Can straight men be jerkbuds?

[someperson]

So are u going to explain why u want to jerk off in the prescene of another male

big dick porn?

 

[Tosantos]

no straight guys don't go out looking for sexual activities with other men

 

[notthatguy]

Sure, why not. We all do it, why can it not be at socialable.

 

[Jjz1109]

Wow. This one is tough. I read here lots of guys who share chicks (or fantasize about it) and have no problem being in a room naked with another dude, presumably enjoying the experience and urging each other on. So because we dudes want to share something we all love to do, and choose to do it with a bud present, we’re suddenly “gay”? Two buds jerking to some hot porn and getting off now makes one gay? I don’t know. I. Truly. Don’t. Know. I would say it depends how confident you feel with yourself. and whether or not you want to do it.

 

[Joshua.Martiny]

I agree @Jjz1109 I am pretty confident. I know it sounds strange to b naked around another guy, but like you said. I think it would be like sharing a pussy. Except we're jerking off!

 

[Lucius2s1]

I agree @Jjz1109 I am pretty confident. I know it sounds strange to b naked around another guy, but like you said. I think it would be like sharing a pussy. Except we're jerking off!

Agreed!!

 

[LeftHandLuke]

I hope to find one someday. Similar interests so we don't look odd to our wife/gf. I'm sure I've come across a few guys while enjoying my hobbies but never knew it. Oh well. One day it'll happen.

 

[939282]

Looking for the same thing honestly sucks and in the same boat of losing a long time gf... just want a jo bro that’s it

 

[Revone]

I hope to find one someday. Similar interests so we don't look odd to our wife/gf. I'm sure I've come across a few guys while enjoying my hobbies but never knew it. Oh well. One day it'll happen.

Really, just a buddy to hang out with who has the same interests so it’s normal getting together. I’m sure I’ve met a few guys too and didn’t know it.

 

[554279]

Just my opinion but the activity itself between two or more males whether spontaneous, planned, coordinated or unplanned (jerking with or in front of another guy) is gay, regardless of whether you're straight or not.

It doesn't matter what kind of porn you're watching, if you have your cock out and you're jerking off with another guy you should be prepared for or anticipate that the other guy may want it to go further.

If a female offered to masturbate with you while you were watching straight or lesbian porn, would you just sit there without pushing the envelope?

If you're having a hard time finding takers, go figure right?

 

[jimmymac4]

Nice topic. I agree it can just be a jerk off for the sake of it, as some horny teenage boys do on holidays when they’re sharing girls or raring each other on through OTT macho activities. But I also agree that there are gonna be some guys who want more and can’t understand the concept of it “just” being a wank. I haven’t found many open forums where guys or different sexualities can be this comfortable just talking about sex and/or feelings. Which is kinda sad but it is what it is. Hopefully you do find someone but at the same time, least (well, it sounds like it) you weren’t a total dick to the guys who did want a bit more. Stay clear, be consistent and assertive with what you want and test the waters. Keep us posted!

 

[Chrysippus]

I wouldn’t know.

 

[twoton]

No. Straight men aren't interested in engaging in same-sex sexual activity. If they are interested, they are either gay or bisexual.
I cannot imagine any situation wherein I would find myself at all inspired to masturbate in the presence of another man.

 

[HAND_cock]

Just my opinion but the activity itself between two or more males whether spontaneous, planned, coordinated or unplanned (jerking with or in front of another guy) is gay, regardless of whether you're straight or not.

It doesn't matter what kind of porn you're watching, if you have your cock out and you're jerking off with another guy you should be prepared for or anticipate that the other guy may want it to go further.

If a female offered to masturbate with you while you were watching straight or lesbian porn, would you just sit there without pushing the envelope?

If you're having a hard time finding takers, go figure right?

Point well said and agree.

 

[njfellow2002]

OP--- and anyone else--- please define 'jerk buds'--- does that mean just jerking your own cock (no touching each other) or does that mean mutual masturbation? I know a guy that I met off another sight and we have sometimes watched porn and taken care of our own cocks. Is that what you mean by 'jerk bud'

 

[Domtakdom]

You might be curious but you’re definitely NOT straight.
Do you even know what straight means?

 

[Road_cyclist]

Just my opinion but the activity itself between two or more males whether spontaneous, planned, coordinated or unplanned (jerking with or in front of another guy) is gay, regardless of whether you're straight or not.

I respect your opinion, because nobody is the same. But I would like to apply my point of view to it. What you are saying here is very binary. It sounds as if you are actually saying that all straight, curious, and bi men (and everything in between) are actually gay once they jerk together.

It doesn't matter what kind of porn you're watching, if you have your cock out and you're jerking off with another guy you should be prepared for or anticipate that the other guy may want it to go further.

IMHO that says more about being uncertain about the sexuality of oneself or the sexuality of the other than what jerking off actually is.

If a female offered to masturbate with you while you were watching straight or lesbian porn, would you just sit there without pushing the envelope?

That would definitely be very difficult for a straight man. But I guess it wouldn't be a challenge for a gay man. And it also wouldn't be a challenge for two straight guys who masturbate together. That is, if they are sure about their sexuality.

If you're having a hard time finding takers, go figure right?

makes me wonder how many men are actually out there who would be interested to jerk off with a bud, but are afraid of labels.

To wrap it up. I jerk off with my best bud and believe me, there is no pushing of boundaries and also no desire to push boundaries to go further than that. IMHO we're just best buds who trust each other and ourselves enough to do together what most guys only dare doing alone. So why the labels?

 

[collegebud6]

agree with the original post. hard to find buds that are just into JO. unless it happens naturally, and unplanned, usually if it is advertised, like on doublelist, or even here, dudes that answer are looking for way more than just mutual JO.

 

[PervyMcGee]

good thread for discussion. from my personal experience, i had a bunch of JO sessions with a 2 different buddies and for the longest time there was no mutual contact. just watching porn and stroking off. it was only when one of my buddies asked if i would be interested in stroking him that I got it into my mind to try touching another guys cock. really not interested in doing anything more than that but i find I do enjoy stroking a big dick. so i guess as long as you are clear with your JO buddy and clear about boundaries, anything could be (or not be) on the table. Just be honest with yourself and your bud.

 

[wombat]

sounds about the same as i experienced when i started jo with others .. it is very weird the first time someone else tries to hold ur dik.. or try to kiss u

i would say dont be in a hurry it all takes time .. i am in a kik group with 20 guys in the same situation looking for str8 jo buds sadly none of us are near each other lol

Might be worth posting up that group if they are happy with it. Thete might be some in the same situation that might want to join and could be close to them.