Did You Grow Up Where Male Nudity was Commonplace With Your Dad/Brothers/Uncles/Cousins?

[ActionBuddy]

I grew up sharing a bedroom with my 2 brothers. My dad had his own room, but he often had girlfriends stay over. We are latino and there is a sorta stereotypical machismo with my dad, but with a few weird aspects like my dad was super proud of our cock sizes. I am the youngest and I remember my dad telling his friends and our uncles that my oldest brother had a massive cock and that we all have big cocks since we were young. I honestly didn't know any different at first, but I knew my dad was proud of it so I was proud of it. In our room at night, we would play games that often resulted in us getting naked, comparing cocks, helping each other get hard so we can compare or measure our cocks. It was such a common thing that we just got used to being naked in front of each other. We didn't let our dad know that we were jerking off together and watching porn together and stuff, but when it was just us, we did that stuff all the time.

You guys were very lucky to have a Dad that was proud of you guys and even more, about your cock sizes!

That must have been a positive experience for you, and I bet it gave you a lot of self confidence, as you grew older and later became sexually involved.

Congrats to you!

A/B

 

[Pepijn]

Grew up with parents who didn’t really encourage this openly but definitely want to encourage it with my future sons. Anyone have advice or suggestions?

Just do it. Start with not locking bathroom doors. Walk around nude and be serious when they ask anything.

 

[deleted21745221]

I come from a rarher conservatory family bur my dad wasn’t shy around the house when it was just us. I clearly remember him one morning parading around the kitchen with his morning wood very visibleunder his pj. That’s when I realized he’s a shower but mainly a grower. I saw him naked (changing or getting in/ out of the shower)

My first actual nude experience with a family member was with an uncle of mine. The two of us went to a big spa (he lives in another country) were we ended showering in (my first) open shower room - huge room, no separators or anything, just naked men showering… i got to look at him a few times while desperately trying to avoid sporting a huge erection

 

[Subson4topdad]

Kinda the way I raised my boys. 3 of them, you can be you with nothing to be ashamed of. If you're comfortable being naked, be naked. And many times we all are, if it's just us at the house. If they have friends over, then we are to be told so the rest of us know not to walk out of our rooms naked. 2 of my sons' friends have joined in our free to be comfy beliefs. One I know is bi, he's very attractive and 20yo now (yes I've had legal contact with him) Hes a hung young stud. I know he always enjoyed being here and being naked in our house with us. Being as we have a traveled a lot and had change, shower etc in front of each other, we have no reservations if it is just us. My youngest has a friend that discovered on accident we hang out naked a lot when at home and joined us when he is here. My all my sons reached a certain age, I stood with them naked in the mirror and told them our bodies are something to be proud of and they have nothing to be ashamed of. Their body is theirs to take care of or not its the only one we have and its ours for life, if they feel comfortable being nude, then they are allowed to be nude in the house but not everyone has the same belief and not to just mention it so its not taken the wrong way by others. They understood. They're all fit guys. They are confident and strong. I raised them that way.

What lucky sons they are. Showered and changed with my Dad plenty, wish he were bi too. He definitely has a lot to be proud of too

 

[deleted21745221]

Growing up there was virtually no nudity in the house. Everyone changed in their own bedrooms and there was no sharing of bathrooms. I lived with my parents and siblings for 23 years of my life and I never even had a glimpse of anyone's naked body. I think some if not all of my issues with body image and not feeling comfortable enough in my own skin may stem from the way my family dealt with nudity and sexuality around the house. I don't know if I'll ever have kids, but if I do, I'd surely do things differently.

I agree 100%. Though i did get to see my dad naked i very rarely took off my clothes in front of him and he never encouraged me to do it. I was actually really shy to do that in front of other men for many years after i moved out. In my 30s I realized how different my life would’ve been if he had a different mindset but it is what it is ) I definitely learned from his mistakes and i know i’ll do things differently with my kids, if i’ll have any

 

[Jon1971]

Nope. No brothers, and my male cousin wasn't born until I was in college. I really didn't see my dad nude either.

 

[morningriser]

I still think about the time in Boy Scouts I went to shower with my swim trunks on and one of the den dads told me not to waste time with shorts and just shower naked. Changed my attitude immediately.

 

[Pepijn]

Being naked shouldn’t be a problem. Masturbating in front of him is another level.

 

[Linkguy13]

Being naked shouldn’t be a problem. Masturbating in front of him is another level.

Never thought anything negative.

 

[Linkguy13]

I've been naked around my uncle before! We go to the gym and then take a shower together

I have uncles I've been in gym showers with at the Y and I've skinny dipped during camping trips at night.

 

[Pepijn]

Bi

When I was a young teen I asked my dad and my uncles after changing out of our swim suits at the YMCA what their dick sizes were and whose the longest and girthest. My uncle Dusty is the shortest with a length of 7.5" may dad is next at 7 7/8" and then I am next with 8 3/8" and my uncle Eddie with a big 8 3/4". I have the biggest girth then dad then uncle Dusty and finish my uncle Eddie.

Big sizes. Blessed family

 

[Linkguy13]

Bi

Big sizes. Blessed family

My dad's house used to have horse ranch across the street and we were eating outside in the front porch. My horse across the street got a hardon and my uncle Eddie spoke up and said look that horse must be a Goddard. My dad and uncles and my step brother laughed out loud. My step brother almost choked on his food.

 

[bredrbull]

Was def not raised in a nudist household. But my ol man would often walk around the house naked. I think (1) he was a big-time alpha type and just wanted to demonstrate his dominance in the house; and (2) he was basically proud of his body (and he had every right to be) and liked to show it off. He def encouraged me to be proud of my body as well.

Never forget when he had me stand in front of a mirror naked. Asked me what I saw. I was scared shitless that I would say the wrong thing. You did not mess around with my ol man (he had a strap and did not hesitate to use it). I said something stupid about seeing my naked body. He said he saw a man, that he was proud of me and my body, and that I should be too. Super-weird at the time. But looking back, it was a heavy bonding experience between us that I never forgot. It represented some sorta new chapter in our relationship as father and son.

I started living naked in college and continue to live that way to this day.

 

[bravesoldier]

Was def not raised in a nudist household. But my ol man would often walk around the house naked. I think (1) he was a big-time alpha type and just wanted to demonstrate his dominance in the house; and (2) he was basically proud of his body (and he had every right to be) and liked to show it off. He def encouraged me to be proud of my body as well.

Never forget when he had me stand in front of a mirror naked. Asked me what I saw. I was scared shitless that I would say the wrong thing. You did not mess around with my ol man (he had a strap and did not hesitate to use it). I said something stupid about seeing my naked body. He said he saw a man, that he was proud of me and my body, and that I should be too. Super-weird at the time. But looking back, it was a heavy bonding experience between us that I never forgot. It represented some sorta new chapter in our relationship as father and son.

I started living naked in college and continue to live that way to this day.

If that's you in your avatar, which I imagine is, you have every right to be prod of your body. My body ideal. Natural tone and very trim. Looks great.

 

[squir514]

I grew up sharing a bedroom with my 2 brothers. My dad had his own room, but he often had girlfriends stay over. We are latino and there is a sorta stereotypical machismo with my dad, but with a few weird aspects like my dad was super proud of our cock sizes. I am the youngest and I remember my dad telling his friends and our uncles that my oldest brother had a massive cock and that we all have big cocks since we were young. I honestly didn't know any different at first, but I knew my dad was proud of it so I was proud of it. In our room at night, we would play games that often resulted in us getting naked, comparing cocks, helping each other get hard so we can compare or measure our cocks. It was such a common thing that we just got used to being naked in front of each other. We didn't let our dad know that we were jerking off together and watching porn together and stuff, but when it was just us, we did that stuff all the time.

same here my dad catch me with me brother

 

[KNIK]

If that's you in your avatar, which I imagine is, you have every right to be prod of your body. My body ideal. Natural tone and very trim. Looks great.

That's a porn star...

 

[Hyker]

You guys were very lucky to have a Dad that was proud of you guys and even more, about your cock sizes!

That must have been a positive experience for you, and I bet it gave you a lot of self confidence, as you grew older and later became sexually involved.

Congrats to you!

A/B

My brother and I often did the same. Was great brother bonding, we our grown up and live separately now that we are both "out of the house" but are great friends beyond just being brothers. Would your dad had reacted negatively to you and your brothers comparing and masturbating together?

 

[Linkguy13]

My brother and I often did the same. Was great brother bonding, we our grown up and live separately now that we are both "out of the house" but are great friends beyond just being brothers. Would your dad had reacted negatively to you and your brothers comparing and masturbating together?

My step brother never would compare with me because he is average size and I am above average. Now when he drank he would jerk off no problem.

 

[williews]

I was the oldest child in my family, and then had three younger sisters. I do recall my father walking around often in his boxers; I admit to being very curious and peeking when he would sit down while wearing them. As my sisters came along and started to grow my mother must have said something to him as he no longer would just wear his underwear around the house, I can only recall seeing him nude once, we were having a severe drought at the time and he thought we should shower together. He wasn't at all modest and didn't hide his body.

I knew he was very hairy from having seen him shirtless, but had no idea he was uncut. Years went by until I saw him naked again a few times when he was elderly.I'm glad I got to see it again as I had forgotten much of what it looked like.

 

[Linkguy13]

I was the oldest child in my family, and then had three younger sisters. I do recall my father walking around often in his boxers; I admit to being very curious and peeking when he would sit down while wearing them. As my sisters came along and started to grow my mother must have said something to him as he no longer would just wear his underwear around the house, I can only recall seeing him nude once, we were having a severe drought at the time and he thought we should shower together. He wasn't at all modest and didn't hide his body.

I knew he was very hairy from having seen him shirtless, but had no idea he was uncut. Years went by until I saw him naked again a few times when he was elderly.I'm glad I got to see it again as I had forgotten much of what it looked like.

I've shared a few showers with dad to save time.