Can straight men be jerkbuds?
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maybe I can try to masturbate with other guy but nothing els
That’s all I ever want to do with a lad nothing else a wank over Snapchat is great
Never tried.I have a mate I sense wouldn’t mind giving it a go. We have shared a lot, travelled together, spent quite a bit of time naked together in the sauna (natural thing in my culture). We do check each other...He’s also a big hugger especially when we get drunk. We are both married, but I guess the curious side is a bit tempted. I think our great friendship could handle it. Just some wank nothing more. But like said, no experience.
I have jerked my best straight friend a couple of times, however he is not into my dick that's too gay for him.
I can understand this. It’s selfish because it’s self gratifying and only requires ones own input. Potentially a lot of people can be hurt by this because you could be having awesome sex with someone else but instead deciding to just jerk your own dick for a few minutes. They may both have the same end but sex is way better physically and psychologically in the long run. Just look at how crazy incels are haha
I'm not buying it. "Selfish" implies doing something for one's own good to the exclusion or harm of someone else. Beating off doesn't fall into that category.
It's invalid to say"Potentially" people could be hurt because you could be having sex with someone else. That could apply to anything in life! "I'm gong to play tennis today, but then again, maybe I shouldn't since it'll take time away from potentially doing something more "useful" like mowing the yard. One could spend all 24 hours in a day trying to meet the needs of all these mysterious "potential" people and not come close to meeting their needs.
It's ridiculous to claim that a dude jacking off for half hour in his bedroom is somehow depriving the world of a great sex partner.You could as easily say he's being self-LESS by removing himself from the sexual "pool" because he's a terrible sex partner.
This runs awfully close to the astonishing Catholic view of masturbation; that it's wasteful and self-centered. Ugh.
Very true! I just said I could understand that statement but you bring up a better point.
Well, thanks! This must be why my friends constantly tell me I'm right... or wait... maybe I just imagined that...
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A LOT of straight married guys on cam these days. A freaking lot of them. And I love it. So under the "right conditions", stroking with another straight guy makes sense.
I've done it in my teens but with a mix of guys and girls, we all watched a porno on VHS and someone said they needed to jerk. We all joined in then plus it gave me the perfect opportunity to show off my size in front of the chicks, all the other guys were about average or just over so my dick certainly stood out and got the attention. One the girls took over jerking me and I still clearly remember her going nuts when I busted a massive load all over her, a few others caught some splatter too from what I recall.
My sister in law gets a kik out of it. It started guz she used to always try to semi flash me at times, and one time others went to church, then it became too obvious so I started jerkin when she sat in front of me with an extra short mini skirt on. Now we schedule time for it. freaking awesome
In younger jeard when we look atr looking porno it was for us normal when you had a hard one to take hem out and to empty.
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If you and the other bro have a chill vibe and are on the same page of how you view it then go for it. Jerking off and reliving yourself in front of another male doesn't indicate whatsoever that you are attracted to that dude at all. For me, it could be about having the comfort to just be real men in front of each other where the things you do alone as men can also be done in front of each other if the comfort between the two of you is there. Some straight dudes are uncomfortable with that notion and thats cool for them and totally ok but for some it's not a big deal at all. If me and another bro don't give a fuck about having to leave the room then im beating my dick like he's not even there or how I would if I were alone. I dont give a fuck and other straight dudes being uncomfortable with it isn't going to change how I look at it at all. Be you and do you. I think a ton of bros find camaraderie in bonding over these types of things and having that freedom around each other but are severely affected by how society would view it and so they don't at all. What matters is what you and your bro think about it and if you both are on the same page about it. Jerking off in the same room has nothing to do with sexuality whatsoever in my opinion nor does comfort equate to that either. I had one roommate where we never wanted to feel uncomfortable in front of each other and we would jerk off in front of each other plenty of times. We both understood it from the same perspective and it made not one fucking dent to our identity at all. There were so many times were one wasn't even remotely aware the other was beating their dick because it was that chill and understood we that we had needs just like there were also times where one would ask to save the porn for the other. Go for it if you and the bro are on the same page and make sure you high five when you are done.
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No. The only exception is the first Thursday of the odd numbered months during a leap year and then it requires written authorization, to be legally sanctioned.
Otherwise the party of the first part and the party of the second part are engaging in gay forms of mutual entertainment and no longer considered "straight" by your standards.
They can then elect the option of becoming gay or bi jerkbuds at their discretion.
Otherwise the party of the first part and the party of the second part are engaging in gay forms of mutual entertainment and no longer considered "straight" by your standards.
They can then elect the option of becoming gay or bi jerkbuds at their discretion.
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