for several couples. There was no Bi action between me and the husband. Just a concentration on the wife. Hubby and I bumped into each other during satisfying the wife. Some couples were repeats and others were one of a kind. I always thanked both wife and hubby for sharing. Never got a negative reaction from either wife or hubby. Great fun and I love to share a wife with her hubby.

Each couple approached me and it was mostly the wife starting the interaction.

 

[CarpeD1em]

For a while in college i was a "bull" for a few couples and everyone i asked how they got into it they all said the internet . Ive also had a few men contact me online not sure how to ask there wife. I say just be open about it and tell her if you feel she may like it as well.

 

[latinluva]

Wife and I talk about it alot, the past year or so I would describe what I want to her just at the end of sex. Tell her how I would love to see her get fucked by another man. Her pussy starts to get drenched and she cums. Afterwards, we talk about it and she says maybe one day. But I'm bisexual, so I don't do cuckold stuff. I need to be sucking something or getting sucked or maybe DP. I love dick just as much as anyone else, so I'm full participant or we do nothing at all.

 

[Mike hung]

Myself and my wife have a very diverse open sexual relationship, we've been involved in the swinging scene for years here in the UK and we're well known for being the go to couple for those seeking the huge dick experience, my missus really enjoys watching me ruin somebody else's woman Lol. I usually get at least one request a week

 

[pipedreamer79]

My wife and I have been married 14+ yrs now, and decided to explore an open/poly-minded dynamic about 2.5 yrs ago.

We're both very open-minded, and have virtually no hangups. We don't struggle with shame over any of our desires, and we're both adventurous. We're both bisexual, exhibitionist/voyeurs... Wife is entirely submissive, and I'm a switch. Because I'm bisexual and a bottom, I understand the feeling that only a well hung man can provide.

I'm of very average endowment, but have zero issues pleasing my partners. We're more of the hotwife couple persuasion than we are a true cuckold. While I enjoy some of the aspects that cucks crave (being told to watch closely, cleaning up creampies, etc), I'm just not the sissy, submissive, sexually inadequate cuck--I'm just a freak that loves watching my wife take big dick.

As has been mentioned by others earlier in the thread, the open and honest communication that's required for this sort of thing to work has made our relationship as strong as it's ever been.

The biggest challenge has been finding guys that are on the same level as us in regards to what we are seeking from him--intelligent, well-hung, clean, and isn't a flake that disappears before the first meeting.

 

[Uncutpete]

I got into couples in my teens when my coach invited me home for "dinner" with his wife. I kept seeing them, and fucking her, several times a week until I went to college. Since then, I have almost always had regular couples as part of my very active sex life... as I do now. I never accept an offer to try to seduce a wife who is reluctant or when the hub is unable to talk to her about having me. I insist that the couple has talked about it in advance and then that we all talk together ahead of time... a lot of this is to reduce husband shock, at the level of pleasure that his wife enters into when we finally get to fuck.

I make it clear that I am about the pleasure of the wife first and foremost. My first goal is her satisfaction, the full exhaustion of her body's need for sexual fulfillment. That may require that she and I be alone for a period of time at first, so that she can get over worrying about him and his needs and concentrate on her own. That said, I am very flexible about the level of contact with and involvement of the hub. Often, he will start out watching for the first sessions, and then want to become more involved with our fuck, even with my body. I find that the fewer artificial boundaries that are laid down, the more fun all around.

Message me if you have any questions about the choice to open your couple this way.

 

[PittCoupleN]

For us it was kinda, sorta by accident. Wife and I had been talking for a while about trying to meet couples for some group play we both fantasized about but weren't having any luck. All the traditional swinger types wanted to do was swap and not only wasn't that what we were looking for the wife was still a little apprehensive about how she'd ultimately react to me being with another woman and worried that her obsessing about it might wreck the whole thing . After a few misfires and false starts and at my suggestion as I had no such concerns we decided to make our first time out something more in her wheel house. So we found a bi-guy who was willing to join us and respect all our boundaries (really hers)

The first time we met we started doing all the usual MFM stuff at a hotel with some light bi contact between me and him as well. We'll call that round one. After recovering and refreshing in the whirlpool bath the wife and he started making out and then moved to bed for round two while I, *ahem* recorded them on my phone. Everything prior to that had been recorded on a camera on tripod focused on the bed. In days that followed as I edited the videos into one watchable "high lights" video I started to realize the amount of time they'd spent focusing on enjoying each other, much more than anything else and I was eager to watch, then, and as I complied our video.

We arranged another night with the same guy a couple weeks later ostensibly to meet as a threesome again but this time after joining in for a short while I intentionally stepped aside and focused on recording the evenings events and sure enough as I expected they barely missed me and I was more than fine with that. Eventually it simply came to be obvious as we watched the videos of those nights I enjoyed watching her fuck other guys as much, or maybe more, as she liked doing it while I watched.

We still talk about meeting with a couple, but it doesn't seem to be in the cards as not only do the traditional swinger types seem to be focused on swapping partners, they're oddly judgemental about bi-guys. So while we don't often have opportunities these days as finding partners who share our interests or meet our, for lack of a better term, expectations in our area is nearly as improbable as finding the proverbial unicorn ...

It was a matter of trial and error led us to settle for the time being on wife sharing/watching.

 

[Uncutpete]

For us it was kinda, sorta by accident. Wife and I had been talking for a while about trying to meet couples for some group play we both fantasized about but weren't having any luck. All the traditional swinger types wanted to do was swap and not only wasn't that what we were looking for the wife was still a little apprehensive about how she'd ultimately react to me being with another woman and worried that her obsessing about it might wreck the whole thing . After a few misfires and false starts and at my suggestion as I had no such concerns we decided to make our first time out something more in her wheel house. So we found a bi-guy who was willing to join us and respect all our boundaries (really hers)

The first time we met we started doing all the usual MFM stuff at a hotel with some light bi contact between me and him as well. We'll call that round one. After recovering and refreshing in the whirlpool bath the wife and he started making out and then moved to bed for round two while I, *ahem* recorded them on my phone. Everything prior to that had been recorded on a camera on tripod focused on the bed. In days that followed as I edited the videos into one watchable "high lights" video I started to realize the amount of time they'd spent focusing on enjoying each other, much more than anything else and I was eager to watch, then, and as I complied our video.

We arranged another night with the same guy a couple weeks later ostensibly to meet as a threesome again but this time after joining in for a short while I intentionally stepped aside and focused on recording the evenings events and sure enough as I expected they barely missed me and I was more than fine with that. Eventually it simply came to be obvious as we watched the videos of those nights I enjoyed watching her fuck other guys as much, or maybe more, as she liked doing it while I watched.

We still talk about meeting with a couple, but it doesn't seem to be in the cards as not only do the traditional swinger types seem to be focused on swapping partners, they're oddly judgemental about bi-guys. So while we don't often have opportunities these days as finding partners who share our interests or meet our, for lack of a better term, expectations in our area is nearly as improbable as finding the proverbial unicorn ...

It was a matter of trial and error led us to settle for the time being on wife sharing/watching.

Are you in Pittsburg? Is it really that hard to find a good outside man, who is open to some contact with you?

 

[PittCoupleN]

Are you in Pittsburg? Is it really that hard to find a good outside man, who is open to some contact with you?

Yes we're in Pittsburgh. And Yes it's pretty difficult around here, not so much to find someone who's open to some contact but someone who's a good fit in other ways.

We're not bed hoppers looking for a string of random hooks ups with strangers and would like to meet some unattached men around our age, with similar interests and close by that we can meet up with and not have it be a big production.

Once you get past the obviously cheating husbands and guys half or less our age who from their responses clearly wouldn't even take the time to read our ads the pickings are slim to non-existent.

 

[stykboy]

My wife has agreed to become a hotwife... now we just need to find a guy, or guys... any advice?

 

[Uncutpete]

My wife has agreed to become a hotwife... now we just need to find a guy, or guys... any advice?

I have a long experience being the outside man (or bull) for couples -- since I was a teenager. I have as much experience in this area as anyone. Contact me by message if you have any questions.

 

[hungguyinva]

I've always been the guy that was brought in as the 3rd in the bed. My first experience with that happened back in the days of AOL. haha. just had a couple in a chat room ask for pictures. they shared theirs...I shared mine. we went from there. I've been the bull in 5 different couples relationships over the years. from my perspective it was always a good, respectful time. just incredibly hot fucking and great friendships that resulted from it too.

 

[NautiRogue]

Shortly after my divorce from my first wife, I booked a trip to Hedonism III as a single guy. The experience was awesome! I fucked 4 women that week. I came back from that trip with a new understanding that sex can just be sex.

When I met the woman who is now my wife, I told her very early in our relationship that I would never be monogamous. She had always been bi-curious, but she'd never had any experience with the lifestyle, despite that fact that within her own 7-year marriage she'd been unfaithful throughout half of it, and she'd had 3 different affairs.

One night, I slid a butt plug up her ass and fucked her pussy. I told her to imagine that it was two real cocks. Within a week we had our first MFM threesome.

From threesomes we moved on to couples-play. She's fucked me and two other guys multiple times. She's bi-furious and craves pussy, but finding single females who are open to play has proven to be exceptionally difficult for us. She gets her FF fix with couples play. When we got married, we spent our honeymoon at Hedonism II and this winter we're going back for our third time together.

As time has gone by, I've found myself leaning toward bisexuality and the Hotwife lifestyle. When we do a threesome with another guy, I like there to be some MM contact. I love watching her fuck other guys. It's so hot to fluff a guy for her and watch her slide his throbbing cock into her dripping pussy and ride it until it unloads deep in her cunt. Then it's my turn to lick and suck her clean before I slide in for sloppy seconds to reclaim her.

She has a full hall pass to play with anyone at any time. The only requirement is that she tell me about it. She's played without me many times, and it is a huge turn on! When I'm out of town on extended business trips, she'll usually hook up with a guy or a couple. She's played with couples multiple times during the day while I'm at work. Several times when I had to work late, she's gone out with another guy and spent the night with him. And last Valentine's Day, she spent the afternoon fucking another couple before coming home with a well-used and full pussy for me.

The lifestyle requires total openness, honesty, and communication. These are all things that make any relationship strong, but when you're sharing your bodies with others, these are even that much more important. She and I came from first relationships where neither of us had been faithful. Now, we both get the physical sex we want with full permission. Why have an affair when you can just tell your spouse, "I'm going to fuck so-and-so tomorrow night."

My wife and I have an exceptionally strong relationship, and we attribute a lot of it to swinging.

 

[PittCoupleN]

I'd love to do this but have always been too scared to bring it up

Then figure a way to get him to bring it up and make him think it was his idea.

Watch porn together? If so make sure it's often or always the theme, sooner or later he'll ask you what you think and you just ask surprised.

And don't be so anxious to do as to make him think he's coming up short some how and you're just looking to step out on him. Make him work for it.

 

[Cuckfootboy]

I started early as a teenage. One of my best friends won a bet against me and I had to kiss his barefeet. He figured out I had a foot fetish and used it to his advantage. One night when we were over his house, me, him, and my gf getting drunk/stoned, he made me worship his barefeet in front of her. She ended up riding his cock while I licked his feet. That started a life of cuckolding for me

 

[JackDoff]

Our group sex sessions were supposed to be mfm but the lad involved got back with his ex before we had chance to go through with it - he suggested it to his girlfriend and a 4way resulted. Both are quite a bit younger than us which felt slightly odd but while I was with his girl I loved looking across at him fucking my wife.

I wouldn't want the cuckold scenario personally I'd always want to be involved if we go ahead with a 3way which no doubt we will at some time the other guy/girl is the 'hired help' not a replacement. An enhancement if you like - icing on the cake but not the actual cake if that makes sense.

 

[JackDoff]

to add my wife is my personal porn star - no one turns me on like her and that's after just celebrating 25yrs of marriage. She's ace.

 

[Topramen1]

Shortly after my divorce from my first wife, I booked a trip to Hedonism III as a single guy. The experience was awesome! I fucked 4 women that week. I came back from that trip with a new understanding that sex can just be sex.

When I met the woman who is now my wife, I told her very early in our relationship that I would never be monogamous. She had always been bi-curious, but she'd never had any experience with the lifestyle, despite that fact that within her own 7-year marriage she'd been unfaithful throughout half of it, and she'd had 3 different affairs.

One night, I slid a butt plug up her ass and fucked her pussy. I told her to imagine that it was two real cocks. Within a week we had our first MFM threesome.

From threesomes we moved on to couples-play. She's fucked me and two other guys multiple times. She's bi-furious and craves pussy, but finding single females who are open to play has proven to be exceptionally difficult for us. She gets her FF fix with couples play. When we got married, we spent our honeymoon at Hedonism II and this winter we're going back for our third time together.

As time has gone by, I've found myself leaning toward bisexuality and the Hotwife lifestyle. When we do a threesome with another guy, I like there to be some MM contact. I love watching her fuck other guys. It's so hot to fluff a guy for her and watch her slide his throbbing cock into her dripping pussy and ride it until it unloads deep in her cunt. Then it's my turn to lick and suck her clean before I slide in for sloppy seconds to reclaim her.

She has a full hall pass to play with anyone at any time. The only requirement is that she tell me about it. She's played without me many times, and it is a huge turn on! When I'm out of town on extended business trips, she'll usually hook up with a guy or a couple. She's played with couples multiple times during the day while I'm at work. Several times when I had to work late, she's gone out with another guy and spent the night with him. And last Valentine's Day, she spent the afternoon fucking another couple before coming home with a well-used and full pussy for me.

The lifestyle requires total openness, honesty, and communication. These are all things that make any relationship strong, but when you're sharing your bodies with others, these are even that much more important. She and I came from first relationships where neither of us had been faithful. Now, we both get the physical sex we want with full permission. Why have an affair when you can just tell your spouse, "I'm going to fuck so-and-so tomorrow night."

My wife and I have an exceptionally strong relationship, and we attribute a lot of it to swinging.

I'm in Pittsburgh too, Let's connect!

 

[need2bsexy2]

I've been the bull in 5 different couples relationships over the years. from my perspective it was always a good, respectful time. just incredibly hot fucking and great friendships that resulted from it too.

hunguyinva my experience exactly.

 

[HorsemanUK]

Participated from the perspective of a bull in relationships, got started a few years ago with increasing offers from couples who were either married or in open relationships, who were keen to find a well-endowed bull. Usually in these circumstances I will fuck the wife or partner in front of their husband as they watch in the corner or alternatively sometimes the partner is not present and they send pictures or videos back to their hubby, or talk on the phone while being fucked.


I've also had a lot of partner swap swinging with play partners, my current play partner is bi-sexual and seems to really enjoy involving other women to play in FFM threesomes or a full partner swap with a couple. In threesomes she really enjoys seeing my size pounding another woman and me taking turns on both their pussies. When we partner swap we like to find couples with partner is also well endowed so there can be almost a comparison situation between which partners has the largest and have the cuck situation of her being able to see the other guy’s partner being pounded by mine, while she at least gets to fuck an adequate sized cock herself. We've had some very hot sex together after swap sessions after getting the detail from the other women about how it was different being pounded by my even larger cock compared to their hubby/partner. As my current play partner is a size queen, I think it’s also a great excuse for her to keep on a personal quest to see if anyone is ever able to outsize mine, which she's still yet to find.


As long as your open and up front about what you both want in the relationship from the onset, what is acceptable and what is off limits, you can enjoy it and have a lot of great sex.