Been married to my wife for 8 years and together since high school. She’s very very sexy and guys always hit on her. Over time i developed a curiosity or fetish for sharing my wife. After a lot of convincing my wife finally agreed to try another guy. She was sort of seduced by this guy who was built like a God and had a huge dick. At first in the moment it was reallyyyy hot. I am recently having regrets though. My wife warned me that this guy could ruin sex between us because he’s so big and she may be rite. I can’t shake the feeling that I can’t and won’t ever make her cum like he did. She went crazy with him and even did things she never did with me and that kind of bothers me. The way she sucked his dick is what bothers me the most when I think about it because she’s never given me head with that type of enthusiasm before. I know 100% it is what I wanted and not her fault at all but I am starting to have a lot of regret. Any thoughts?? Thanks All!
Well she did warn you... It was your kink not hers.
Carefull what you wish for.
Carefull what you wish for.
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That’s allot for a first post! Did you all discuss what would happen before it happened? That seems to help. I’d recommend not doing it again if you have regrets.
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Do you love her? Does she love you? How is your relationship?
You tagged cheating but this is not the case since you were present.
Handle your fears she kept choosing you for 8 years and your cock is part of that equation, talk about it with her.
Ruin for other men is a stupid porn phrase if you look on ask woman or ask politely you will get that answer. She marry you not your cock.
The enthusiasm could be the novelty for her or your jealousy speaking.
Talk to her about this how bad you felt you will be alright.
That's what can happen when you try these things without thinking it through properly bruh, I've been on the swing scene for years and got my wife into it too when we met. We always meet couples first to discuss and explain as much we can the dangers of the lifestyle especially for the insecurities of the guy that's being cucked or even a straight swap, we totally avoid threesomes it's couples or nothing, what you describe I've seen many times with couples we've been with that weren't really ready or suited to the lifestyle, in the big picture size may not matter, but for recreational sex size can make a huge difference especially if it's a woman's first time with a hung guy bruh.
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Not sure if this helps or not, but last year I had my first really big cock and it was amazing. Like super crazy amazing. But I still love my hubby more than anything in the world and still love fucking him. Do I want more huge cock? Well I'm here now, so obviously yes. Does that mean I don't love sex with hubby? Not at all.
Just be honest with her. Tell her you're regretting it all and ask if she'd be willing to stop at one experience, or maybe make it a super rare thing.
If this was all said earlier in the thread, sorry lol. Soooo much to read!
Just be honest with her. Tell her you're regretting it all and ask if she'd be willing to stop at one experience, or maybe make it a super rare thing.
If this was all said earlier in the thread, sorry lol. Soooo much to read!
Bullshit detected
Wait...you're in New York, and were "on a break" when she had sex with another guy?
Ross Geller, is that you??
We do love eachother. Our relationship was fine I would just say things were so stale. Her confidence was low which is insane because she really is hot with a rocking body. Within minutes of posting her picture she had dozens and dozens of guys responding. So I guess I wanted to do something to ignite a spark. I’ve been into hotwife porn lately so I finally pursued that fantasy. The only reason I say ruin is because he stretched her out and she seemed to really like the size of his dick ya know. I can’t do anything about my dick size obviously. The first time we had sex after she had sex with him was amazing. She was the wettest she has ever been. I guess the jealousy comes from the fact that she really let him have his way with her and she did a lot of things with him that she doesn’t do with me. When she gives me head it’s more like doing me a favor when she gave him head she was slobbering all over his dick like it was an ice cream cone or something. She seemed to get off just by sucking him. Is that because he was so big? Because he had a better body? Or was she just turned on by a different cock for a change I dunno
Yeah I understand that but I mean she was into it too she’s just more conservative so it took me convincing her. But she definitely seemed into the kink of me watching her. She referenced a few times while exchanging emails with him how much bigger he was than me. “My husband is above average but your so much bigger” “My husband is pretty thick but yours is a lot thicker and longer”. I mean to me that totally sounds like she was kind of turned on by a guy with a bigger dick than her husband doesn’t it?
I think this right here is excellent advice. Communication, like anything else in a relationship is key. Let her know how you feel and she may understand and curtail her adventures with this man.
@amazzzed2 also had some pretty good advice earlier in the thread. It sounds like there's two possible solutions to your dilemma. If you are unhappy with her having sex with this man, make this known to her and if she truly cares about you, she'll stop.
The other solution is (if you enjoyed her being with him) to come to grips with your fetish and embrace it. Also realize that, even if another brings her body to heights of ecstasy you haven't made her reach, it's YOU that she loves and remains with. There are plenty of ways to show your connection with her and make her a quivering puddle of bliss.
My own wife has had much, much larger guys than myself, but I am nothing if not creative and resourceful. There are ways I make her forget all about them.
Think you hit the nail on the head. I watched as my wife went through that. He ate her out for a long time and warmed her up. Like you said the anticipation was hot for her. I can see her practically cumming as she played with and sucked his dick. She was really into it an squirming. She always said a big cock was visually hot to look at when we watched porn but she didn’t wanna try it. After a while she finally gave in. He started very slow and worked his way in and before long he was all out fucking her. The fact that he was huge is a big factor but he was actually good at sex so I think that was the biggest factor
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Crazy thought: You say that she did this for you, and that you've been watching a lot of cuckold porn. Maybe, just maybe, she loves you and wants you to be happy, so she played a role and is continuing to play a role.
Umm I don’t know my girth actually I really never measured that lol. I think I’m decently thick. He was extremely thick. Not sure his girth but he claimed his dick was 10inches. Not sure if it was but it was huge so I think it’s possible. My wife couldn’t wrap her entire hand around his dick put it that way.
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I’m starting to agree with the bullshit post.
You are so centered on weeping that smells sph. I this is real stop speaking with strangers and speak with your wife.
See all the categories of the forum several might be useful, ask a woman for instance.
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Bshit...
Its just a story to hook up everyone!
Cool idea, exaggerate dimension..
No proves..no screenshot...no photos...
Difficult to believe!
Its just a story to hook up everyone!
Cool idea, exaggerate dimension..
No proves..no screenshot...no photos...
Difficult to believe!
From my experience, cuckold relationships only work successfully when the husband can set aside his ego and insecurity, and focus on his wife's pleasure. You said that you have a good marriage, and her experiences with him have improved your sex life together. You can't put the genie back into the bottle, so my suggestion is that you not try to compete with him, but to let her enjoy herself with him, and you enjoy getting to watch and make love with her afterwards.
It's a combination of things really bruh, the pain issue is very individual if a woman isn't used to being stretched both width and depth wise, some women experience a little discomfort and or pain, some feel a lot of pain to the point of tapping out sometimes. With regard to the visual that's often a big impact in its own right, again individual whether it's shock, surprise, excitement, fear or a combination of all.
Obviously a large cock is going to have the potential to fill the whole vagina at once stretching it deeper and wider than a small cock can, stimulating all parts at once.
Foreplay and warming up is essential for an inexperienced woman that's not used to a large penis along with lube etc, angle of penetration and pace are important to try and avoid too much discomfort too early and the risk of vaginal tearing.
Once all's going well I've had women cumming all over my dick that have said that they've never experienced even the slightest orgasam with their usual partner or husband, in my opinion that's what makes the biggest difference, the experience as a whole with a large penis, the anticipation, the challenge, the way it takes their breath away, giving their body a full workout, the pleasure they experience, the way they react body mind and soul, the way they're left exhausted and shattered but truly satisfied. One of the biggest changes sex with a large penis can make is on a woman's mind in my experience, the way it raises the bar, changing their expectations for what great sex should feel like and what it can do. Once the mind knows how good it was there's no way to go back to what her expectations were before, that's what truly makes the difference.
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I think you are totally right Mike, maybe some women physically can't take a large cock, but for most women its proper arousal and technique to get her to adjust and appreciate the extra size of a large cock.
I think one thing that a lot of these different sites(quora, reddit, etc.)where women talk about large cocks being painful is that the guys that they were attached to had no love making skills, and you can imagine a guy with a large cock trying to shove it in her vagina when it's dry and not aroused, it would be agony.
Where in your situation it's the opposite spending time getting her ready through mental conditioning, lots of arousal, and being gentle while she adjusts to the extra large size.
Also a lot of women experiences have only been with average sized dicks, they will not be aware of all those areas deep in their vagina, as well as the ones that need more pressure( bigger girth) to be aroused properly. Both of these characteristics can cause those intense mind blowing orgasms that she could only have experienced with a talented lover with a big cock, so in other words, she doesn't know what she is missing.
So when women are asked if size makes any difference and all she's had and has known are either small or average cocks, or a big one where the guy is too dumb to know how to use it properly, can leave a impression that size doesn't matter or they are painful.
Until I suppose until they experience something like the treatment you give them Mike, or the other poster that's wife had a great experience with big cock, women don't know what they are missing.
You can see this genuinely most in amature Videos where the woman is fully aroused and is getting fucked by a very large cock, you can witness the amazing intensity and how rapid her orgasms are by her body or leg shaking, hands grabbing the sheets(on the bed), toe curls, and her eyes rolling in the back of her head. The sexual sounds a woman makes are so different too between the different cock sizes. With a average cock women don't generally make too many sounds of arousal. With a really big cock the sounds the woman makes are usually non stop either OMG, or shit, fuck some words similar. Lots of sounds of pleasure that coordinate with the thrusting of the large cock, as the intensity is so real and greater than a average cock.
I think it's very true a woman will not leave a husband/partner for cock size alone, but sometimes guys will think this way, when infact there are other reasons why in a relationship a woman leaves. Just from a womans sexual satisfaction standpoint, the age old saying "bigger is better" does have a ring of truth to it.
BTW Mike speaking of amature videos, you posted one of you fucking one of your friends, can you please post more videos of you fucking her or different women , thanks
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Got it in one right there bruh, and those deep guttural groans and screams that a woman delivers as I'm sliding my girth deep into her body are such a turn on for me as well, melting a woman's mind with your dick and skill is awesome.
Those guys that got the dick but no skills hopefully will learn, I did, everybody has to start somewhere, thankfully for myself I had some great teachers in the women I chose as sexual partners from a young age.
RE videos I only share what's appropriate (no faces or distinguishing marks or tattoos) and only with consent bruh.
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