Ladies...what is your cut off point for size?

[Principessa]

This is why NJ is 41 single and living with mom and dad.No man want's a female like this in his bed.

God, you are such an ignorant ass! I am sorry I took you off ignore, but that can be readily fixed. :biggrin1:

For the record I chose to move into my parents home; because my dad was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease two years ago. As I am not the cold, heartless bitch you seem to think I am, I chose to assist in the care of my dad rather than just shove him off into some second rate nursing home as I'm sure you would have done.

As for my answer I should have known better than to respond; but the OP asked a question and I answered it. I answered it based on my own experience. Perhaps if I had slept with more men my answer would have been different.

 

[snoozan]

Perhaps, but didn't that thread gravitate towards griping about women's clothes size 14 or under, clothes that don't have shape and so on. Basically the smoke and mirrors to mask the problem of weight control and regular exercise. One post was even about spandex and it's ability to smooth out the lumps and bulges. When that spandex comes off, that body is going right back to it's natural state.

I made the post about the spandex. I'm 5'9". I weigh 165 pounds and exercise 3-5 times a week. I'm a US size 10. The reason I wear spandex is not to "fool" anyone-- only my husband and girlfriends see me naked-- but to smooth out my body under clothing, which for the vast majority of people is the only way they are going to see me.

That topic isn't about smoke and mirrors or whatever bullshit you're yakking about. It veered off into the direction of finding attractive plus-sized clothing for the women on this site because it's something of concern to many of us. Face it-- most women at some point in their lives are overweight. Whether it's due to pregnancy, stress, or other factors, women tend to go up and down on the scale. Unless you're gay or never get into a relationship, at some point you're going to have a fat cow on your hands. You might want to get used to the idea.

But whatever. Go jerk off to some over-Photoshopped porn with women who have had every conceiveable cosmetic procedure done that's available instead of bitching about women "fooling" men with makeup etc.

I still don't get what your major malfunction is anyway. Why did you drag that crap into here anyway?

Oh, and to the guy who thinks the women on here are men, you can ask the 10 or so people from this site that have met me about that.

 

[The Dragon]

But don't forget Snoozan we women will do anything to decive men into beliving we are something that we are not!
We will even wear high heels to trick men into beliving we are taller and more powerful than we really are!

 

[snoozan]

But don't forget Snoozan we women will do anything to decive men into beliving we are something that we are not!
We will even wear high heels to trick men into beliving we are taller and more powerful than we really are!

I wear high heels not to trick men into believing I am something I'm not but to remind them that I can shove something hard and pointy into their crotches at any given moment. But that's just me.

 

[Drifterwood]

That makes us even then.

 

[The Dragon]

I wear high heels not to trick men into believing I am something I'm not but to remind them that I can shove something hard and pointy into their crotches at any given moment. But that's just me.

I hear you!!
Nothing quite gets their attention like a heel parked on their scrotums.
It certainly stops them staring at my breasts.

 

[Catchoftheday]

This is why NJ is 41 single and living with mom and dad.No man want's a female like this in his bed.

Maybe you are right:frown1:
Maybe you are wrong :biggrin1::redface:
:tongue:

 

[Stretch]

I hear you!!
Nothing quite gets their attention like a heel parked on their scrotums.
It certainly stops them staring at my beasts.

gulp ...I promise I will never look at your breasts or your beasts again D...:smile:

 

[Stretch]

Okay...actually I hardly ever promise :smile:

 

[The Dragon]

Well deary...just watch the teeth and the claws as well.

 

[snoozan]

That makes us even then.

nice sig. that's okay, me and my fun-sized vagina will make you change that quick.

 

[transformer_99]

I've never seen a size zero in the flesh, but in bikinis they gross me out. Just my POV.

Yes and that thread was about thinner women, not size zero models look better clothed. You get no argument here from size zero needing to be fed first 7 foremost, then nursed back to health before any one worries about seeing them in a bikini or naked.

 

[Drifterwood]

nice sig. that's okay, me and my fun-sized vagina will make you change that quick.

Done - but you know I only want you for your ass.

Oh and deep throating the big one.

 

[transformer_99]

exercise 3-5 times a week.

Want to really firm up ? Get away from the gym and run instead. I belonged to a Bally's a few years back, wasted more time waiting for free weights because of the volume of people working out. It wasn't any better over by the resistance machines. Then I realized I was driving 20 minutes each way because of traffic. I found lacing up the sneakers and jogging or even bicycling around the neighborhood was more cardio than I was ever getting @ Bally's. I also found I had time to do other things, my gasoline went further each week. Right now, I'll play soccer on a vacant field in the area if that mood strikes me. I don't need spandex to enhance my appearance for dressing for work or social functions. 45 minutes is 45 minutes for a workout, be honest with yourself, can you run a mile currently with your 3-5 day a week regime at the gym ? Can you cycle 10-15 miles in under an hour ? I guarantee you'll find either of those challenges will be something that makes you use muscles that you've never used in the gym. It's one thing to cycle @ the gym on a machine, yet another to actually ride into head winds and real road grades. You can't just press a couple of buttons and make those disappear when you exercise in the real world. Personal fitness is not a group activity. It's an individual sport. It'll be boring, you will be alone, but if true to yourself, in the end you will be fitter for it.

Don't get me wrong, the gym has it's place too, just not for cardio.

 

[snoozan]

Want to really firm up ? Get away from the gym and run instead. I belonged to a Bally's a few years back, wasted more time waiting for free weights because of the volume of people working out. It wasn't any better over by the resistance machines. Then I realized I was driving 20 minutes each way because of traffic. I found lacing up the sneakers and jogging or even bicycling around the neighborhood was more cardio than I was ever getting @ Bally's. I also found I had time to do other things, my gasoline went further each week. Right now, I'll play soccer on a vacant field in the area if that mood strikes me. I don't need spandex to enhance my appearance for dressing for work or social functions. 45 minutes is 45 minutes for a workout, be honest with yourself, can you run a mile currently with your 3-5 day a week regime at the gym ? Can you cycle 10-15 miles in under an hour ? I guarantee you'll find either of those challenges will be something that makes you use muscles that you've never used in the gym. It's one thing to cycle @ the gym on a machine, yet another to actually ride into head winds and real road grades. You can't just press a couple of buttons and make those disappear when you exercise in the real world. Personal fitness is not a group activity. It's an individual sport. It'll be boring, you will be alone, but if true to yourself, in the end you will be fitter for it.

Don't get me wrong, the gym has it's place too, just not for cardio.

When did I tell you what my exercise regimen is and, more importantly, when did I ask for your advice?

I'm sure you look lovely sans spandex, but you try having a pregnancy and c-section that disfigure your abdomen and then tell me that you don't need it.

 

[transformer_99]

I made the post about the spandex. I'm 5'9". I weigh 165 pounds and exercise 3-5 times a week.

You did right here, and take it any way you want to, just a suggestion. I know when someone indicates they are 29 in their profile (if that much is even true), tells me they hit the gym 3-5 times a week, then goes on about spandex shaping the flabby areas. Well, you know what the reality of the situation is and how hard you are really breaking a sweat. I know a lady that is well into her 40's & has had 3 children just the same, she works out closer to 5 days a week too, only she is fitter than I am, it's not genetic, she's doing the workload and diet. Granted she doesn't work and has all day to get it done, but even there it takes the commitment and effort. She may be an exception ? Though I doubt it, she's a hard worker at that aspect of her life. I look at a lot of 20 & 30 somethings, even high school kids and it's a shame they'll never be fit in their lives. But that's another topic altogether. BTW, why don't you sue the quack that botched your c-section. Granted you should have a scar from it, but disfigurement of your abdomen ? Healthcare in America is getting pretty slack for the premiums and oop costs they charge these days ?

But you are absolutely right, you didn't ask for advices, so I will refrain from suggesting them for you.

 

[Principessa]

When did I tell you what my exercise regimen is and, more importantly, when did I ask for your advice?

I'm sure you look lovely sans spandex, but you try having a pregnancy and c-section that disfigure your abdomen and then tell me that you don't need it.

Girlfriend please! I've never been pregnant and Spanx are my best friend.

Ignore transformer99, You look fabulous and you are doing the right thing for you and your body.

I tend to take the advice of any man who has been here over a year and has no pics and no profile with a grain of salt.

 

[HazelGod]

We will even wear high heels to trick men into beliving we are taller and more powerful than we really are!

They make you taller? I hadn't noticed that.

I just like them because they make your ass poke out so invitingly... :biggrin1:

 

[snoozan]

You did right here, and take it any way you want to, just a suggestion. I know when someone indicates they are 29 in their profile (if that much is even true), tells me they hit the gym 3-5 times a week, then goes on about spandex shaping the flabby areas.

So you automatically know what my workout regimen is from that? You're a fucking psychic, dude.

Well, you know what the reality of the situation is and how hard you are really breaking a sweat.

Yes I do, and I am damned proud of myself for it.

I know a lady that is well into her 40's & has had 3 children just the same, she works out closer to 5 days a week too, only she is fitter than I am, it's not genetic, she's doing the workload and diet.

I bet she has at least 1 pair of Spanx. :wink:

BTW, why don't you sue the quack that botched your c-section. Granted you should have a scar from it, but disfigurement of your abdomen ? Healthcare in America is getting pretty slack for the premiums and oop costs they charge these days ?

To think that I didn't ask your advice about this either.

Girlfriend please! I've never been pregnant and Spanx are my best friend.

Aren't they great? I don't know why I didn't try them sooner.

Ignore transformer99, You look fabulous and you are doing the right thing for you and your body.

Thank you. I really can't get more than mildly annoyed at him because I know how well I've done and I'm really happy with the results of all the hard work I've put into getting in shape. I also imagine that he's a lot less qualified to tell me how to work out than the competitive bodybuilder who is my personal trainer.

I tend to take the advice of any man who has been here over a year and has no pics and no profile with a grain of salt.

According to him, I'm lying about my age which, again, is laughable coming from someone who can't even post a pic or a profile.

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Female? I didn't think you were picky on species.

Yes the circus must be slow. Nothing worse than a unemployed clown. Visions of drinking Clorox and selling Christmas cards in June.