Nah, like so many others have said, it does happen in real life: there are a lot of us who are able to go all of the way with other men. I think that part of the reason why you're coming up empty handed (pun not intended :biggrin1
is because of the complexity of bisexuality. I'm not only talking about the Kinsey thread or the level of attraction that a bisexual has for women vs men, but also the fact that it comes in over 13 different forms. To a large degree, this information is quickly discarded with the "labels" argument which I think contributes to the lack of self understanding that takes place...why wouldn't one want to figure out what's really taking place inside of oneself? Rhetorical question.
A lot of bisexual men have the tendency to go with the flow ie to be sexual with men without taking the time to figure out where it is all coming from and what it is that they crave from such encounters. The interesting thing is that of late, a lot of bi-men that I am in conversation men are realising that much as they have been quick to use the labels argument and say that they only want sexual release, they're in actual fact looking for the physical intimacy and at times the emotional bond that arises from such experiences.
I suspect that a lot of your disappointment is the result of the guys not fully understanding themselves, bisexuality and how it all stands to tie up with each other....and you know what we're like, we'll get lost and refuse to stop and ask for directions. LOL
I have an equal attraction to men and women and I am an emotional as well as an integrated bisexual. Which means that I am able to have loving relationships with men with as much ease as women, in fact I need to have a primary relationship with a member of both genders.
I have been with my wife for six years and in January we celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary, so I don't think that I need to elaborate on that side, though I suspect that she's a very happy customer. LOL I have also been in deep, loving relationships with men. I have done it all with them (on the vanilla side of things) including topping as well as bottoming. On my side though, I am unable to have MMF's because of my sexual and emotional make up. I want to be with one person at a time and invest all of my attention in them at that moment in time. The thought of being between two partners at the same time is off-putting for me.
I can never only be with either a man or a woman because my experience of them on all levels are entirely different. I love the fact that with a woman I am able to approach our relationship with the spirit of being the protector and offer her a safe place. I equally love being able to be in a relationship with a man where I am able to make myself completely vulnerable with him and allow him to be my protector. The variation in contour and texture of the male and female bodies is equally mind blowing for me. I love cuddling up to my wife whilst basking in the after glow of our love making and tell her that I love her over and over again. I love sitting next to my bf - he has his knee bent on the bed. I draw it to my and place my chin upon it and proceed to caress his leg and belly whilst we have deep heart to heart sharing, basking in the afterglow of our love making. I wouldn't be as happy or fulfilled without experiencing all of these things in my life.
Perhaps it would be more respectful to offer one's thoughts and opinions or at least substantiate what one is saying when deciding to offer statements like that in one's post.
Just a thought....